Show Trr iws'vs w-r ? Page 14 — The Herald Journal Logan Utah Tuesday April 4 2000 seems up to no ' Y “’ 1 'S' : Landers Creators Syndicate Inc 'DEAR ANN LANDERS: My husband "Jake” and I have been together for 20 years and we have two adult sons and a I am 16 years older than rmy husband It never seemed to be a problem and I always thought we had a good relationship! I must have beeh blind ' or too busy to notice that everything was not V picture-perfe- ct About 18 months ago I began to notice some unusual phone numbers on our bills and on lake’s beeper I then discovered receipts for car ftS tha few questions told me it was personal stuff and ordered me not to open his mail About eight months ago when some of bis checks came Arougb sons account hut did not list our hom add£ ' He said the checks were for his business j Jake aiid two of our sons run the business He insists that none of it belongs to me since I have not contributed toward it He did not buy me any presents last Christmas but I noticed receipts for gifts he had bought at a lingerie y-- J: ' v w he is t " l: y ' J T 'store-'’- V x'' MW-NITI- WU HSAO IS OUT ON WALLY IHrmPOFMCMft BSBMrtMt iW TOFMCtiyEARS OFAWHOtrNHNWeF DISABILITY: IdE NEED VIDEO EVIDENCE OF UALLY DOING A VIGOROUS I WANT YOUTO SPY ON Hlh ftlHMCA BATHROOM CAN YOU THINK : OF ANYTHING THAT UALLY DOES! VIGOROUSLY? : rp ACTIVITYlv ID RATHER NOT totiKonr ““1 18 - bon- r - - vt I'- :'!-- ¥’ ARLOANDJANIS v I' " Ann my mother is a truly remarkable ' f " HIS WIST 1H - woman She has tried to instill morals and val- Jake says going to change banks even oes in her three children while working at a though we’ve used the same one for yean I am physically demanding factory job and taking of a disabled husband and a s V- afraid he is putting all the money into his name care I hope you will put my letter in your mother I all of our savings v so he can leave me and take y she will get the recognition she so y so am I need some confused and ofcolumn fi desperate — — better late than never Thank Vibes Texas deserves in Bad advice richly your good V" v DEAR BAD VIBES: You need more than my yoti Grateful Daughter in Mississippi “good advice!’ I hope you will see a lawyer at V DEAR DAUGHTER: Here it is Have it lam-y y once and make certain that you are protected y‘ inated and give it to your wonderful mother for because it sounds as if Jake has some plans for her next birthday She’ll love it I -- WBlLlMmCKNMMM GILBERT hdV Sn lal±rel!?d " ’’ the future that do not include you When you meet with the lawyer be sure to bring all the evidence that you have referred to in your letter DEAR ANN LANDERS: I would like to share a story about my mother and I hope you think it is worth printing in your column This tale is for all those who believe there is no hon7 esty or integrity left in the world When I was born 35 years ago my mother could not afford the obstetrician’s bill so she worked out an agreement to give the doctor $10 a month until the bill was paid Shortly after that the doctor closed his practice and left' town! My mother had no idea where he had gone but she knew she still owed a balance of $60 Money was tight in those days and it was a struggle for her to get by: I am sure $60 like a huge surm Mom used to tease me she would be repossessed’Vbeci never finished paying for me The other day Mom called and told me f my shouUa tecDM eooidqun thedoctor who is now retired She sent him a note of apology for die ’n payment along dth a check for The doctor was so impressed with her integrity that he wrote her a letter of apprecia- - By Ann ’ ov FOR BETTER OR WORSE II) Ml v v vjt OHrtTHATW&UKt COMMERCIAL AMWCYED 1WtyWCE OFThEs GOT JTTMETMER - ’MGRYWWTe MALE l ' 1' &JBaranoia4s?acommon':temi: of their everyday speech might consider that the term canbe both pejorative and hurtful Sure all of us may act a little crazy at times DEAR DR)GOTTi In my opinion children ' However tnie paranoia is sad destructive and toss around the word requires professional help DEAR DR GOTT: My son who is in the army is married with four children His wife says he never talks to them and only answers With grunts! Also! he never calls me Would the con Do you agree that service help him if he needed a psychiatrist? use the it’s slanderous to iv y f'lV word?ly DEAR READER: Yes it would All branches ! of the military have recognized the need to pror : DEAR READER: vide professional support to the families of its members — and to the servicemenservice-- women themselves However from the limited information which in delusional of you supplied I Cannot ascertain thinking complex system I person is convinced that ie or she is being whether or not your son needs psychiatric inter- unrealistically persecuted Like many medical : vention Perhaps he is simply tired Or bored check ! terms paranoia has entered our speech as a’rop v I suggest that your daughter-in-layl idiom and it’s often used in inappropriate with the base physician — or with his corn-waofficer if she is truly concerned Perfectly normal people who feel :! sive are often labeled “paranoid although about your son's behavior and whether his lack vV' — of communication could be affecting his job as they are emotionally healthy Persons who use the word “paranoia’’ as a wcll as his personal life 'i?i‘‘By Peter H Gott MD : Newspaper Enterprise Association I : : 7ITC w SHE TAKES EyEWTHING GOSBOBBXVBCPtl ys defen-mandi- -- ng r ? SHE NEVER MUGHS - ' v - Horoscope SVfr By Bernice Bede Osol Newspaper Enterprise Association ! For Wednesday April 5 2000 The course you're (Aug23-Sep- 22) Should you t encounter someone at work today who doesn’t ' grasp the ideas you’re trying to convey it may be the way you're presenting them I I LIBRA (Sept 23) Make sure the people with whom you get involved socially: today ante up their fair share of the cost of the activity You could get stuck with the bill SCORPIO (Oct 22) Don’t pish in are likely to where the bill collectors today tread If ypu fall jxey to a large ticket item that you can't afford it could tie you up for a long period of time SAGITTARIUS (Nov 21) Others how concerned more be about you perform may in a specific situation today than they are about themselves n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) There’s a good chance today that something good you’ve had in your grasp might slip away because you're treating this opportunity differently 19) Don’t get AQUARIUS (Jan 20-Fcareless when (losing a deal today you’ve worked hard on If you do you could let some- one off the hook who needs to contribute PISCES (Feb 20) Normally when you're asked to keep a secret you're good about it However you could talk so freely about things that you might let something out l v"'- - GARRELD : - presently on looks like it is a good one fix the 23-O- ct year ahead so don’t change direction needlessly along the way The results won’t be what they could have ’v been otherwise ARIES (March 21 April 19) The little kid could come out of you today wanting more toys than you can afford It might be wise to steer clear of stores TAURUS (April 20) It isn’t like you at all not to stay the course of your objectives yet these qualities might not be functioning very well and you could quit the job too early GEMINI (May 20) What sounds stand up to the at not fust hearing might good test today Subdue inclinations to act upon pie-wishful thinking CANCER (June 21 July 22) Trying to get away with taking shortcuts won't wixk today What you can look forward to fulfilling is that old bromide “Haste makes waste’’ LEO (July 22) If you allow yourself -- 20-Ma- y 2I-Jii- to be swayed or pressured on something you’re unsure of the purveyor of this advice could cause you to make an unwise decision SVIRGQ 'A--i Your birthday1 : 6KENEV0? ne -- 23-A- ug ’ 24-N- ov ’ 23-D- ? ec 22-Ja- ALLEY OOP but first sup moot eb Em THIS NOOSE OVER VDUR MEM AND UNOEA YOUR MIMS' THINK “ 20-Mar- ch Crossvord April 42000 belief ACROSS 1 7 13 14 15 16 17 18 20 21 25 Consumes tobacco Silken Didn't exist Ambush Conceive United Pro— (for the time being) Timber tree Bullfight cheer Sleeper Matured 28Adored 32 West Indies 57 Driest 33 Eared seal 34 Dec 25th fig35 36 37 39 41 44 45 51 54 55 56 ure MacaronLe Rusaian co-o-p Aided a con Let go Rower's need Sphere Not at home i poir Crystalline 1 em Type of seed Wipes out Impose a tax on religious Anww to PiwIom Punts FRANK AND ERNEST DOWN 1 TVactiesa VSE tan E N E Af tonijte OSJLiER Persian's neighbor 3 City in Utah 4 New Zealand parrot i S' SMed specialist 6 "Remington ilSQ i T J 7 Hindu religious teaaier THE BORN LOSER 8 —denier 9 Popeye's River in France 23 Skips the for- -' 30 Art deco wedding ceremony illustrator 'GLADYS IVC DCClDCDTO SOP 7fTCKNl unit 12 Jekyll'a opposite beam 19 Advanced (2 wds) 27— up deg 21 Radiator (repressed) 22 Takea breath 29 Great YOU KNOW Wl IN? 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