Show INI AMINEft OGDEN (UTAH) STANDARD-ETHURSDAY EVENING MARCH 8 1981 1 A 1 X Woman With Family Urged Not to Work Outside Home "'' fiSeseLHtaBBBBBaBBBBBBBBBBBBBBVBaBBBBBBBBBBB BBBbV ' By David Taylor Marke AP Education Editor How to get Junior to sleep especially when company is present —that is a Question which continues to plague parents year in and year out Dr Ruben Meyer president of the Detroit Pediatric society assistant professor of clinical pediatrics Wayne University College of Medicine and consulting pediatrician to various hospitals in the Detroit area thinks he has one answer Says Dr Meyer "A consistent bedtime can oe achieved if children know what Is expected of them The decision is maoe cany in ine imams nrsi and is adhered to throughout childhood assuming 01 course a idual progression to a somewhat !4 lll J giu later nour as roe cmra These changes may be made periodically with due consideration for the age and individual rest needs of the child On occasions he may be allowed to stay up later but bIbScbMsIbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb BsaaaF son who is married and bu two Heandhi wife hate utx: Before we mar- - cWldren I Miss Junior Needs Proper Introduction to Sandman to Avoid Fuss Objective: Recovery '1 ried I had a fine position in an dog office and my old employer is very have me back at a good anxious to n--i " 'rar- "'U -nn!v two years and both of us are in our 20s I should like very much to go back to my old job because the I like the work and we need bemoney but I hesitateit to do sohave effect might the of cause on our marriage Many people tell it me that when the wife works mnraV of the h ana that nothing braces man to do his best like feeJKl ing that his wife is dependen upon him What is your advice mWB matter?— Sarah No question is more Anawerthis None to which than complex to give a it is more impossible in every direct answer becausewife should case whether or not the defoUow some gainful occupation Individual' the pends upon iTdo"not think that any woman who has young children should work outside of the home unless It is a case of dire necessity Very earnings often it is because the enough of the husband are notfood tnd the 15 five the childrenneed but with environment they they can mothers salary added that more liven advantages of than compensafc for the leal service her personal Pon t Hart His Pride Whether the wife should work upon outside of the home depends it the husbands attitude toward and If it If he objects strongly sc her to do hurts his pride for his feelings in she should aspect of the matter unfesa it isshea case humi If actual starvation ateshim by taking a Job it will 1 K tZ : -- clgf Iff -- i have always taken the wite s pan in oraer io uy io nw them together but now my son ham loft her and Tff uses to SO back no matter what I say What shall I do?— Mrs Hjf Answer: There is nothing you can do but let them alone Nothto force ing is gained by trying a discordant husband and wilfjf live together Better a peaceful home for the children with one parent than with two who make it a place BBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBaBBBBBBBBBBBBBBaiHBBBBaBBBBa? - T strife of Dorothy Dix cannot answer-gsonal mail She explains hofLJ wife's jealousy can bring on the catastrophe she dreads in aleaflet 5 "Jealousy" To obtain copy send 5 cents and a stamped envelope to Miss Dix P O Box 98 Times Square StaL tion New York 18 N (Released oy ine ptu Ir f Syndicate t saaaaaaaaalBBaaaaawJaWi9Hi D-- Discrimination aBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBVaBBBtBBBBBBBaHaBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB BBBBBBBBBaaaBBBBBBBBBK BaaaaaaaaaaaaawaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaflHaaaaaaaaawaaaaaaaaaaK BaaaaaaaaaaaaaTaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaDlaaaaaaaaaaHBBaaaTBaaBaal aaaaa aaaaaaBBavaaaafasBBaaaaJi Word 'Premier' ' BaaaaaaaaaaaaWaaaaaaaaaaaaaV eBaaaaWBK fe 1?B aaaaaam It aaaaaaaaaal aaaaaaaaaal aaaavaaaaaaaM aH Hi t March 8 Mich ANN ARBOR (UP) — The University of Michigan student affairs committee has voted to deny recognition to campus organizations which fail to remove discrimination clauses from their constitutions by 1956 Is Pronounced I it should always be understood that quiet period wltb no this is a special event and that the