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Show tage 30—THE HERALD. Provo. Utah, Sunday ruary 13, 1980 ContemporaryLiving: Sexual Equality: Rough Seas na By LETITIA (TISH) BALDRIGE Dear Ms. Baldrige: As a man. like holding a woman's coat for her. | like holding the door for her. I like holding her chair for her. I like holding her Why can't I continue to treat women the wayI was raised to, and my father and grand- father before me” Does this brave new world mean women have to become our buddiesinstead of our lovers” sn't feminism inevitably mean that a man treats a woman without respect. without good manners? — K.B., Nashville No. Feminism inits proper form results in well-mannered men treating well-mannered women with respect, and vice-versa. The emphasis should be on people treating each other kindly, not one **x having to treat anoiher in a special way Treating each other with respect has nothing to do with a man's rushing to pull back a woman's chair jn the office. How the two sexes treat each other on their own time is their own business, but the manner in which he treats her in the office shows whetherheis willing to admit her talents and abilities. li he continually treats her as a fragile helpless object, heis proclaiming to company managementthat she is incapable of making any tough decisions on her own Dear Ms. Baldrige: How doI tell a young male colleague to stop leaping to his feet every timeI enter a room in ouroffice where he happens to be? He even does it in our firm's law library I know heis deing it to be nice. for he was raised in the “old school and I'm thefirst woman lawyer in our firm. We're the same age. we're both single. and we have both had the same education. I considerhis attitude a Whatis nice is that you care about kind and not wanting ‘‘to hurtfeelings.” With that kind of attitude, you can't go wrong using your instincts. Just take him aside privately, and tell him gently that what he is doing is not helping yourlife with the firm. Explain exactly why, but keep a big smile on your face. He may be upset that he has caused you grief — so take put-down I don’t want to be sharp with him, and I don't wantto hurt his feelings — or anyone's. It’s hard to knowhowto handle something him to the ball game to-seal the bargain like this in human relationships Hopefully. bythe time I'm 30, I'll have had enough ex- (Ms. Baldrige welcomes letters and will answer as many questions as possible in her column. Please address yourletters to Ms. perience to knowinstinctively just what to do. Right nowmyinstincts are undeveloped. — E.T., San Francisco Tish Baldrige, nameof your paper, P.O. Box , F.D.R. Station, New York, N.Y i (ce) 1979, Los Angeles Times Syndicate YAF4 SINE JOAN LAUREEN STIREMAN Joan Stireman Will WedFrank Keepers In Feb. 15 Ceremony Joan Laureen Stireman will becomethe bride of Frank Richard Keepers Jr. in a ceremony per- formed Feb. 15 at St. Francis Catholic Church. A reception and dance will follow the 6:30 p.m. ceremonyin the St. Francis Social Hall. Friends and relatives are invited to attend. Parents of Miss Stireman are Mr. and Mrs. John O. Stireman, Orem. Mr. Keepersis a son of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Richard Keepers Sr., Anchorage, Ala. Thebride-elect graduated from Orem High School and is attending Utah State University. She was a memberof Chaparrell Flag Team, and has been active in AFROTCAngelFlight. Sheis a junior majoring in sociology. Mr. Keepersgraduated from Antelope Valley High School in Lancaster, Calif.. and is a senior at USU majoring in special education. Attending the bride as matron of honor will be Mrs. Julie Swensen; Mrs. Clark Knudsen and Jean Cravenswill be attendants. Best man will be Frank R. Keepers Sr., father of the bridegroom. Jack Klauschie and Tracy Martin will usher. After their marriage the newlywedswill live in Logan to continue their studies at USU. Meecham Addresses Lambda Tau Club Be Good to Your Beds and Baths, Dress Up Your Dining with Savings in Fashion Domestics The scarcity of womenin politics was the subject of the Lambda Tau meeting held recently at the home of Mrs. Richard Wilkins. Meechamcited her own desire to becomeinvolved. in the communityas her reason for running for commissionerin thefirst place. “I have always been concerned that we have the quality of life conducive to a good familylife,” she said. “T view things differently than men,butit is compatible to work with them.” She added, ‘‘Men and women are existing together here on earth and womenin politics create a good balance.” She encouraged women to become moreinvolved in the community — in neighborhood programs and other areas — in order to understand and help work out problemsin their own areas, “T’ve alwaysset mypriorities,” she said. ‘Family and church comefirst, but even when I had young children, I madeaneffort to allow a few hours each week for community involvement.” A question-answer period followed centering on the responsibilities of the commissioners in the community. 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