Show DORIS DEHE'S DEHES I II I Bo Boy Deserves Credit Credi for Clinging to Aim Despite Objections Objection MISS blISS DENE DENEt 1 I am sn twenty twenty- DEAR DEAU one years yeah old and have bare planned to 0 marr marry a bo boy of two twenty o who has Just started working Ills His father objects to m me and has refused to let et the boy see lee me any more al My lance fiance has consented to his bis fathers father's withes wishes He lilt came to me told me methe methe methe the truth troth and said that until he could support me without 1 his tather's fa- fa faher's fathers father's ther's hers help he would not see seo me meaD aD any more So Bo long as he Is relying on his hll father he be will not f go co o back on his ils word not to see lee me I 1 dont don't I know mow what to think or what to dov Nancy fancy Y T. In the tame same mall comes a letter from the sister of Nancy Nanc who says she knows her little mUe sister lister Is seeking my advice and advice and wishes to tell teU me methe methe methe the true facts of the caseI caseI caseI case I know writes the sister that this boy doesn't care for N. N as he should hould or be he would have stuck atuck to her through thick and thin She Is making a fool of herself and breaking break break- ing her heart over a worthless man I 1 only want to help her but I want you ou to tell ten her that this boy Isn't the man for her and that he be has shown clearly clearl that he doesn't love her Sarah Sorry ANSWER Sarah but I cant can't condemn the boy out of hand He must have a fair trial before be bee beIng being ing dismissed as an utter cad and a lukewarm lover And Nancy must be given an honest answer not an outburst of angry oratory at the expense of men in general and Nancy's Nancys Nancys Nancy's Nan Nan- cys cy's true love In particular Dont Don't forget the boy is only two ty-two and two and not yet able to make his own living apparently That makes It necessary for him to live with father and mother for a while True If he were constructed of heroic material material material ma ma- hed he'd go out into the cruel cold world to starve tarve in the cause of true love love but but heroes arent aren't POPular popular popular pop POP- ular in these modern modem times And with so much unemployment and depression in the world Just now I I. I for Tor one could not praise a bo boy who added to the sum lum total of the worlds world's human misery by voluntarily Joining joinIng Join join- ing lag the bread line This Thi lad has had to compromise with his fate He must live with his Ids father who has exacted from him aim a promise never to aee see lee his fair lady again Having promised the hero shows show a commendably honorable honorable honorable honor honor- able spirit in refusing to break his word on the sly There is certainly something to be said for him in holding strongly to his purpose No one can blame Nanc Nancy for feelIng feel feel- Ing big hurt and miserable over the sit sit- No one can blame her for far seeking to mend her broken heart as best she ma may But she need not feel that her erstwhile fiance is 11 either ei ther a cad or a coward DORIS DENE I 1 am a DEAR high school girl firl and very un un- un- un popular Even the girls dont don't seem to like Uke me I am never invited to anything and as It Is very hard for forme forme forme me me to make new friends my chance never Improves I am usually at home alone Can you yon give rive me an any help T. helpT-T. 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S ANSWER ANSWER Again Again and again I beg of the girls giro who come to me with a problem like this to give me something something some some- thing constructive in the wa way of a personal analysis There are dozens of reasons for unpopularity It is easy to sa say that in general a girl will get over her self consciousness by taking up interests interests interests in in- which distract her mind from thoughts of herself but so ao often this rule doesn't work because the victim of unpopularity is a special case and needs need special instructions There are many girls who are unpopular unpopular un un- popular simply and solely because of their lack of vitality The They ma may seem colorless and uninteresting dull and stupid because of ill-health ill or or some lome lack of energy enerO which could be remedied if they found out the truth about themselves There ore art girls ir whose inability to tomake tomake make friends friendt rests rats solely on the he fact that ha they ha have forbidding manners that ha ore are aloof and frigid These girls will tell you OU confidently that the they have hate friendliest feelings leelin in the fhe world toward to ward everyone and wont want to so be liked liked liked- yet c if they write urite a long in intimate mafe ac tIC account account count of themselves it i. wilt will very er often be revealed that they are super per critical and extremely sure of their heir own ions ion They are humble about their lack lacle of popularity yet rei amazingly arrogant arro gant an in It connection with other matters maUer And there are aro always girls who simply need to attend to their appearance ap ape in 10 order to attract some of the attention they crave so Untidiness Untidiness Un tidiness and slovenliness have more effect on the high school audience than the average girl in her teens suspects The very young generation genera genera- lion tion is critical of the dowdy down- down the heel girl whose hair is 11 al ale alway always ways way a mess meas and whose whole general appearance appearance appearance ap ap- ap- ap is 11 frumpy Even a limIted limited lim Urn fled income can be made to produce produce pro pro- duce at least leut one trim costume for school use But as I sa say one cant can't lay 18 down bard and fast flit rules One must hear bear about the patients patient's symptoms first Will the girls who write me on this absorbing topic give me some ome Inkling inkling Ink ink- ling a as to what manner of human buman beings being the they are The more they write the more they reveal in some someway someway someway way or other what their drawbacks and their virtues ma may be I shall ahaU be glad to answer all aU questions on this subject if U I am given something some some- thing to go on O C Bell BeU s S Service |