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Show nti n nMrriiirii iprij rrp-- t"f"w i!ttp'iiJ''iMifiP'TT,ii'T"y XU 4A DESERET NEWS, SATURDAY, MAY WW KH 26. 1973 efore the vows, let's talk masters degree candidate in business administration at the University of Utah They plan to be mamed Aug 24, a By Whit Wlrslng Deseret News religion writer Salt Lake City clergymen of all denominations 14 today are exercising greater stewardship over the couples who come to them and ask to be married High divorce rates and the possibly larger number of marriages which are merely holding together have prompted them to devote a substantial part of their abilities to We had a disagreement on whether the wife should be partly responsible for bringing in the money, Chns said He said Anderson counseled them to look at it from the point of view of whether the wife needs to have outside interests or work Chns admitted that at first we didnt want to come down for counseling. After the first session it was a little better, and after the second, we thought it was really counseling. Couples who go through consultation with a minister or pre-mant- rabbi before getting married are nearly always grateful for the experience, clergymen say Sometimes the couple decides not to get married. Im not going to marry anybody I havent spoken to at great length," said Rabbi Abner L Bergman of CongreI know of no rabbi who would officiate gation Kol Ami at a couples wedding as a mere functionary. Rabbi Bergman said engagements are getting shorter "and I think thats good He described engagement as a difficult period for a couple Youre not single, you have a responsibility to each other, yet youre not mamed so the responsibility is not clearly defined Its a very, very ambivalent period " good. Elizabeth said Anderson counseled them to at least once a year, especially on our anniversary, read through the wedding ceremony together m the prayer book Anderson also gives the couple an inventory on sexuality to take home, fill out and send back Anderson said is probably one of the more difficult areas to sexuality get into, because in our culture weve made sex a strange, distinct function of life But you marry a person body, mind and spirit The couple must have an awareness that the mamage is a communion that involves all of who they relationship are " The Episcopal Church requires in its canons that the pnest consult with each couple who plans to marry in the church Rev. Robert M. Anderson, dean of St Marks Cathedral, said that an address by the minister during the wedding ceremony telling you what marriage is, is almost ludicrous Dean Anderson said he has developed a pattern of counseling over the years involving usually five meetings with a couple, sometimes more and rarely fewer. As we enter into the conversation together, we lay out that through counseling, it mav become clear that the couple is not ready to get married Or new factors come to light there may be new areas to work out Of between 75 and 100 couples Anderson has counseled, five have decided as a result of the experience not to get married, he said. Missioner to talk at church in S.L. fi each other in a encourage the couple to talk creative way and also to break open some of the things that we know Horn national statistics are danger areas After finding out when the coupe wants to get married and other basic facts about the couple, I try to find out why they want to get married in the context of the Christian church. The pnest In our tradition is trying to help the couple come to gnps with what a Christian mamage, means, Anderson said. To understand the terms of a Christian marriage means to understand His cross, being crucified, being broken, almost destroyed, praying together, the deep awareness that you are broken and not infallible " We missionary to the Republic of South Africa who is now on furlough in the United States, will speak at 11 a m. Sunday at the First Church of the Nazarene, 2018 E 21st South Schmelzenbach has his bachelor in theology degree from Northwest Nazarene College, Nampa, Idaho He has served as a