| Show The Salt Lake Tribune Thursday January y 17 1991 All rMarriage on the rocks means rocks in the mattress Dear Ann Landers: I would like to reply to "Baffled in Tulsa" whose pusband said the reason he stayed with her all those years was because sex was so good My guess is her e pusband is going through his crisis and she doesn't know a compli- inent when she hears one I ! mid-lif- When marriages go on the rocks he rocks are usually in the mattress The vast majority of husbands want more sex than they are getting Stud- Ies show that men think about sex an average of six times an hour which is about 750 times a week not counting dreams Compare that figure with this one: The average married cou- pie has sex 15 times a week Have you ever heard of a man leaving his wife and family for an- - There are people in the community who need help They may be contacted by calling The Volunteer Center Community Services Council 486-213- 6 Recycling waste to help alleviate 'growing pressure on landfills is becoming increasingly popular To find convenient recycling center contact the Information & Referral Cen6 The center is the place ter to call when you don't know who to gall Office Help — Birthright needs office help work with women girls Worried by pregnancy Training pro yided Time flexible 4 Lend a Hand — AIDS Coalition of Vtah needs volunteers to answer phones perform office duties help with data entry run errands two hours a week s Plan On It — Willowwood Care Center needs volunteers (over age 60 qualify for RSVP benefits) to help with activities games entertain-Clien- t Time flexible Grandparents Wanted — Troubled teen boys in group homes benefit from interactions with volunteer grandparents Assist with school programs help conduct activities with teens and work Days times flexible Hospital Happiness — Volunteers who like to entertain sought by the rehabilitation unit of a local hospital Musical entertainment is especially needed (The hospital has no piano) English Anyone? — Volunteers imeded to teach English as a second language to children and adults Tutoring one on one Training provided days times flexible : Decorate With Paper — A professional wallpaper hanger needed for itbout four hours to paper one room for the Division of Youth Services Senior Assistance — Visually handicapped companions over 60 needed to help other seniors andor people with visual impairment actomplish daily tasks ie light housekeeping transportation Vol I 487-471- I I C I 1 ': ' Naas " '"'" v '1' 4 " - - I Ann Landers - o Iv — )' 91 - ?:' er '': 02( ? 4 '' ''" 4 other woman because she is a great cook or a fabulous housekeeper? Men leave their wives because they want more and better sex Let's face it "Tulsa" kept her husband because she is good in bed She should be proud of herself and appreciate her husband's frank truthful compli- ment It might be useful for her to di-h- one-on-o- unteers needed 20 hours a week Small stipend provided Enjoy the Music — The Utah Symphony needs ushers for at least two concert performances monthly Back to Basics — Elementary-ag- e school children need tutoring in reading math Days times flexible Be A Friend — A terminally ill man who doesn't have family members in the area needs friends to visit In downtown area Volunteer Teacher — program needs teacher any age to help with educational programs Time commitment is one hour daily one to five times a week Students are teens who need instruction in basic subjects File and Sort — Clerical volunteers needed to help file sort assist with basic office work Days times flexible Tough Issues — The U of U Hospital's new transplant program needs volunteers Training provided on deathdying issues Musical Note — Volunteers groups families needed to entertain at local care center Recreation Anyone? — Volunteer needed to help with recreational therapy games arts crafts music Riding Along — Volunteer with truck van needed to pick up food for u note What should I do with this expen- sive dress that I can't possibly wear anyplace else? — Up To My Ears In Taffeta Kingwood Texas Dear Kingwood: Put it on make a matching dunce cap and go sit in the corner Dear Ann Landers: In a recent col- umn you advised a troubled young woman to go back and get her high d attend classes but get whatever gree is offered The sole require-din- g ment is that such a person be over thank-yo- Jane didn't get in touch with me again for four months no phone calls not even a Christmas card Finally she phoned to say she had picked out the dresses They were $180 plus alterations Before the nwedding was over my expenses also included shoes shower shower gift and the wedding gift Throughout all this the only time I heard from Jane was to firm up details She ignored her bridesmaids at the rehearsal dinner and we barely spoke at the wedding I haven't seen or heard from her since not even a Phone Ahead — Volunteers needed to take calls at home about lost found sick injured animals Training provided Days flexible Books — Hawthorne Academy needs books especially educational Big Three — Detention Center needs dictionary thesaurus reference books Used Toys — Even Start needs new or good used toys espcially developmental for preschool children Quilting Material — Hillhaven needs light colored yarn material batting for quilts Lace — Ribbons Ribbon de-re- 18 Please set the record straight It could encourage a lot of people — PM Jamul Calif Dear PM: Thanks for the up call You're right on the money wake-bridesmai- Peeling pressurod to have sont? 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An job can be done in about an hour this way: ' Unplug the freezer and empty it Place several large buckets of very hot water inside and shut the lid Change the water in 15 minutes After a couple of changes most of the ice and water will have dropped to the bottom Use a wetdry vacuum to remove it When clean simply wipe up the residue plug in the freezer and load it up! — Karen Ziehr Port Alberni BC Canada ' Remember to exercise caution when using an electrical appliance around water You don't want to stand in a puddle! Also be sure the vacuum is rated "Wet" A regular vacuum will not work and would be dangerous to use — Heloise 3 Q One of my children is in love with the expensive flavored Is there a way to make regular g oatmeal taste more like them? — Brenda Crump Mobile Ala A There are many things you can add to oatmeal To make your own type add chopped fruit For the new swirly type add chocolate or butterscotch chips To make it crunchy use the crumbs from the bottom of a box of their favorite cereal Then there are always the old favorites: brown sugar and cinnamon raisins or applesauce — Heloise 'DEAR HELOISE: Have you ever made some delicious soup and it seemed too thin? 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— J Curtin La Habra Calif A I'd be glad to The seeds can be started in either dirt or water To start them in soil plant pointed end up in a pot full of dirt place it in a sunny spot with no direct sunlight and keep it moist To start in water stick three toothpicks in the seed to hold the top half out of the water and place in a small container pointed side up The water should come to the middle of the seed Replace the water when it gets yucky You will know it's ready to be planted in dirt when it has a lot of roots and the stem is about 4 inches tall I always trim it back to keep the plant from becoming tall and stick-lik- e When it gets about tall I cut it in half and it just branches out with new growth I have several that are 10- - to 12- feet tall What a wonderful free plant! — Heloise Q I have a hard time keeping my dishrags from getting sour I rinse them out after each use and hang them on a rack inside a cupboard I only use them for about four days g before they become What's the deal? 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