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Show News about people and their lives r - Review Wednesday Oct. 9, 1985 U a - , f,y , 'i 's 'I "I ' 1 v $ , Community 0vc.:- i4Nf ' ' 1B: I briefs 'Nature's Halloween'-- : session to be offered Natures Halloween, a pro- will gram for children, ages be offered by the Ogden Nature Center on Saturday, Oct. 26. The program will run from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. The session to be taught by Judy Jung and Janet Brower, elementary teachers in the Webet County School District. Super Saturday is limited to -- 0, " x V &r& v i' ,A Y-.YVdr -- a J rw; 1 V? ' SH w 5 . ,f " ''' 1: I ' iv j;. : ';: r - ' I r. 1 V, . '"f '' " ?y, V k.- '?-- : ' jb A vision of an garden with collections from yesteryear make up the scenic garden. The garden has an array of fruit trees, ponderosa pines and blue spruce. Beautiful large rocks form a hedge, while other rocks, including lava, are used to decorate various parts of the garden. Rock gardens with colorful flowers and ceramic animals, a fish pond complete with fountain, two other rocked-i- n ponds and a small statue of a fisherman grace the garden as well. It boasts has an impressive display of antiques ranging from wagon seats to a cream separaed tor. Although there is more here than can be seen in one visit, a visitor will quickly notice an old stove, garden cultivator, wheelbarrow, axle iron wheels, old tractor seats and milk cans. The garden belongs to Henry and Wanda Beus, Clinton residents for 48 years. They are people who believe joy comes through hard work. The garden was started in 1962 when the couple worked 11 hours a day to lay it out. Now, during the spring, summer and fall, Mrs. Beus says she works in the garden seven hours a day keeping it in shape. I enjoy keeping busy, and I cant get everything done that I want to, she says. In the spring, the garden has to be cleaned out, dead wood removed and the ponds refilled, and in the summer its a matter of keeping everything weeded 4 1 - - I$ r LAYTON The Preceptor Phi Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi will meet Tuesday at 7:30 p.m. The meeting will be held at the home of Shiela Anopol, 798 E. 900 N., Layton. Her program will be Love is Feeling on Top of the World. i : ';: 'i x s;';X . 'jv ; ' Staff Photos by Robert Regan Farmington Lions to conduct broom sale:.. FARMINGTON Helping the visually impaired is the goal of the Farmington Lions, wh.o. will hold a broom sale on Oct. 12 and 19. ? All funds raised are used to help pay for eye examinations, glasses and in one case, for the medical bills and glass eye of an accident victim. e Lions will be selling house brooms for $7; toy brooms for $3.50; camper brooms for and watered. In the fall there is much to do to get the garden ready for winter, she said. Mrs. Beus says she enjoys garage sales and has found items perfect for the garden at many six-ti- .$4.50. Also to be offered will be medium-handled whisk brooms for $3; sales. Beus says he likes taking visitors through the garden. I enjoy life and people, he says. Children come all the time; I tell them that things are to look at and not destroy, he said. Vandalism has not been much of a problem, Beus adds. There is an interesting story about the little fisherman. He disappeared from the garden. Three years later a young man told one of our daughters I have something that belongs to your dad, and our daughter brought the fisherman back to the garden, he said. . The collection of rocks in the garden came from all over Utah except the lava rock which came from Grace, Idaho. He says they were hauled in by a single horse : trailer. He also enjoys showing his collection of old farm implements and old whiskey bottles. He has a barbed wire collection, mounted on a board, all dated in the 1800s. He also has a hat pin made from the barb wire. Each year in August the couple invite family,, friends and neighbors to a breakfast. The breakfast is cooked on stoves in a building in the garden. This year we had 285 people come and we had live entertainment, 18-in- 451-251- biological ties that exist en a mother and her chil-in- d that dont exist with the ther are the biggest deter-t- o successful remarriages, a lal expert said. Elliot Landay, a marriage amily therapist from Salt re-City, spoke during the y concluded Families conference at Weber State ;e. told conference participants he bonds between natural ts and their children often r meaningful relationships a new parent takes the of a divorced one. Landau said, That which between a mother and child biological imperative and s the main stumbling block marriage. said that the number of reed families is growing and ates are that by 1990, 80 percent of the nations school-age- d children will be part of a remarried family. California is close to 80 per' cent right now, he said. He noted that most women who divorce tend to marry men who themselves are divorced! The new father, then, has the task of establishing a relationship with his new children while maintaining contact with his