Nazarene missionary since 1936. bc-m-g 3780 East 3900 South 377-941- Anderson said the best indication of how the mamage will turn out is the courtship In addition, to help the couple explore together what their marriage will be like, Anderson asks each prospective husband and wife to fill cut an inventory of attitudes on deceptively simple issues as money and whether the husband should help with the dishes. or 2 278-630- Morning WorshiQ Sonnet Evangelistic Bibte Study P3$t0f 00 a m. ChCStei Bunch 30pm. 6 30 YOUTH MEETING A A traveling Jewish bookstore, sponsored by Atid, the of the college organization Umted Synagogue of America, will be in Sait Lake City Tues- day evening It will be at the Jewish Community Center. 2416 E 17th South, from 7.30 to 11 p m. Dan Siegel, a graduate of Columbia University who has a master of Hebrew literature ORGN PRELUDE 545 PM. SERVICE 6 00 PM CHRISTIAN CHURCH 6876 HIGHLAND DR. 11 am A 3 in her first three months of pregnancy, while the other two are m t,ieir second three months. H. Wright Volker. an assistant attorney general of Utah, explained to the court that the states policy is to refuse payment for abortions under Medicaid unless they are for therapeutic purposes He said the three plaintiffs applied for abortion payments to the Social Services Department and Paul S Rose, director of the department, refused to authorize payment. Another assistant attorney general, W llliam Loos, said federal regulations allow the states to set standards under the Medicaid program as to what services they will pay for and under what circumstances they will refuse payment When questioned by Ritter, he acknowledged that the policy on abortions is not in writing. The state feels it can only pay for medically necessary services, he told the court Dolowitz argued, however, that the welfare departments policy of distinguishing between abortions was therapeutic and a denial of equal protection under the law on the basis of wealth. He cited a federal case in New York which he said upholds this contention. The state cant distinguish, we contend, between doing therapeutic abortions and not abortions, he added. dong Dolowitz said the womens physicians and the University of Utah Hospital obstetrics ti.p v nrnpfi for abortion1: romnvtfop annrrti CHRIST Sinday 9411am- Mult Classes L Gerald Burrus Bn Gorton Rev. OF HEALING m V TVW AND Watt 4 Twildi Amon Worship Service fare recipients The law doesnt make abortions an tion, he said He noted that a U S. Supreme Court ruling earlier this year has given every woman the legal right to an abortion and that Medicaid law says the abortions must be paid for. State health officials declined to discuss the ruling, to estimate the potential cost to the state or to predict the demand for abortions while the injunction is m effect. Dolowitz said the ruling would actually save the state money The state would wind up saving money since it costs $150 for an abortion during the first trimester of pregnancy, whereas it costs m excess of $500 for delivery, he said. doctor at the Umveraity Hospital, where many of the state's welfare patients are Heated, said in some cases the state could save ev en more money sinre there is no flat rate for abortions, and the pace fluctuates with individual patients. In certain instances the rate would be less than $150, which is the prescribed rate in CaliA fornia hospitals Dolowitz said injunction halts, at least temporarily, the Social Services Depart- ments practice Ritters of demanding formal requests for abortions before the department pays for them Many abortions sought by women on Medicaid have been held up, awaiting permission ho from Qocnl Spryion i 4 00 a m. 1 1 4200 W 5415 So. I lobb Minister TRIPS 7 CVENNP JAPANESE- Church Schop! Kv J Howard Huft (6100 S.) 277-475- PM. 363-325- 1 1 Paor 1 2 30 Rev Paul M Ko a Po or WASATCH 1 7th South, 1 7th East Summer Worship a.m. JhePv James P Dowdy The Pev Franc sM 487-757- 6 10-0- Kirk , Tbekev A W Path South 4400 West WESTVALE 3610 Church School 9 45 298-799- 2 11am Worship The Rev Ceroid V Case Pastor FIRST PRESBYTERIAN So. Temple & "C" St. 363-388- 9 Church School 1 0 00 a m Worship 9 00 & 1 00 a m Te . Dr. Alfred A. A Clyde Ketley, 1 Give 1 ANCHO- R- Christian Sunday services 11am Wednesday Services 8 p BAPTIST CHURCH An noepexient bendy B o eentered cnurch 1880 n First Cnurch, 352 East Third Sojh Second Church, 1165 Foothill Drue Sunday Schools 11am E. 5600 South 9 45 a BIBLE SCHOOL. a 1100am. WORSHIP SERVICE M llcreek Church 2605 East 33rd So Sunday School 9 30 a m GOSPEL SERVICE 7.00 p.m. Radio Series THE TRUTH THAT HEALS Sunday 7 45 a m KDYL 10 am KWHO POWER science 7.30 p m. Pastor Thomas H. Millet tire carcasses. West indicated a machine will be shipped from Phoenix sometime in July to lay the rubber and asphalt mixture on Wall Avenue. Highways, said this process is oemg used m California and Phoenix, Anz, and it lasts than the longer regular asphalt plant nux base If the experiment proves successful, W est hopes to modify some asphalt distributing machines so they'll handle the powdered rubber before it is mixed with the hot asphalt J Stephenson, materials engineer, said the powdered rubbed from tires comes from California since it takes special machinery to grind the W He said the asphalt mix will have to be heated to a higher temperature so the ground rubber particles w ill melt and become a part of the mix. bebeves that if the experiment proves successful tne cost of surfacing roads will be reduced by 50 percent. West Cemetery makes cleanup plans cleanup has been scheduled for Bountiful Memorial Park, according to Hugh A. W lgham, cemetery superintendent Wigham said today that all flowers and decorations m containers not set in concrete will be removed, starting at 6 a m June 2 A Small towns cut on deliveries Continued From Page A 3 overweight permits for truckers The fuel shortage for heavy trucks will have its biggest impact on smaller Ltah communities which dont stockpile large amounts of food, medicme and commodities and must have frequent deliveries. This is not a cry of alarm, Winn said. Those towns Will not run out of food or essentials, but there may be more inconvenience m ordering supplies in the future Truckers have already agreed to eliminate many runs which they term lal and may have to work out some kind of cooperative small towns properly system to keep supplied. far-flun- g Weve always had the feeling that nothing could happen to us in the U S , but food supplies in most places are fairly limited and require frequent truck service, Winn said pwiY Take time to commune with God attend the church of your choice m old tires to roads Jim West, maintenance engineer, Utah Department of pnTn Church A Tre Rev Donald F Sturm Pastor A-- i f Minister 10:00 A.M. Bible School 11 :00 A.M. Worship Horry P $we izer Pastor 277-- 5 1 38 Rev 3280 East 3900 South Wash p 00 a Sunday School 9 30 o m Continued from Page 3 exception of between 20th and 23rd streets. $ CHURCH 4490 SO. 3200 WEST 1 Arthur C Johnson 268 West 1st South 1 Worsh p 0 30, c 30 The Recycling Tf VALLEY CHRISTIAN 15pm SERVICE SUNDAY SCHOOL 9 45 A.M. WORSHIP SERVICE 11AM. MT. OLYMPUS excep- Douglas Presbyterian 777 S. 13th East but the state refused pay ment He said the state law provides for payment for all procedures sought by wel- 4 T Knuckey TRINITY COTTONWOOD- -1 580 Vine St. Worship 10 Ko m (JmrclM-- s Guest Preacher: (950) PARK CITY May 39 "PRINCIPLES METHODS ChurcKeUUligiaus Science Youth Time 6 00 p.m. Evening Service p.m. Wednesday Evening Service 7:15 p m. 1 Morning am 130 SCHEDUU BESIKS JUNE 3n! SUMAEX Associate Munster rVl TUES .