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HALL YOUR BUTTS AND GET A LIFE! —Jamie Chubb Watnutport Pa would like to apologize to that girl for all of those jerks who don't know how to treat a lady They make all the good guys suffer because a girl puts up her defenses after a horrible event with a guy who doesn't call When I take the time to go out with a girl give her my undivided attention talk intimately I already have an interest and certainly would call her the next day It's natural for you to want to call her to get to know more about each —Arthur Shattuck IT other Otsego Mich I I think the gender gap is based almost completely on misperceptions not on malicious behavior I have five brothers and many male friends and there is definite consensus on many points: Men too are afraid of being used and hurt And many guys have a rule of not calling a girl for at least three days (fw some it's seven) no matter what This is a test to see how possessive or desperate she is And don't ever expect a teenage (or older) guy to be absolutely truthful about his feelings until after a date is over —Sylvia Dickinson SO San Rafaai Calif USKEHESL Many people responded to our question “When have yon misjudged someone and what happened?" 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