Show THE RIGHT THING atthe at the RIGHT TWE TIME bymark by MARY MARSHALL I 1 CANDY MANNERS rt feast of 0 nectar d sweets milton T IS a usual question for a young I 1 girl to write asking who should take the lie first piece of candy from a box brought to tier her by a young man caller laid and when you come to think ot of it there are a good many puzzling things involved la in the problems connected with a box of candy to begin etli if a man brings a girl a box of can candy dy slie she usually opens open it while he Is present she then passes it it to any other women in the room then to the man and then she helps herself it if he be when she passes it isolde it for tier her to take a piece she does so if the candy comes by mall mail pr or messenger nies she opens it of course imd does not wait until he calls even it if site she knows who the candy comes from before opening it and knows likewise that the donor is to call fler perhaps haps the most important thing to remember lu in connection with inith the good manners connected with candy Is that the person who always greedily eats candy and never buys it Is very ill III bred it Is the weekend week end custom fo tor r some men to bring home a box bos io of f candy in ili some oaie families there is one candy brindy loving member who ho lies in wait for foi the weekly sweets and eats as many pieces as she can get she takes one every time the box bos Is passed and perhaps helps herself between times now it Is quite all right to accept candy if you like it when it is passed rut put you should not eat more than your share and you should not eat cat even this much jf if you are not in the habit occasionally of standing treat yourself you should it if you have a sweet tooth and eat other peoples sweets provide a box bos full of your own occasionally candy Is one of the gifts that a man may gh gle ea a s oman candy lowers flower sand books constitute the conventional trio nobody wo wonders riders it if the donor of it a box bos ot ol candy to a girl is thinking of falling ili in love with her candy nowadays Is quite the correct find alid accepted gift from anybody that can afford it and no girl foed feel hesitant about candy lif in this way of course it if site she thinks a man inan cannot afford it but buys it for her hei simply because lie thinks lie ought to slie she might suggest to him that lie really should not in dolge her sweet tooth so often and never never should a girl hint for sweets wre are some girls who cannot pass d a candy store window without cri casting sting longing glances at them and sometimes even commenting comm enUng on their fori fondness doess for candy no man should feel rude in ignoring these symptoms it Is not nece necessary sEary to write a note thanking a man for a gift of candy it if lie follows the gift shortly a call ave thanks should not be forgotten but aliey may be delivered verbally |