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Show to get along better, and he has a feeling of significance, not at the expense of others but in sharing with others. Learn The Art Of Sympathy By DR. PAUL POPEXOE Director, American Institute Family Relation YOUR FAMILY AND YOU of Sympathy, according to one Luthority, is what one girl jives to another in exchange or the details. But it goes a little farther than that. It's absolutely to successful Indispensable marriage. Mrs. O'M. recogm-:e- s that fact but cant live up to it. I had trouble getting along with people before I married, and I have had the same trouble in the five years since :ny wedding, she confesses. Maybe Im too although I try not to be. But my husband tells me Im unsympathetic, my mother tells me the same, and several friends have used the same word, in commenting on some of my mistakes. I'd give anything to change, Dr. Pope-nobut what am I supposed to do? IT IS POSSIBLE How can a person became e; sympathetic? It will take a bit of doing, but it can be done, Mrs. OM., and it must be done. Unless a person eventual ly, tn the course of his development, becomes sensitive to the joys and sorrows, hurts and satisfactions, and fears of others, says psychologist Arthur T. Jirsild, he will not be able to enter Into any degree of close relationship with them. You have found that out What next? You cant go back and live over your childhood. If your parents had been wise, they would have had three principles in mind: 1. No one should be subjected to continuous competition, because the struggle for self preservation will lead him to think the most Important thing In life is to 'Took out for Number One. 2. No one should be ever protected, because he will feel that the world anu its people are intended merely for his own satisfaction. KYOTO CASE S. Everyone should have -- plenty of opportunities to associate with others of his rwn ege, to take his share in really cooperative and altruistic activities. He thus learns to understand how others behave, he finds that he gets along better if h helps others You can apply all these in your own case, Mrs. O'M. In addition, it might pay you to get and study a book of etiquette. One of the schoolbooks of my childhood had the sentence, Politeness is kindness, If you kindly expressed. learn to behave with courtesy and consideration toward everyone, as a habit, you are likely to become mors sympathetic. Boswell H. Johnson, director of the department cf counseling of the American Institute of Family Psychologist Relations, prepared a bulletin, Suggestions for Increasing Sympathy." DESERET NEWS, Pharmaceutical Group Holds Fashion Show The auxiliary tc the Utah Association Pharmaceutical held a special brunch Thursday at Log Haven to honor past presidents of the organisation. Following the brunch, an autumn fashion show was presented by The Image, with auxiliary members modeling some of the styles. Presiding at the event was Mrs. H. Phillip las L. 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