natural children. At the same time, the biological father continues contact with his children even though in most cases he has also remarried and is trying to build a relationship with the children of his new wife. I cannot, in my wildest imagination, think of a family that can remarry under these circumstances and survive without ; help, he said. . The minute the new dad moves in, he said, the kids find 0. The League of Utah Writers their annual Writers Roundup at Utah State University on Oct. 11, 12, and 13. will hold Noted artist's works featured at center BOUNTIFUL The Arts Center is presenting an exhibition of the watercolors, drawings, and etch- -. ings by one of early Utahs most noted painters, James T. HarBounti-fulDav- is ; wood. It will be featured at the arts center Oct. 13 through Nov. 8. ' The center is located at 2175 S. Main in Bountiful. Roy Ladies of Elks musical dated Friday m Visitors love to wander among gardens and ponds in the backyard of Henry and ; Wanda Beus. The couple spends about seven hours a day working in the yard. Bond between parent, child hurts remarriage ; 451-011- Writers League to host annual roundup , Although they are retired, they are too busy to become rocking chair victims, they say. ' whisk brooms for long-handl- $3.50; and garage brooms for $7. If you would like early delivery of a broom, contact Lee Olsen at 5 or Ab Mayo at - Beus says. ($8.50 fee for Nature Center members) to: Judy Jung, 1470 Bingford St., Ogden, Ut. 84401 Preceptor chapter of Beta Sigma to meet I Garden satisfies yen for antiques CLINTON 111 - Years of effort went into gathering this collection of antique farm equipment, owned by Henry Beus. DARLENE MIX Special to the Lakeside Review iX 394-780- WJ V.-.'v- Vs itfMwSpHU k4 A the first 25 children registered. To register: call Judy Jung at 5 after 5 p.m. A registration form can also be mailed, with a $10 fee included in him a rival both for their mother and for their former father. The children are in the most difficult position of all, he said. They cannot take the bus to Wendover just to get away for the weekend. Theyre stuck in this caldron and have to face it out. All they know is that theyre in the middle of a mess. He noted, that the adjustment to remarriage after a divorce is particularly hard for school-age- d children. In these school years I guess I wish people would not divorce only, under, severe circumstances, he said. Dr. Landau added, I wonder if the couple spent as much effort on the marriage as they are going to have to spend on the remarriage if it might have worked. In a remarried family. -- , . " dau said that the children love their mother and they love their natural father, but his new wife wants him to pay attention to her children. The new father wants to get close to his new children, but they wont let him and, in the meantime, the new fathers natural children are struggling with a new man in the house, but still want the biological father to be the dad. The mother wants the new father to be accepted into the family, but in most cases she has lived alone with the children for a number of years and resents intrusions of the father in the area of discipline. Everybodys right here and you really need a Solomon, Dr. Landau said. Some divorced fathers, he said, elect to break all contact with children to help them estab , lish ties with the new children. Research indicates that if the children are under 2 or 3 years of age there may be wisdom in that action, but for children in school it creates problems that will affect the next generation. He said, New research show that when a child is in the developmental years and has problems with rejection of the mother or of the father it may put the childs own marriage in jeopardy. Though Dr. Landau painted a bleak picture of remarriage he did say a happy and successful union of two families was possible, but, he added, it takes outside help. Children can understand that they can have split loyalties, and that its ok to hurt, but youve got to have someone to talk to. He added, About 80 percent of the remarried families, when they work out the problems, are glad that they remarried." ROY Members and guests are invited to attend the Roy Ladies of Elks musical show Putting on the Hits," featuring hit musical numbers from the 1920s through the 1980s. The show will be presented Fri- day, Oct. 1 at 8 p.m. Tickets will be sold at $10 per couple at the door. Door prizes will be given i -- 1 away. Layton planetarium presents star shows The Layton Ott Planetarium on the Weber State College campus will present two new star . shows. Fall Skies : - will be shown at 6 will include fall This show p.m. constellations. Also showing is a special star show, A Comet Called Halley. : " Davis library to host annual book fair CLEARFIELD The annual book fair sponsored by the Davis ' County Library will be held on Friday, and Saturday, Oct. i I and 12 at the North Branch Library in Clearfield. The library is locat-e- d at 562 S. 1000 E. The time will be regular library hours : a.m. to 6 p.m. .' 1 1 . |