Show EB Saturday May 13 2000 Religion Standard-Examine- r Alllmissionaries will speak Sunday upsf otherw ise noted Baer Tyson Don Brierley son of Bruce and Mary Brierley of Layton will serve in the Buenos Aires Argentina South Mission 'All missionaries will speak Sunday unless otherwise notedi Sister Tifiany Albert daughter of Ron and Shalene Albert of He will speak at the Falcon Ridge Ward 1325 E Cherry Lanel Layton at 1 pm Elder Jonathan Berry son of Earl and Patty Berry of Clearfield will serve in the Missouri Independence Mission He will speaki at the Syracuse 5th Ward 1625 S 1100 West at 12:50 pm " Roy served in the Denmark Copenhagen Mission She will speak at the Roy 5th Ward 2100 W 5200 South at 9 am Sister Cammy Child daughter of Reid and Juanita Child of Syracuse served in the Illinois Peoria Mission She will speak at the Syracuse 4th Ward 1974 W 1700 South at 10:50 am Elder Kevin Bates son of Kent and Nancy Bates of North Ogden served in the Michigan Lansing Mission He will speak at the North Ogden 1st Ward 626 E 2600 North at 12:50 pm Elder Andrew J Gatherum son of Dawn M and Eloise E Gatherum of Roy served in the Philippines Naga Mission He will speak at the Roy 24th Ward 5900 S 3100 West at 11 am Elder Chris Leishman son of Michael and Rochelle Leishman of Harrisville served in the Brazil Ribeirao Preto Mission He will speak at the Harrisville 4th Ward 480 W 2000 North at 9 n Elder Brandon Couch son of Gary and Sandy Couch of Lay-to-n will serve in the Georgia Macon Mission He will speak at the Cherry Lane Ward 2435 E 1500 j'Jorth at 12:50 pm Elder Chad Eddy son of Norn and Dianne Eddy of Clinton will serve in the Philippines Olongapo Mission He will speak at the Clinton 6th Ward 2223 N Lay-to- Churches can appeal to Generation Xers News Service Scripps-Howar- d Tom Beaudoin cringed when he saw a sign in Atlanta advertising at “Young adult unplugged worship service” “Maybe it’s a great service but hen I see an ad like this I thinki ‘Come on this is such overt manipulation’ ” Beaudoin is a graduate of Harvard Divinity School and a member of Generation X the group of young adults born between pie get inside their symbols inside their language” To do that Beaudoin the author of Virtual Faith: The Irreverent Spiritual Quest of Generation X” urges religious groups to create generational space within their congregations where Gen-Xer- s can have their own place and time to get together and focus on prayer social justice And service and discussion of religious topics Such ministries should be 196 hand 1981 d he said because Rfeher than be impressed by peers are more likely to underefforts to use song styles lanstand how to tastefully incorpoguage images and advertising rate their questions and needs into programming and worship strategies to reach However he does not neceshowler he often finds such tactics anjarrassing sarily think holding separate wor“'ijhfe is a generation that is ship services for 20- - and is ideal “There is a extrejnply savvy about advertising and doubly savvy when it danger of fragmenting what in comes ito religious advertising Christian language we would call d JT he and the body of Christ' if you break hamjiated approaches more of- the church up into lots of focus ten than hot come from people groups and let each one have who have good intentions but their own worship” are outside the Gen-culture Generational safe spaces are needed he said because some “The church always goes questions will wrong when it only be asked “It rectify is astounding within their contries to appear fines but certain cool It never the degree to which young answers will goes wrong when it tries to come only in people are already peer-base- Gen-Xe- rs heavy-hande- X attend people’s est to deep- thirst” Despite their jrither ir- reverent facade and high degree of religious illiteracy Gen-Xeare a rs spiritually bunch generating questions about their spiritual life even though the literacy touch with Beaihtcdn said “II rpally oj already is astounding the dewhich young people are generating questions aboil their Spiritual life even though the literacy previous generations may have had isn’t there Even if they don’t have the language for it they are very much concerned for their own spiritidl Bit clergy and other religious leaders who want to connect with Generation X and help them find answers to their questions need first Jojdo some serious listening Beaiftlpinsaid Hliefein listening for the presence of the Holy Spirit in these people in your You cannot declare by fiat what people really need It takes listening You cannot dictate whatj is best for the spiritual