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Show Shawn Nilsson to Wed Kayle Brown Saturday Shawn ContemporaryLiving Nilsson Teen Dilemmas By Letitia (Tish) Baldrige Dear Ms. Baldrige: Row .conll pe ay Nes Staneet ndeee anne and Dad earn wr) wonweeave Wehave bical Gems ead my voven'are Ley about letting me have the gang over, but say things have gotten out of hand. Last month we danced to disco tapes until 3 a.m. My parents let loose with the gripes starting at midnight. My mother came down in her rollers and bathrobe at two and said she was calling the police. My dad came downin his bathrobe at three and did call ispice: Everyone split, of course, before they had to come. Is there anything someone like me can do to assure my parents that I can give a party with myfriends going home at like mi it? I just don’tlike to throw myfriends out. — R.B., Pittsburgh Your friends have to learn to get the ae and you ee to learn to communicate it them,loud and clear. First, send a handwritten invitation to your next party (you can haveit duplicated on an office machine). Put down in black and white the party hours. “Starting Time — 8 p.m. End of game — Midnight” or something “ —8p.m. a Midnight.” Use whatever terminology you want, but when you haveit written, they will follow it more easuy. Get a big bell to ring at midnight and announceto the gathering thatif everyone doesn’t leave, there won’t be oy more good times in your If they don’t leave in an orderly fashion, your parents have the right to ring down the curtain on your parties, and you havethe duty to look for a different set of friends. (The ones you have surely will not let you down, will shee) Dear Ms. Baldrige: My mother came into the living room yesterday with your book opento the page where you say that we kids are supposed to get up when a grownup comes into the room. You've got ts be Ki . When I’m on the floor in my favorite position, reading my from to p.m. fathe Women's Cultural Hall, 310 W. 500 N., Provo. All friends and relatives are invited to attend, no formal invitations will be sent. The couple will reside in Provo after their marriage iit i ———— a Sa —_— a SBOOOeS SON DD NOS DLR DSS" er og Wednesday, January 16. 1980. THE HERALD, Provo, Utah—Page 19 favorite magazine, minding my own business, why do I have to interrupt everything when a whom I see every day of my life, The reason you your favorite magazine is that it — for Bridal Adornment Le ee ee ee ree environment — whether it’s your home, your offe,orthe group you're seated wit at ie bow JEWELRYis an important addition to any bridal ensemble. ‘Rights’ automatic reflex. You do it without thinking about it, and you're immediately perceived as well-mannered. Tt will mean a great deal to your career, your social life, and even your family life. It takes approximately 12 seconds to get up from the floor, to step forward with your hand outstretched saying, ‘Hello, Mrs. Smith,” and to return to thefloor, in » >ur favorite position, with your favorite reading material.Is that really asl too much? Dear Ms. Baldrige: How do I introduce my teacher to my parents? My mother is a lawyer and uses her own name. Noneofthe kids knows what the proper procedure is, and our families are coming to a seminar at school. — Santa Barbara You introduce your parents to your teacher, not the reverse: “Miss Whelan, I would like to introduce my parents. This is my Father, John Wilson, and this is my mother, Mary Grant.. -Mom and Dad, -He iss Whelan, my teacher.” . Baldrige welcomes letters and will ae as many7nn as possible in her column. Please eas your letters to Ms. Tish Baldrige, (name of your paper), P.O. Box 5028, F.D.R.Station, New York, N.Y. 10022.) (ce) 1979, Los Angeles Times Syndicate Coalition Tells Plans The Equal Rights van will join with the Eq Rights Coalition otk nes and Sunrise Trio entertained Orem Women's Club coalitions in other non- members and their husbands recently in a dinner ratified states in spelling Me Ae aeevonval Terrace in Orem. lembers trio are Carolyn Johnson, Kathy the names oftheir states = Lett in all cor- Harper and Miriam Harper. They sang songs from the 1890's to the present “Until the“equal Rights day—wearing hats and costumes featuring various Amendment is ratified, ee of time. They were accompanied at the piano Ann Parker. Utah will be known as Hatu to symbolize its (Welcoraiag members and guests was Mrs, Richard backward thinking as Nimer, pee Marvin Rasmussen, chairman of the enterregards equal rights for tainment committee, introduced the program. women. Clara Baugh toasted the men andEva Evan Baugh returned the toastto theladies. Assisting Mrs. Rasmussen on the entertainment FORTNIGHTERS committee were Mrs. Merlin Manning, Mrs. Merlin Will meet Thursdayat 8 Finch, Mrs. Leo Rowley, Mrs. Lee Nebeker, Mrs. W. p.m.at the home of Mrs. G. Yorgensen and Mrs.Carl Scobie. Club Notes E. 3860 N., Provo. Program will be on upcoming legislative session,nangwill be given by Rupper. Proposed Orem Hospital Zoning Plan Subject of BFW Meeting To Be Aired by Orem’s propased Primary Car Hospital was the subject by DeLance squire, lospital Board Chairman, at the January meeting of Orem Business and Professional Women’s Club meeting held at Sirloin Stockade. Squire was this week named Orem Citizen of the Year by Orem r of Commerce becuase ofhis wide community service. He is a certified public accountant and heads a local CPA firm. ire explained the background of the project wherein for the past few years, Orem City officials and neighborhood committees had felt the need for a hospital in Orem. A board of 16 are citizens was named to st ans and gain approval from fol and state agencies with Intermountain Health Care as the parent company. The board has the cooperation of Utah Valley Hospital and American Fork Hospital. The first phase, mainly matemity and emergency,is now under struction on a 40 acres site south of 400 N. and between 400 and 500 W., and is being built at an approximate cost of four million doll Completion ‘date for the 20 bed aeis expected April 1, 1981. 2nd phase will be medical and to SHAWN NILSSON Orem Women’s Club Has Musical Program At Husband's Festivity Are All Those Medical Diagnostic Tests Needed? Atleast half the tests given in today’s popular comprehensive medical examinations are unnecessary. Heine in the current Feb. 12 issue of ‘‘Woman’s Day,” Dr. Mike Oppenheim says,onlyfour of the 11 most common diagnostic tests are needed on a regularbasis. Voter’s League The League of Women Voters of Provo, Utah Countywill hold a unit neta at 10 a.m. in the Provo City Commission Chambers for league members and the public to hear a presentation of “The Breckenridge Land Development Code.” include 54 beds. The hospital is being constructed with a modular design and will have private and semi-private rooms, A medicaloffice facility paid by the doctors, will be built on site. The concern is for excellent care at Steven Young of the Provo” City Community an economical cost. If there are serious Development Department will present the national situations, other larger hospitals are award winning code which was developed by Kirk Wickersham, an attorney and planning consultantin recommended. Boulder, Colo. and chairman of the Division of PlannDona Sumner and Christine it and Lawfor the American Planning Association. Yergensen were co-chairmen of the Wickersham presented the plan previously to meeting with Mrs. Sumner in- Provo City officials and representatives of various troducing the speaker and his wife, sectors of the community and asa result, the city is investigating processesof this type for possible aprot ire. ToPret Maxine Corah,led in plication to community problemsin Provoandpublic the discussion and study of the recom- inj it will be invited following a study of the pan. aret Firmage, president of the League, will mendations for canes in by laws of conduct a board meeting at 9 a.m.prior to the unit the National Federat It was announced that the next ineeting. meeting, Feb. 5, would be on Personal Helen Wilkins is chairman of the zoning studies Development with Vesta Niccum and committee for the league and is coordinating the event. Evelyn Terry as co-chairmen. FREE ORGAN LESSONS Dunkley Music is now offering a rapid organ course especially designed for non-players. 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