| Show 2 THE SALT LAKE TIUDUNE SUNDAY MORNING MAY - KATHLEEN NORRIS Mothers Who Marry Time Have a Second Hard Path to Tread in Peace Between Their Children and Their Husbands Keeping she is tug immgh to diop the silly bibv it is riduti name no'v he thinks-b- ut Towaid Ethel m other Ions for Tom ways too he Is rather moie lenient although he won’t have her come Into h s loom uniimiounrcd and cm lies her nwav from the table forcefully when she nies but with Tom he is veiy fum ’linn is not to answer "Junior'' when he ‘Who u tlieie’’ for Daddy foris bids in v mention or suggestion of Tpm's Tom already shows a nerown falhei vous im Im tlinn lo slip away from the gioup when Daddy is there at the table Ins glumes toward his stepfather are timid and apprehensive All this of course bleaks the mother’s heart Sometimes t wonder how main of these remained women would go huk to the old pmtner if they could inconput up with some of the old veniences and humiliations just to have then rhildirn T1IF1RS again -- the small feet flying confidently toward them the small voires gay and unafiaid the df-- I and kisses that last ii urns confidences so short a tune not curtailed Hut to return to those who tind at-- ford or don't desire a second divoiT who find themselves In a comfortable home with an adoring partner and yet fu cd with this wretched situation that threatens to eclipse all th Joy They have but two couises One la to give up the man and go away and lake their thiklien with them and perhaps have financial (rouble to face The other is to take the load themselves and pay for their own mistakes Peihdps the first marriage was a mistake perhaps th second was— no matter Aa in all other crises In life the Important thing Is to Jook the situation fairly In the eyes And picpare in all patience humility courage to repair the damage The beginning must be to cultivate between the stepfather and the Do this by praising him to childien them and them to him Tell them thBt Daddy loves them and like them to run out and wetcom him at night refer their troublei to him— “you go ak your big Daddy about that" When they are naughty ask him what h thinks should be done don't divide their Interests from his having all aorta of gay little aeciela and good times with them — see that Daddy not only aharta but plana and Leave them as originate your holiday ch mora Ihnn you much as you Answer his sug like Take chance d gesticm of a movie delightedly: "Oh love to aee that! Mrs Smith next door licit will look In on them now and then— they'll be all right!" And explain to them just what you're doing You'll have plenty of times in between to squeeie them kiss them plav love with Ihim Hut w i n be s home Inmi-li e the idea that he is not onlv in mi ' Slie pin taut but a wondeiful pci soil nm-e- d you while you weie awav Alan My dear he thinks you can do any thing'" By the blessed alchemv Ihul is love and’ the nuiaile that la childhood you di-- u 28 1033 Stepfathers and Children childien especially when the etui aie friendly with them discussing this problem with me yesterday in reference to the lun idled of letteis I have on the subject told me that she had this ptob-leA neighbor yeis ago "I was birien about it" she reniem ‘Suie old scout he soi bed in Sails A few days later when Sally said was In bed with a cold 1 laid to my husband ‘Ask Billy to go out and help ‘He couldn't do a you dean the car 'I know’ I said "but thing’’ he fjld ask him he loves so to be with you' Later my two men came In together ‘I been all smiow Hut believe me” ahe ended with einpha-l"it took coinage 1 used ti and sacrifices and patience feel sometimes that I'd ruined all om ll fn"’ The amiple truth that women aie i long time learning is that most men au Jealous Oidinnnly the radiant ness of the honey moon disguises ths the bilde lines to feel that he w inlet civ bit of her love and time and M tention In fact ‘there Is an Idiotic fondness m gnls for the idea of a jealous he man And a mar who isn’t jenl ems nut often a real man Beal wo men like real men So if your problem n that of the lov ing babes and the jealous second bus ha d- - give time to it give player and pnlieiue and humility and in a be the pi oud woman of whom othei women siv "He simply adores those childien of heis and they adore him You should have seen them all at the elrcu the othei dav— It was ‘Daddv look' and ‘Daddv can I” and Daddv tell us!' all over the place If I were in her place I'd be jealous!” ‘Copyright 1933 Bell Svndicate Inc) - i Ry K Mill t N NORRIS divoitt-- oi widow id it woman remained vlie niiv Hi will dm ido to give tip hoi iliililiin No nnitU'i uliat “'A'" promises he makes I When what affectum he shows (or diiliiiu a Tom little niu belm o hi in n I - h r l i mother then step will hate lathi small mleie-- t m them cure he is of her and Mil nine time out of ten mil grow in tively jealous of them The situation arises over Kathleen Norris over Again and when it is too late to do anything about it the unhappy mother vuites me She loves her new husband and !i love her childien They iiatui they aboib lui ally turn fust to h they climb on her lap and kiss hei and eventually h makes her wietihed I and about It What can Not repel the children who are the heart of her heart not send them away for they are too amalt not quar rtl with him Sha la In a tight coiner and can't find her own way out On woman wntea me of twin babies She 4 year old a boy and a girl divorced their father three yeats ago for nonsupport desertion drunkenness H iris th son of a rich family and bt had a fair allowance for the children But she was lonely young pretty and ahe married again Thia time ah married a handsome big clever fellow with apparently no vices a man the deepest devotion to who profes-eJunior and Sissy who brought them gift aat them on hi knee and wants them to rail him "Dad Now she has been married just a year and matters have leached a emit It appear that Junior and Sissy have tlwaya been In the habit tf trotting la t Mother's bed In th mornings for ten felicitous minutes of gsmes and H confidence ‘'Daddy'1 hates this ss Tf he doesn't mind Ethel doine It aha do? ing advances of th lov- can-mu- 1 mm a B) !! 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