life of ilnerations different from youirown You have to if you are goirg to minister to young peo- well-bein- M 1 be something shared by everyone When you set up Gen X can’t be allowed Beaudoin graduate to become a of Harvard Divinity School church within a -- Tom their need for a spiritual identity gree settings “That is why worship needs to previous generations may adult young have had isn’t there” ministries they thirsty very much in Profaizer Murray Virginia West at 11 am Charleston Elder Jake Hoerman son of Mission He Dave and Jenni Hoerman of will speak at Mountain Green will serve in the Morgan the Lithuania Vilnius Mission 1st Ward at He will speak at the Rosehill 10:45 am Ward 4150 W Highway Road Elder Rob- -' at 9:45 am ert McBride Elder Jimi Jarman son of Steson of Michael ve and Frances Jarman of Pleasand Jean McBride of ant View will serve in the Florida Tampa Mission He will speak Syracuse will serve in the Georgia Atlanta Misat the Pleasant View 3rd Ward sion He will speak at the Syra3602 N 500 West at 2:50 pm Elder Christopher A Lee son cuse 10th Ward 1313 S 1500 of Jeffrey and Wendy P Jones of West at 12:20 pm Elder Trevor D Murray son Layton will serve in the Washington Tacoma Mission He will of Dean and Debbie Murray of speak at the Layton 6th Ward West Haven will serve in the 1290 N Church St at 10:50 am Venezuela Barcelona Mission Elder Randy Lifferth son of He will speak at the Wilson 1st n Ward 2333 S 2700 at 11 am Rick arid Kathy Lifferth of vvillerve in the Canada HalElder Jared Profaizer son of ifax Mission He will speak at the Frank and LeAnna Profaizer of Pleasant Hills Ward 2300 N Kaysville will serve in the Eng1200 West Layton at 12:50 pm land Leeds Mission He will Elder Dustan James Little speak at the Oakridge 5th Ward son of Frank and Sally Little of 1550 S 500 East Kaysville at 12:30 pm Morgai will serve in the West 1000 McBride Little Lifferth Lee church” Gen X ministries at their best he said are vital integral and contributing members of the larger body When they do take time to listen to Gen-Xereligious leaders who have spent the last decade cozying up to the consumer-drive- n Baby Boomers may be sur- prised to learn what the pierced tattooed generation wants from rs religion “I’m not qecessarily in favor of taking Smashing Pumpkins and Sarah McLachlan and ing that church music” Beaudoin said “What works for us in our secular lives doesn’t necessarily have to work for us at church “There seems to be a bothand sensibility about toward church services We tend to want both our secular lives our CDs our Internet relationships attention to fashion our own culture our movies and something else something different maybe even more traditional liturgy maybe more traditional mak- Gen-Xe- rs Mission He wiH speak at the Perry 4th Ward 685 W 2450 South at 10:45 am Elder Craig S Parker son of Lany and Phyllis Parker of Roy: served in the Ribeiraa Preto Brazil Mission He will speak at the Cedar Crest Ward 3845 S 2000 West Roy at 11 am Elder Darin Lr Rich son of Lester and LaRae Rich of Clearfield served in the France Mission He will speak at the Clearfield 3rctWard 231 E 300 North at 9 ajji Mar-sail- le of Elaine Roylancyf North Og- - den and the late Larry Roylance'" served in the Indianapolis Indi- ana Mission He fflIEtpeak at the North Ogden 770 Er 2100 North at 12£0 pm Elder Aaron VanBeekum son of Ron and Jacquie VanBeekum of North Ogden served in the 2nt&d Connecticut Hartford Mission He will speak at the Ben Lomond 8th Ward 1150 E 2600 North North Ogden at 12:50 pm Elder Timothy Winder son of Timothy and Cynthia Winder of am Ogden served in the Brazil Porto Elder John Malan son of Alegre South Mission He will 1029 Boyd and Robin Malan of Perry speak a the Jackson-Warserved in the France Marseille 26th St Ogden at 12:30 pm d Whitesides Stout He will speak at the Washington Terrace 12th Ward 125 E 5350 South at 12:50 pm the Arizona Tempe Mission He Elder Brett Spencer Stout son will speak at the Pleasant View of Ron and Glenda Stout of Lay-to- n 1st Ward 2975 N 1000 West at will serve in the Georgia 10:50 am Macon Mission He will speak at a the Country Oakj Ward 2680 E Elder Travis H Guillen son of Vicki Guillen of Cherry Lane Layton at 12:45 Ogden will serve in the Hawaii pm Honolulu Mission He will speak Elder Tyson Wood Whitesides at the Lorin Farr 5th Ward 770 son of Roland and Christine 15th St Ogden at 12:50 pm Whitesides of West Point will Elder Devin Spence son of serve in the Uruguay Montevideo Mission He will speak at the Gary and Linda Spence of Washington Terrace will serve in the West Point 7th Ward 550 N 2300 West at 1 