Show B4 — The Herald Journal Logan Utah Wednesday January 29 2003 Lg FOR BETTER OR WORSE ffOSMTC ©(DDuDIiuQDtaQIiD I By Kathy inched A Many Sugar ' Creator! SvrxScato Inc Right Right now my brain is telling me Ell never find a better match than Josh so I wonder if myuinstiricts’’ are leading me astray Dp I need a psychiatrist to sort myself out? Please answer soon before I make a huge mistake — Closed Heart in Michigan DEAR CLOSED HEART While it’s good to trust your instincts it’s also possible that you have a fear of commitment and when things become serious you panic Becoming physically ill depressed and losing enthusiasm for life are rather severe reactions Yes by all means talk to a therapist You need to find Of I why you sabotage the pos$ibil-hrippYou might learn ity of future thing ANNIE: I do a lot of flying and occasionally I find myself on a plane in a middle seat with people on either side Which armrests do I use? The aisle seat has an armrest by the aisle and the window seat has one near the window Who gets the middle two — first-co— Anchorage Alaska DEAR ALASKA: Unfortunately yes Most airline seats are not designed for comfort Be as considerate as possible and hope your are the same 1 DEAR ANNIE: I am an independent and' successful woman but I have a problem with relationships! have dated a grad number of terrific men but I have broken off every single relationship Why? Because eventually I begin to feel that “things aren’t right” After months of dating I lose all enthusiasm for life and become severely depressed When laid the relationship it feels as if a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders Iam currently seeing “Josh” a man who could truly be my soulmate but the pattern is repeating itself I feel physically ill when I think about a commitment to him My friends and family tell me I would be crazy to give him up and I realize that I have a lot to lose and nothing to gain by breaking up with Josh I never have regretted breaking up with my previous boyfriends and always assumed my instincts were telling me to hold out for Mr DfLBERT ir some-DEA- R first-serv- e? seat-mat- es ARLO AND JANIS Alternative therapy for cancer By Pater H Gott MD Newspaper Enterprise Association what time you have left a positive experience Cancer is a hideous disease in large part because there is no consistent cure for it Yes there have been advances in therapy especially for lymphoma But the majority of cancers are basically as untreatable today as they were a DEAR DR GOTT: I’ve been diagnosed with metastatic lung cancer that has not responded to chemotherapy or radiation I recently read about a clinic in Mexico that offers a special diet and a patch to affect a cure They claim a cure rate of 85 percent in 50000 people to date My doctor advised against this formula Given the fact that my malignancy has not responded to traditional therapy when do I give in to death? DEAR READER: This scheme sounds like another get rich quick scam Anybody who can cure 85 percent of 50000 cancer patients ought to be lionized and receive a Nobel Prize The fact that this clinic is not in the headlines of ' this newspaper or on the cover of Time magazine should provoke healthy skepticism about such outrageous claims I urge you to stick with your doctor and work with him to make generation ago True cancer patients may live a few more months because of chemotherapy those last few but there’s an awful trade-of- f months may be marked by1 constant pain and feeling like hell from the drugs Many cancer patients are beginning to ask: Is it worth it? Do a few more weeks of life justify the pain and discomfort of treatment? When should I surrender to inevitability give in to the disease and request that I be made as comfortable as possible? These questions are difficult to answer — but they must be asked And each patient has to make hisher own peace I hope that your doctor is the kind of professional who can guide you through the torturous maze of decisions Now with your physician’s help you can begin to examine the important resources you’ll need: family clergy hospice and others ZITS Horoscopo By Bernice Bede Osof Newspaper Enterprise Association be replaced with your more serious side when you get involved in an important enterprise CANCER (June 22) — Make plans to do something special with one of your friends today It will be important to you to share your time with someone you like ' LEO (July 22) — Roll up your sleeves and get ready to go tp work Today you could be in an industrious mood and be able to accomplish much more than you usually do VIRGO (Aug 22) — Spending some time on social affairs today could take the edge off of some of the more sobering aspects existing in your life at this time ct LIBRA (Sept 23) — Making your family and loved ones first in your mind will strengthen these bonds There won’t be anything that will be more important to you SCORPIO (Oct 24-N22) — An opportuto nity express your opinion on a serious matter that everyone deems important will present itself today What you have to say will be the answers all are seeking SAGITTARIUS (Nov 23-D21) — Because there could be more items on sale than usual at this time of year if you go shopping today you might find yourself spending more than usual n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) — Chances are that you’ll have a list of many important things you wish to accomplish today and thus won’t allow others to impose upon you 21-Ju- For Wednesday Jan 29 2003 Your birthday Chances are in the year ahead you're going to concentrate on building a stronger and more solid base for yourself What you establish during the months ahead will have g effects on your life b 19) — This is an AQUARIUS (Jan excellent day to get away from the hustle and bustle of life and clear up a whole bunch of threads you’ve left dangling PISCES (Feb 20) — Although you are sensitive to one's emotions and feelings you also will be exceptionally realistic about those with whom you deal today ARIES (March 19) — Normally in one of your latinvolved too deeply you’re est ideas to care about what others might think about your activities TAURUS (April 20) — Pleasant and be your style when dealing easygoing may with others but you always take your obligations very seriously GEMINI (May 20) — That nonchalant attitude you like to present to others may long-lastin- 20-Fe- 20-Mar- ch 21-Ap- riI 20-M- ay 21-Ju- ne ly 23-A- 23-Se- pt GARFIELD 23-O- ov ec ALLEY OOP 22-Ja- Crossword January 29 2003 ACROSS vehicle Sale notes 1 Cherokee or 23 Here in ' Seminole Cannes 26 Candied item 6 Mountain climbing gear 27 Dartboard ' site 12 Black-be- lt 21 sport 14 Spotted 28 Cheap nightwild- - at 18 Snake shape 19 Commuter - club annoyed 39 Fasten 40 Cousteau's sea 41 Golf peg 42 Newscaster — Koppel 43 Ticked off 30 High 44 Use henna 35 Consumed 37 Previous to 56 Cultivated Anssw to Piwlous Punta taramn v ana uHalmuiualaHEH E0D0A0HH mm igaHHAaMnol WBm DDQIDDIO HI10 BDDSianQBEmDE lEClBlaHIlC 00(30 nnatE3miiBB0w mrimram i 38 More mi anoni Q(DQWEII0BHC ngfanBHlHSu Y'i mushrooms 57 Popular 6 Tiny holes 7 Treats a 8 Strain 26 Tibetan oxen 27 Wharf 9 Pamplona 28 pooch 58 Enjoys a novel 47 Kuwaiti 25 Hardened sprain cheer DOWN 10 Egg 11 drink Sault-r-Mari- 1 Bout ender 2 Sidelines cry 13 Good look 3 UK part 19 Vote 29 34 36 42 4 Stripes 20 Referee's kin 43 5 French! verb 22 On fire 45 Off-roa- d vehicle Row Teased Morsel of food Brief Syrup source Bellow i: 48 leader Elec unit THE BORN LOSER 49 Alley Cop's kingdom SOSu's sibling sL Was in front 52 Dixie 53 54 Yellow Pages contents acM IF IT WDHT STRIDE YOU M SUCHAYQU WaH&i |