Show Doro Dorothy y Dix Talks IN THE SUMMER FLIRTATION GAME CAME SELECT SELECT YOUR YOUR BEST CHARM CARDS PLAY FAIR BY GIVING OTHER GIRLS A k ASHOW SHOW PUT UP A BLUFF THAT YOU ARE ABELLE A f BELLE AND FINALLY LOSE GAMELY ORWIN OR I IWIN IWIN WIN MODESTLY FATE CARDS FALL Ii Is the mice piquant with which which h the th summer r season FLIRTATION F I Is served up In winter making love-making Is If a n pastime that la Is apt Dl to end In s serious consequences at the altar and a ft man talks talka sentiment at his bli peril In summer ummer It Is I merely one ne of ot those long long- soft loft Oft drinks that tickle the tb palate paint and add zest zut to the th hour bout without going to the head bead or the heart action unduly Women understand und r tand this thi thu They are ar per pr- pr aware that the th summer flirtation I a confidence game In which each of the th parties partin I trying to sell II the other thera a goldbrick gold g ld brick It ItIs Is Ia a battle of wit wits and perhaps that Is a what makes make the affair worth while and fur the th proper amount pf of f thrills thrill MOREOVER H with a woman It Is ii In a way a test LU of The Th girl tirl who has ha lined up 4 t with the wall flowers all summer may rosy have hate the consoling consciousness con clou that she th has ha 88 saved sated fed her Into shreds thred by the th old tab tab- tabbies tab tab-bl bL tallon from being torn bles bies on the th hotel gallery but she h knows know that she lb has hai been passed up by the th summer man and In her heart she ah feels as discredited as the Indian brave who started out In full war paint p and feathers feather and who comes come home without a single scalp dangling at his hi bi belt as ai a II witness to his bli prowess Now just how the summer summer flirtation ought to be b played Is Ii a sub sub- subject subject concerning which there Is Ii much controversy y No rules are laid aid down for or the th game ame and nd experts In It refuse to disclose the various holds and nd falls falle fall by which they have h T won The Th trouble with women Is b that they think that life lICe Is IsI I I game ame In which they can call for tor their partners partner best and go EO It alone This Ii Is never the cas case caie The Th Important things hint to us are ar the cards that tho those tho-i tho e who sit lit In la the tb game came with us ua bold hold Nor does our own hand matter maller so 10 much as the th way we play It The Th tint first Important point In the th summer flirtation game then Is II I to begin right Examine your cards cardl and see what sort lort of a II hand fate fat haa hit has dolt dealt you If you are ar radically beautiful you cart cal can afford to stand pat and take tak the chances chance Otherwise you will need to draw to your one on good quality all alt of the charms that the th rules rule of the tho th game gam will allow EVER forget that a built up hand band frequently takes the th pot and NEVER N that the th girl tirl who supplements a sallow complexion and carroty hair with wInning ways has hai before now frozen out a beauty who was wa too busy contemplating her own perfections perfection to admire II a mans mans man's Ante up promptly Do your yur part In making things thing pleas pleas- pleasant pleasant pleasant ant Dont Don't D nt expect a man to do all the th work In livening up things Everybody likes like the th girl who I Is I ready for everythIng and who can enjoy a II hay ride rid on a farm wagon as much as asa asa asa a Joyride In a sports port ear and as good an appetite at a sandwich supper lupper as she ah he would If It was squab at a II swell restaurant MORE flORE In demand Is 19 the girl tirl who gets gels oft the th key but who Is al al lyl ways ready to join In a a chorus or a jazz ditty than the th prima donna who has ha to be coaxed and begged into singing Play fair Give other girls a II show Dont Don't try to monopolize the one on man at a summer resort Dont Don't Inveigle him himoff himoff himoff off Into long solitary rambles and tete tete-a-tete Dont Don't be b the piggy kind klud of a girl who when she sh he does capture a summer man wouldn't let wild horses drag her Into Introducing him to another girl A AMAN A MAN always sets that down to lean Dean jealousy and selfishness Besides it bores bore him No man Is the th hole bole bol show In life lICe to any man and unless one ono Is strong enough to win out against she had best lay down her hand and drop out of the game came I Put up a good stiff bluff now dow and then then It generally goes with men If you want to bo be b a belle bell and nd be b admired and have men falling over each other to pay you attentions a act acta t III as If you were accustomed to it No man was ever known to admire a woman that no other man admired WHETHER TI HETHER men lack Jack confidence In their own taste and judgment v or need each others other's opinion to brace brae them up nobody knows hut but you will observe that In every community there are gIrls Iris who mo- mo monopolize monopolize the attentions ot of all the th men In the neighborhood while other girls just as pretty just as attractive just as as desirable sit alt at athorn p home tucking their thumbs When It comes to the judgment of o women men are ar not Colum Colum- busts Colum-busts buses They are ar re sheep Learn when to hedge hedges Never Nev r keep a II man man man with you after he displays the th first symptoms of weariness Get tired your your- your self first Anticipate that bored feeling and send him off orr and he will return because he will not be b afraid of getting tuck stuck The Th only way wy to keep a II man Is to let him go be b the th first lint to withdraw from the little flirtation Any woman A ALSO who lets a a man break an engagement Is I too big bit a chump to live Before he h ever screws his courage up to telling her that he heIs heIs beIs Is tired of o her he h has shown It In a thousand unmIstakable ways She has lost the th day But It If she b lets Jets him tell her so she he sh Is like a defeated general nral who stays on the ta battlefield and and and- takes a thrashIng while she bad had the th o opportunity of retiring with flags flats lying flying and drums beating and all the th outward show ot of victory Dont Don't Be B a game lover Dont Don't knock other ther women It Js pro proclaiming claiming your own wn failure T THE HE girl cirl who Is always accusing other girls eirls of ot wearing handmade hand complexions and runnIng after atter men and beIng artful and deceItful hurts no nC one on ne but herself We W all 11 recognize It for envy and nd spite When you win dont don't boast of your triumphs triumph It a man loves lovea you It I Is unprincipled to parade his hi affections before others ether If he I Is merely m flirting your conquest I Is no more than certain poor por game gam a sportsman may knock over ver but counts count IN INTHE TH THE summer flirtation one on should play crow fair air crow gently U If la In pay luck luck pay up own up and shut abut up If It beaten Unless a a girl cirl can play It on those lines she ah should stay out of ot the game came DOROTHY DIX Copyright by Public Ledger Leder |