Show The Herald Journal Logan Utah Wednesday March 13 2002 — C3 FOR BETTER OR WORSE Wife harassing secretary Buss Yworeray Nancy’s plan If her husband is planning to have an affair wife fee secretary Nancys haraaament will turn the girl into a figure of sympathy who needs her boas’ support Unless you have reason to believe this girl is ByAimLendars Creator Syndteate Inc DEAR ANN LANDERS: My hnabmd owns a business with Last week Martin’s wife ' “Nancy” called to say she is certain the company’s secretary is trying to seduce her husband This secretary has been working for me men for six months I have not met her but Nancy says the girl dresses like a tramp and behaves in a flirty manner NeitherrmyhustN nor Martin has any intention of firing this girl simply because Nancy doesn’t like her Nancy believes she can get the secretary to quit by being rude to her on the phone She also shows up unexpectedly at the office “just in case” something is going on She belittles the secretary to her face and constantly reminds her drat she is the owner's - wife Nancy wants to enlist my help in this She warned me feat if the girl cannot seduce Martin she will go after my husband I feel uncomfortable behaving this way and I ' don’t know if it would be effective in any case If the secretary is in fact trying to seduce Mar- -' tin it seems to me that Nancy’s behavior will only make her more determined to “save” him from his nasty wife Should I go along with Nancy’s plan7 The situation is getting out of control and I’m not sure what to do — The Partner’s We in Florida DEAR WIFE: Do NOT go along with behaving in a destructive manner please allow your husband to decide who works for him Nancy is making a fool of herself and if she isn’t careful she will have a whole new set of problems DEAR ANN: You recently printed a letter from “Caught in the Middle in New York" whose daughter has moved in wife a divorced bartender The woman referred to fee boyfriend as “a loser” What’s worse you said the same thing in your response What exactly makes him a loser? Bartenders are professionals They work hard and make decent money They are also loyal friends and perceptive about human nature Good bartenders save lives by taking care of those who have imbibed too heavily Ibey bear up well under abuse from their patrons Tell me Ann would you have responded differently if the man had been a professor or a doctor? — Friend offee Bartender in Los Angeles DEAR FRIEND: I am softy if I offended the bartenders and their friends in my reading audience The woman who wrote was concerned feat her daughter had dropped out of college and was living with a divorced man 16 years her senior I don’t believe his job was the focus of her disappointment I apologize for not nuking that clear I was bombarded with angiy mail from bartenders across the country Mea culpa My response was notune of my best - How to DPI gHQWtyETt - ‘ NCMML UNKTI VUnNTTDKMOUK mecNrtSr crtooi DILBERT -- IT SUPPOSED TO tVUCE A SOUXSHY 60UNOT LISTEN TO ARLOANDJANIS ' treat asthma attacks By Potfer H Gott MD modify their behavior and environment as much as they can to prevent the bronchial spasms feat characterize fee disease This includes absolute prohibition against smoking ' as well as an avoidance of animal dander plant pollens and other contaminants in fee air we breathe House dust which isoften trapped in dried arrangements (that are rarely changed or discarded) is a substance feat frequently aggravates asthma as will air pollution and upper respiratory infections Your son will have to make up his mind about which environmental factors to avoid Perhaps he should even be tested by an allergist to identify these factors If he is the kind of person who has a more or less persisting chronic asthma — feat is he is rarely free of symptoms — the bronchial spasm could lead to permanent lung damage In feis situation he could be helped by taking a drug to prevent asthma such as Singulair or Accolate The most satisfactory resolution to this problem in my opinion would be for him to dis- wife his family cuss his asthma-patte' physician Newspaper Enterprise Association DEAR DR GOTTrMy son 31 has suffered from asthma for years He’s happily married and enjoys his pets plants and dried flower arrangements of which aggravate his condition Just how serious is this for hi wellbeing? 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