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Show if rtiar'ititr' ifmiirijurD"itn ' I. Thf Salt Lake Tribune, Thursday, January "hi p 'TTf ii jffif nf 'T IS, 1970 MEwo jokers sure come in handy printed in the 18th century there were no jokers7 People Would liuphue one caid and have to go out and buy an entire new deck, so they started making the decks with two jokers just for that reason When you lose one card, all you have to do is mark on the joker the missing Ileloise card and you are all set DEAR HELOISE: HELOISE: niHli jC. VT La.st night we were ready to pi: v a of cards when we discovered that the seven of clubs was missing. '..game So we just used the joker as a substitute. I used a red, marker and drew a 7 and a club on the card. Sure When you repot your large plants, remember it's important to make sure there is some air space around the saved buying a new Card ... . roots 1 use peanut shells ' After eating the peanuts, soak thy shells for awhile and then spread them out to dry. Mix them with the dirt as you fill the put. The shells will provide the. deck Lover -- Well, hcfney child, you had a good idea. Do you know that when cards were fust -- Book details paradoxes She met Celia Halas through a program at Arizona State fellowship Newspapers where they discovered a University, For six months, Drs. Celia Halas and common interest m women's problems Roberta Matteson practiced Women Are Clients psychotherapy Monday through ThursTheres a reason 82 percent of mental day in their Phoenix office. But the four-da- y wrork week didnt health clients are women. Dr. Halas Women are more sensitive to mean a three-da- y play weekend They said used that time to write' Ive Done So problens in their lives and will go for help, even though they arent causing Well Why Do I Feel So Bad? the problem. The book, 'about the paradoxical It might be their husband, father or messages women get in our society, boyfnend who is causing it But was published in July (MacMillan, because women are made to feel $19 95, 304 pages). a good emoresponsible for After the book came out the new tional climate, creating feel guilty and they authors, friends for 11 years and responsible. partners for five, heaved sighs of relief In their practice, they see a steady week at the and returned to a five-da- y stream of women of all ages who feel office helpless, Repressed and useless. In a recent conference-cal- l interview They feel somehow betrayed, in m from their homes Phoenix, they talked about the book and how it many cases, because theyve done everything that was expected of them developed. they got married, raised their Since it came out. Dr. Halas said, children and tried to put the familys vanous women have told them, I saw needs first myself on every page.' Others have' In return, they got left behind. asked, Are you sure you didnt know Children grow up and leave home me before you wrote the book7 Husbands turn to their careers or other That, naturally, is gratifying v ri women an4,4jyorce their wives at a 4 See Themselves time wheh they feel most dependent. In this culture, Dr. Halas said, if Dr. Matteson said the book is meant to help women see themselves and a woman is not dependent on a man, she some of the problems they have. is looked on as one of those liberated I think women have been blamed for ones, you know? Yet if they are the unhappiness they feel, she said, dependent, they are afraid to take and little has been done to help them nsks, because what if the thing they are dependent on doesnt like it? move on. Women put up with terrible condiThe chapters outline some of the Dr. Matteson agreed Because tions, women face: paradoxes they are taught to expect very little, How be both can I Equality they mke do with what they get. equal and inferior7 Paradox "I can be emoEmotionality One case history in their book tional, but 1 mustnt upset anyone illustrates the paradox of self esteem. I dont see it the Perception Joan, 22 and married to Bert had never way you do, so I must be wrong. settled into married life When he That is the way men wasnt out with friends or other women, Sexuality like women, but I dont dare.be. that, .be used her fur unloading hiaWstilities. way resulted from Joans low having an abusive father' who once Myths --mtllose, especially W'hen-' made her watch while he, drowned win . 't The authors started becoming aware kittens, one by one The paradoxical glue that kept Joan of these things during graduate school, attached to Bert, the authors wrote, they said was that any little elevation in her Dr Halas, 56, was first an interior originated in his infrequent designer and later owned a quilting endearments or offhand kindnesses. business, m addition to raising three Her hope that she was lovable rose children and fell like a barometer in response to I consider that a career, too, she his moods I stayed at home till my said Women often come in with problems Dr. Halas said youngest was 5. I probably wouldn't of low have thought of leaving home at that This is based on the fact they feel time except my husband got sick, and I guilty for just about everything, when had to go out and work they arent responsible for it at all. Dr Matteson, 45, entered underMany of their women clients find it graduate school when her son was m exciting, she added, when they realize the ninth grade, about 15 years ago they have other options. By Kmght-Ridd- , " , Pat Borden er ' needed airspaces and will also prov ide Fry in small amount of oil until tender, hi R B extra humus later. inns vi , livli 'tut. flail to taste i The bran flakes give the eggplant a Well, bless my soul, you do have delicious nutty like flavor, and adheie good idea, and absolutely no waste w ell and do not burn or stick to the pan Ileloise Of course, I dont recommend this for DEAR HELOISE: on a diet - but it .sure is goad anyone Sooner or later just about everyone Norma Holbrook anyway. will have to wear dentures oi a partial HELOISE. DEAR plate After you have cleaned your dentin es Use a cup of keiosone in two gallons good and are ready to retui n them to of water to wash cars, boats, and your mouth, just add a little toothpase windows It leaves them sparkling to the upper inside of the upper plate When finished washing with this .This givgs you such a fresh, solution, use an old bath towel to wipe and tasting mouih It would the car, etc This method will not woi k ; wol bitpartials also or cars that have become oxidized The xid.zation must he removed first w ith r J cleaner (Note Use no wax with this Atw0?a V. . lionise Bremer method ) DEAR HELOISE; HELOISE: DEAR Have you ever. thought about keeping Being a foimer pediatric nurse, I ? all your, plastic 'liquid detergent have frequently been called upon to so many pretty gne first aid in minor disasters such as They come-i'"colors and' shapes these days and you cuts, scrapes and insect stings One of can do so many different thmgs with the basics in my first aid kit is meat them tendener It takes the sting away For instan6e wash and rinse one when applied to all types of stings, thoroughly, cut it off at whatever height including jelly fish stings, which are not fits youf purpose and use it to hold uncommon along the coastal area Peggy Van Kirk celery or carrot sticks sweet-smsUin- Now Frenchs Sloppy Hot Dogs g docs for hot doss what Sloppy Joes docs for hamburger! Scree up a Y.'holc new hoi dog meal with a delicious chili taste tonight. - bot-tlea- Looks very pretty on your table and your guests. wll think you are clever to think of such a thing Mary DEAR RBLOISE : I add a little bran flakes to some of my recipes It gives fiber to our diet and is inexpensive I found it especially good m frying eggplant After peeling and slicing the eggplant, dip it in beaten egg, then coat generously with crushed bran fakes This column is written for you . . . the homemaker. If you have a hint or a problem write to Heloise in care of The Sait Lake Tribune, Home Service Dept., Box 867, Salt Lake City, Utdh, 84110. Because of the tremendous volume of mail, Heloise is unable to answer individual letters. She will, however, answer your questions in her column whenever possible. Dial A.D.S-2.0.0.- we make your life delicious. 0 (237-200- 0) on your phone tv ViL S t Save 3 SweeJ 7 ob Some SvohdeKii! 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