| Show Dorothy Dix Talks WIVES LIKE BABIES CAN BE TRAINED S So sS BEGIN EARLY ON YOURS ADVISES DOROTHY DIX SEE THAT fAT SHE GETS LITTLE TREATS AND AMUSEMENTS WITH SOME PERSONAL MAKING LOVE THROWN IN AND IF YOU'LL TRADE THE HAMMER FOR THE SPREADER SALVE YOU'LL HAVE HER 0 E EATING TING OUT OF YOUR HAND TRAIN YOUR WIFE INTO WHAT YOU WANT HER TO BE DE you get married put In as much time and thought and imd ef ef- ef ct- ct r fl fort Into training your wife to be bo what you OU want her to be as ou ou would la iii teaching an office bo boy his hi duties and obligations Most brides are ar more mora or less plastic Virtually every girl flirt who gets married desires to make mak her husband hOppy and to live IIvo up to his hll hi Ideal of ml her hem When she falls f-alli f II I It Is II oftener 1 than not because she th he does doel doe not know knew 1 what la Is expected of her He H spoils her at first Then he h neglects her ner IB ti but he e doesn't help P her Dont Don't make mak maki i RR 1 this mistake If you are a man fit ft fitI to marry you are aro ar older than your wife you are wiser you have hav had far w more experience experienc of the world so fo Its It's t t up to you to be her counselor and guide ET El oft off on the right foot Make her feel GET AAA A J from the first that ou r retard regard gard her as DOROTHY DIX your our equal and that she th must do her partIn partin part partin in making makine me life lit a success Dont Don't put up wIth Ith slack housekeeping and bad cooking Make her realize that the wo wo- woman wo- wo woman woman man man- who dees not nol make a comfortable home lays down on her job j just st as mu much h as the man who Is too laz lazy lary to wor work to support it H It Teach her how to handle money how to spend and how to save save Its It's It ignorance nearly alwa always s when a woman ruins her husband with her extravagance And if you want your wife to be a companion to you help her to develop her mind Read with her Talk to her about the subjects in which you are arc interested Make her keep up with you in every way ON IN TN NINETY NINE cases eases out of ot a hundred a man could train his Itis ire A Into being beins what he be wanted her to be K it be he would take the trouble to do it H But Cut wives are like babies You have to begin when they are arc young You cant can't teach an old wife new tricks DONT DON'T ACT AS IF BEING G MARRIED TO YOU WAS W PARTY ENOUGH FOR ANY WOMAN OMAN jONT DONT VONT boone be bc one of or those ds v ho think that all the diversion a ai woman ne needs ds is just to be married Dont Don't think that your wife can put In a gay and happy evening merely sitting up gloating over her wedding ring Dont Don't delude yourself into believing that all th the fun that any woman needs Is 15 to cook and clean and patch and mend and tend baby for her family Far from it Marriage is no co picnic for women It is a life sentence at hard labo labor IT 11 I IT T IS the constant going soine round and round In a treadmill that ex ax ex- ex exI I the bod body but gives the brain no exercise It leaves a Oman too much time to think unhealthy thoughts to brood over o imaginary wrongs to magnify trifles to grow crow morbid or dull and so above all other human creatures she needs to have amusement amusement brought into her life Therefore no matter whether ou are tired or not or whether ou ou enjoy it or not take tak her out one or tim two evenings a week Give h her r every little treat you OU can afford arford Break the everlasting strain she sho cs lives under Give her something new and fresh to think over while she stands over the gas gal range or sew sews endless seams YO You will save uve save her her her life her reason and m much ch money in doctor bull bills And you will be b repaid a In having a jolly sane une woman to live with instead of a nagger who harps on the some old grievances because she hasn't anything else elie to think about KEEP UP YOUR MAKING LOVE LOVE l JOST OST husbands drop their making love at the altar allar and never pL 1 mention the state sUite of or their affections again acain until they get upon their death beds They rhey take lako it ft for granted that their wives will know they love them because be ause they dont don't divorce them But Dut this Is cold comfort for the women fomEn who hunger hunter and thirst for lor something with which to stay their starved souls t Dont Don't make the mistake of thinking that a woman ever gets old enough or is If married enough not to crave soft talk She never does and nd If you dont don't feed fed her on it she will lap it up from the first man that offers it to her MAKE SAKE Tl It a rule to tell your wIfe wHo on Sundays and Tuesdays that every day In every way you love her better beller and better beller On Mon Moo Mondays days ds to her that she It Js the only woman in the orld for you ou and on Thursday and Fridays and Saturdays assure her Iter that she sho hi Is Js more mor beautiful and amt fascinating than she hie was when you courted her and you will wl have a happy and contented wife who will wl rot pt out ol or your hand j I JOLLY HER Before marriage whether you flatter a woman or not is aI aI a ai I i matter matter of inclination After marriage it is I a matter of necessity necessity sity The wife's wife happiness depends upon it It is what makes all the sacrifices that every wife must make worth worthwhile worthwhile while SO S CO 0 J MAKE AKE It a point to notice your wife's wit new dress and hot hat and J when when she does her hair hail another way and tell her how well she looks She will be b as grateful to you lot tor even a diluted compliment lung flung her wa way as a starving do dog dor Is for a bone When she spent hours F cooking your favorite dish dont don't gobble eobbi It down without a comment Tell her that she th Is a wizard with the pots and pans and that you OU feet feel like hiko eating her dinners on your our knees Extol her hr economies economic and andt t e will become a aime Vinegar catches no feminine flies but they all swarm around the th honey pot pots If husband husbands would use the hammert hammer t f less and the spreader salve more there would be fewer dma dma- dis disgruntled I women who do not even try to be good wives v ive be be- be because cause they never got a word of praise anyway and so they say to themselves what's themselves what's the usel use The last five marriage hints to men will be given on Friday J DOROTHY DIX Copyright by Public Ledger |