ine activity iust before ebine to reason must be adequate" sleep The quiet bedtime story was founded on good Be mm Parents will find continues the common sense "Exciting or horridoctor Junior won't balk when he fying radio or television programs sees how firm they ire Of course are to be condemned A A warm pleasant Junior may decide to become con- bath may be helpful may be valuable and leaves trary particularly between the ritual with Impressions But the the child pleasant or ages of two ana five toy gives sensible parent can be firm with- A favorite soft object valuable emotional out being compulsive "If the many children M relationship Is found- support visitors arrive before JunWhep ed on love and security children even easerly accent ior gets to bed says Dr Meyer wiihnelv Difficulties! reasonable discipline arise from a disturbed relationship that precedes bedtime problems and often have origins in the emo-yet and attitudes of -Droblemg he 33 nt th(s Sitttna a child to bed can be - rnachpd a without anvietv nr thnldity" says Dr Meyer "It should be made as pleasant its possible and integrated into the child's Iin daily habits in a way that Is natural and easygoing Nothing is more destructive to a regular bedtime than the admission that argument regarding it is possible A consistent bedtime should be acEft cepted long before the child is old enough to argue" Have Quiet Period Parents however can Just dump a child into bed and let it go at that he says There should oe a I ' child-pare- ar - Bv Frank Colby O I nominate for your Pronunci ation Clinic the word "premier" Why do we hear so many different pronunciations for it on the radio? NEW —Mrs A P C S I don't have the answer to that question except to cay that "the radio" it not a? fault— u the who talk oa the radio that it people We hear but for the brace it gives reflec- mispronounce the words rTrhe idea that it is any wife on the air masses of to people great tion on a man for his vs and most are not da in these they home the of a"" outside work antiquated that trained speakers Generally speakare married is so come out of the to have hirtnTnk in the attic A man ing however the professional rightly to broadcasters are pretty accurate in expects his wife and can do it bet- their pronouncements she If hehlm by ter by earning moneyandthan Now let's talk about the word scrub- cooking and washing premier First of all the word is French in which language it is It means pronounced prum-YAY have "the first in time rank or quality on his feet and for them to crave In the first minister of state" toe home and children they The masculine Trench is premier ©u really Dear Miss Dix: Do a thing as feminine form is premiere probelieve there is such love? nounced: parental love thai makeVthe tmd sex Now premier entered English a tween men and women as otherwise Inno time aar mnii th RriHah nro- be would pleasing woman one Most men nunciation as recorded by the Wt to a man as another became ford English dictionary fasciand women marry through PREEM-ye- t PRBM-yor wears soon nation and the gilding Rut in Stnnriarri American inwrh off if there is not congeniality fiat most pronunciation in all holds prevailing Congeniality is whatBut is there levels of speech was and still is: together couples Therefore such a thing as love?—Doubting the correct American pronunci"Answer: Isn't love made up of ation However your dictionary With may not even list sex attraction and congeniality and is typical and scholarly reluctance to that ingredient a third perhaps it report established American proappreciation or gratitude call nunciations your dictionary will what you will? oIt is something whose doubtless prefer the British PREM-ye- r that binds us testedpeople or PREXaMMb whose sacloyalty we have Here is a aga view of gladly at rifices have been laid of whose premier as shown by eleven acour feet at the fires dlctionaaHli affection we have warmed cajr-se-lf cepted American nine and second first choice ofPREEM-ye'iii r is choice of two: What we know as fascination nothSecond choice of six and third is It attraction sex purely Love has choice of two: PREM-veing but sheer animalism we I First choice of two and second sex attraction in it because of two: cannot love those who are physi- choice Now this is another examnle of 5 unnsnant to US But love has