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Show Lakeside Review South, Wednesday, August 15, 1984 In Rain or Shine See A Shrink Before Classes SHARON NAUTA STEELE Special to the Lakeside Review . Remember the time when people went to a mental health clinic when they wanted to see a shrink? Nowdays you go to a department store to see, not one shrink, but a whole rack of them. And you take your d daughter with you. Good heavens, exclaim, as my oldest female child emerges from behind a dress ing room curtain wearing a pair of denim jeans that would fit nicely on either King Kong or the Statue of Liberty. Those pants drown you. They're not pants, theyre shrinks! Jennifer says with a certain twang she uses whenever she feels a need to remind me that my vocabulary is like, archaicsville. They may seem a little big now, but they sure wont drown me after I drown them. Wait a minute! Shrink, shrank, or shrunk, that pair of jeans is an inanimate object. You cant drown something that isnt alive in the first place. But they are alive. See here on this labelit says theyll fit me like my own living skin after theyve been washed four or five times. Four or five times? You teen-age- 1 exA plethora of perts in the study of children and families make everyday parents feel like amateurs and afraid d to apply the traditions time-teste- of child rearing. Dr. Craig Campbell, the new chairman of the Weber State College department of child and family studies, said that with the introduction of so many theories on how best to raise children the mean Im supposed to fork over good money for a pair of dungarees that will be worn out in the wash before you even wear them once? Please Mother, lower your voice. You wouldn't want anyone to hear you say dungarees, would you? Anyway, they wont be worn out. Theyll look just like that pair over there. The Review will print a picture along with a story of engagement or wedding free of charge. Deadline for all wedding, engagement material is Thursday afternoon at Tam child psychologist for years for Weber County Mental Health. In addition he e at Weber State taught part-tim- since 1979. Dr. Campbell served as a and Green Beret in Viet-Naworked with many orphaned children. That experience, he said, started him looking at child psym time-teste- What pair? This one!" My daughter says with suppressed emotion as she walks over to caress the tag on a faded pair of jeans that look suspiciously like the ones I stuffed in a good-wicollection box wide-sprea- pre-wash- ll two weeks ago. Unwilling to pursue this conversation, I fork over a small fortune, for a pair of pants I could have got a whole lot cheaper at somebodys day-car- rum- mage sale. daughter cradles her purchase, imploring me with undisguised urgency to get her home to our laundry room like really fast. Once in the drivers seat, I step on the gas, wondering how many mothers have been driven by fashions like shrinks to shrinks of another or the north Bountiful, office, 2146 N. Main, Layton, Antelope Square, 298-110- Heres a rice salad that pro- vides flavor, economy and nutrition. It has a zippy Mexican flavor and includes important protein through eggs, rice, and cheese. Mexican Rice Salad 9 -- hard-cooke- d eggs, raising a family. Whenever I approach a class, never go in with the idea that Im the expert. I simply say, I have four children of my own and these are some of my ideas, I WSC child and family courses are not just for those wishing to work in that area, but noted that many students enroll in the classes with the idea of becoming better My concern is for get them training as early as possible. he said. parents--t- Dr. Campbell par- ents. He added, said that the o chopped 1 ' C sliced celery C chopped canned green chiles 1 1. Immediate resuscitation is necessary. 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He said that many factors curthings right and afraid they will do other things wrong, so they rently are influencing families, end up, at times, not knowing but noted that divorce is one of what to do. the most traumatic events that d The traditions families are forced to face, and its d occurrence is affectworked, but now a lot of those tradtions are getting questioned both and stable famdivorced ing so parents arc questioning the ilies. Now divorce is so much the norm that its unsettling to way they raise children, said Dr. children. Its like their roots are Campbell. That, in itself, is not bad, but going." too often it puts parents in a state Dr. Campbell said that because of confusion on how to run their of the increased incidence of difamilies, he said. vorce there are more problem Dr. Campbell was recently apchildren in public schools and at e centers. The pointed chairman of the WSC private child and family studies departkids tend to act out more because ment. 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