pm Guatemala City North Mission Elder Philip Sauvageau son of Barbara and Donald Sauvageau of Pleasant View will serve in - 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Submit letters to: Religion editor po Box 951 Utah 5 4402 Ogden or religionstandardnet LDS temple weddings hypocritical elitist As the father of two beautiful I have watched them reach young adulthood with pride And as their father I have looked forward to that tradition of giving each to her future husband Unfortunately I was recently informed that I would not be allowed to perform this most fatherly duty Why not? I have always been a good dad eagerly supporting their interests and activities in addition to their financial needs However I have been deemed “not good enough” to give my daughter to on their wedher husband-to-b- e daughters time-honor- religion Calendar clarity ed ding day It seems my daughter has been recently converted to the Mormon faith and has determined that she must get married in the LDS Temple which does not allow In fact even members cannot enter without passing special requirements - seems to be a very elite club indeed! What is all this secrecy? I consider myself a Christian and I believe that Christians open their homes and places of worship to all Yet here in the land of at least giving lip service to the family I am to be excluded from my daughter’s wedding It appears that family is valued only when they are members of “the secret society:” temple recommended Mormons Not only am I excluded but those church officials who should be encouraging family togetherness have done the opposite They have advocated counseled and recommended non-membe- rs that my daughter choose this secret rite over her father (the local bishop happens to be my next door neighbor yet he doesn’t consider" me good enough to be included in this family function nor does he obviously consider the Fifth Com- mandment important!) Don’t the Mormons bejieyein the Ten Commandment$?LHPw church condone-suc- non-Christi- an ideas? vttin And if this group insists on maintaining such -- exclusivity then they should make it one that can occur immediately following the civil ceremony Cur- -' rently couples must wait a year after a civil ceremony and my daughter has been convinced that she needs to ‘get “sealed” as sooif as possible and should not wait a year! jjhen let the newly married copple enter into this secret club immediately to the public The Church Directory is published once a month prior to the first Sunday of each month Items include the address and phone number of local congregations Missionaries Pictures will be published of departing missionaries only af- ter the traditional wedding which can include all family not just certain adults! I feel completely disrespect-! -- ed and dishonored-- by an extremely hypocritical organization which touts family values on a daily basis The leadership needs to rethink this function so that family edit be truly honored and respected and elitist attitudes are Self-righteo-us decidedly My point is (q express my non-Ghristi- extreme hurt at this exclusion by an entire community and I suggest changes be made to discontinue this most disrespectful elitist selfish and yes hypocritns‘ ical format Duane Adams Jr Layton We need God in everything ter- This letter is in response to all who are complaining about prayers Get real Who cares what kind of prayer is offered stacked against us completely Was this country not based on Christian beliefs? I beg to differ but this is God’s country Why else would this land be the way it is today By luck? Yeah people don’t believe in a Supreme Being But I pray that one day all of you will come to the knowledge that there Is a God and he loves you If we all trusted in God we would not need the Army for God would help us fight off all evil In the past God has helped us win battle after battle our biggest victories such as the Revolutionary War and all world wars when the odds were right as long as we are communicating with God That’s the bottom line I realize that many If we had God back in schools and society' we would see all acts of evil cease In closing I would just like to share this scripture John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perisE7but have ev--' erlasting life” Chad McCrary Washington Terrace THE SOUNDS OF THE SABBATH Music from LDS and elude a description of the event time date place address sponsor cost registration details a number to call for information and whether the event is open can any h & contemporary Christian artists Sunday 7 to 11 AM Softest Place on tlic Dial also heard at 1079 FM- - |