congeniality in it also and that dictionary inertia and a lai iuu m "" uoa is why it lasts uine xgv minds wiw sinuuu: nope TTac ing of two JailnM ru: American dictionaries MB become inn frankly and honestly American Fascination passes because there instead of being dim carbon copies Is nothing in It but passion and -of the British Oxford in matters that perishes of satiety a I'd like to see thing as nf pronunciation That there is such the thousands- J ntir rflrtinnaries whist p "Yankee love is proved by aee whose ro- Doodle" instead of opening each u mi fjj ylU fcva no page wun a reverent vjtuq dbvc mance is long dead who have to at- the King which with charms physical There is nothing improper about tract each other but who still love dearly than British speech— for Britons By the each other far more were young same token everything is wrong when they they did Don't doubt love It Is the truest about British speech— for Americans Hollywood's "diction" schools thing in the world and Keighley's Radio Theatre to Dear Dorothy Dix: I hare a the contrary notwithstanding To me the heittht of absurdity is hearing a group of native Amer- staalna a British olav and attempting to talk like the British Equally absurd is the Ameri-ca- n dictionary that prefers British pronunciations for words that are never given the cheerio twist in American speech Released by the Bell Syndicate Inc) Colby Reader fan mail should be Aaet to Mr Frank Colby Reader Service P O Box 90 Station G KrYoa 19 N :pi M prum-YEH- R er R £ri-MEE- i pri-MEE- R IP- Little Girls Ask To Look Grownup ( 'Flower trimmed straw bonnets mew vnnif March ft UP) — are about all we ever sell for llt- Uttle girls like to look grownup tie girly and they'll be wearing 11115 one swre mpfl utile boys want lO loom u&c uieui to tne according Cassidy Ropalong caster snopping oeing aooe nw uj ' the very young set outfits axon t Juvenile Easter lloVltlw In theSC tr K AmaMam4 days when department stores sett sue a to o spi nig fqr as much as 45 do take it seri"The Utile girls ously They're more fashion conscious at four years old man aver said Mrs E M BaMs tmyerfpr w of a Fifth rniWrfln'8 A—rimmt ' U1C vxvsw f Avenue store "But the boys don't seem to care mucn wnexner urey have a navy blue or a grey spring mat They iust want to get in the Cassidy department" Honalong Mrs Bants saia wun a kmo xucic they know exactly what they want" llrst This year the a tailored grey grader will sport with a touch of wool coat maybe contrasting plaid piping or a velveteen collar in "Grey is having a vogue even clothes" Mrs Bahls the exnlained holding up a diminutive dark grey organdy dress with bright pink trimming Anoyier dark grey organdy annul enough had tiny to fit a white ball fringe collar edging : and a red embroidered skirt lust one nlace where the daughter's don't try to copy mom Her nan By Elizabeth Toomey I i EA5Y Chil i Powder A lively blend of cM-lie- SPINORIER s and spices Cot robust Mexican flavor! fa Edgar with W&VSSOA TREEM-ye-r' fHonev for San Springs fjtional balUrt toundJ NO OTHER WASHER LIKE THIS! 4 bit Warren and their dauehter Nina ) 17 hoard a national euard nlanr in Sacramento Calif Bernardino from where they will drive to Arrowhead Hot the baths will relieve nis own neuralgic The rrovrrnor said a from polio ef Nina State policeman speen ine nt may encounter some diffi But if children are ore- for this and understand that pared they musf go to bed after a short visit few will be uncooperative "The factors that make bedtime easy for mother and child are oenchides Dr Meyer "Judicious (not exaggerated love and security in all their relationships: early development of the bedtime idea consistency on the part of the parent and knowledge by the child of what his parents ex'"''" pect of him" culty i - ONtT NEW EASY SMNOMEft l buiIMn Ctoflow" wot- -t Mtar for eleonest wothiag New 3 riming nilWt Automatic t New Handy Swing Foucett Oeet wee ' In leu than on hour I e4 IASY-otT- M' Spi-ri- ir in action SeTOD AT I V Schilling) H D SPARRO bui "SHOP IN ROY AND SAW V Free Delivery ROY UTAH pri-MEE- high-pric- You'll see them in this week's ed — — - well-dress- pre-scho- and in Chandler" § stores throunlimd America! ed ol two-year-o- ld Thr'i 'Cover-U-p R : — Shoo with thOP — Scraps Beaniiful Bines In fine 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