- Nursary Frtvided Both Semen NT' conducted by SHaHe Moll, Practitioner And, DEPTH MEDITATION WORKSHOP by Dr. Ciarko Odden. UUA SUNDAY Worship Church School & guords and governs my every act Perfect love casteth out all fear I am unafroid, and strong in my faith in that Inner Presence that keeps me from all harm. And so it 7 30 "JESUS AND THE PHARISEES" 582-492- ft School (Nursery) 8 30AM SALT LAKES 2375 E 33rd South 484 6871 TOE AT ME in the U.S.A. Sunday School 9 45 a m. Worship Service 1 1 00 a m. Phone Church SUNDAY YOUTH FEU0WS1TP Dr. Clarke C. Odden, Minister AND FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH The bookmobile carries 3,000 books on Hebrew, history, Bible, Israel, philosophy, the Holocaust and other topics relating to the Jewish 1 Worship KSOP WORSHIP 11 00 AM Affirm to yourself As love enters, fear vanishes am so filled with love that no fear can enter my am net afraid, for I thought know that a perfect intelligence The Rev American Baptist 2150 FoctMl D've METHODIST is. Morning Service A Church School 7 15pm Evening Worship Wed Prayer & Bible Study 7 p n from the Jewish degree Theological Seminary, is accompanying the bookstore on a tour of the United States He will give a talk on Eastern Europe and show a film during his visit. 328-925- 4&4-95- 02 CHURCH South UNITED "OVERCOMSNG YOUR FEARS" os Clark Miaittar 6 30 p m I Jlli Alt Denominations Welcome "THE CRACK IN THE BELL" 'out heost Youth Hour PR3T CONGREGATIONAL OFOD CHARISMATIC CHURCH SA9S 13th East 945am 322 3409 SUNDAY SCHOOL 3? - CHURCH Sjnday School Morning Worship - OF YOUR Baptist Medicaid, abortion ruling: welfare is ordered to pay Continued from Page wasmsisi YELLOW PAGES FIRST UNITARIAN Ages CLASSES FIRST ASSEMBLY LOOK IN THE WED PRAYER MEETING Stnby CONSERVATIVE 231 Eastl st South 57 487 3383 1130am & ADULT 930am FOR INFORMATION ABOUT Pastor Tel 1000am CHURCH SCHOOL Morgan Edwards, Pastor 1070 Foothill 11:00 A M. WORSHIP 9:30 A.M. SUNDAY SCHOOL ' First Sunday oF the Month 8 30 & 11:OOA.M. 582-232- 1 EUCHARISTS 8103111 Charles Ray Poster 377 9380 Bible Believing Church" ( Nurctry PrtnmM School Classes All ZION LUTHERAN ST. MARKS CATHEDRAL AM 10:30 o.m. Jewish bookstore visits Salt Lake 9 Martini Scheeie 2347 Roosevelt Ave EVENING WORSHIP 7 30 pm. An engaged couple who are now being counseled by Anderson agreed the inventory was valuable Its a really good way to .talk about a lot of things you might not think about, said Elizabeth Twelves, 21, a nursing student at Westminster College who is engaged to Chris Aadnesen, 1 Nursery 8 Crib Room Both Services Parking Across StreetFrom Church MORNING WORSHIP p m 277-395- 6 Sunday School Worship 1 OO ft 7 30 Training Union 6 30 Prayer Sennet 7 30 EV. LUTHERAN CHURCH (Wisconsin Synod) 3500 So State So. Soh loke Aoditoreom Somby School 4 fltble Class 930 a.m. 10 30a m. Worship Service 1910 East 3900 South Rev. Gordon R. Donoho, Pastor 378-488- 266-425- MILLCREEK BAPTIST CHURCH 997 E. 3900 South PRINCE OF PEACE FREE CHURCH EVANGELICAL Harry P. Swaiier C. D., Pastor SUNDAY SCHOOL 1100am. 530 pm. CALL 7 30p.m. Church School 10 a.m. Morning Worship 9 411 a.m. 933 East 9th South 3S9126l Pastor R abort Chmtepulos He asks the couple to send the inventones back to him before the second meeting, at which time he discusses it with them. Where marked differences of opinion have appeared, Anderson brings the area up for discussion 3D pm Tln BETHEL CHURCH 9 45 am. 45 ML PResByteRian 4 945o nv 7 266-931- 4 ... School younger couples who showed considerable maturity But he added, If theyre 14 or 15 1 dont get involved, even in cases of pregnancy If a couple is disinterested m religion, or wants a wedding in his church because its a pretty place, or the family wants it, then I try to encourage them to have a civ ll service, Burrus said EPISCOPAL BIBLE TOPICAL STUDY OPEN DISCUSSION EVENINGS Potior fturfcs 62 East 4800 South flRSt CHURCH Sunday School Mornmq Warship tventnQ Worship Zeff Gerald Burrus of Chnst United Methodist he may decline to perform a mamage if the young, or if the person comes from a series mamage. On the other hand, Ive mamed TELEPHONE DIRECTORY HOLLADAY BAPTIST already been sent Rev. L. Church, said couple is too of failures m in SBC Anderson tells the couple they may talk with him separately If they wish He also tells them to resist any pressure to go through with it, even if the invitations have its harder, maybe 10 times harder, to accept differences Socrates said, Know thyself. Jesus said, Deny thyself, Johnson said PENTECOSTAL CHURCH OF GOO Smtay E F. Schmelzenbach, Rev. Aadnesen, and Elizabeth Twelves, from left, receive counsel from Rev. Robert M. Anderson. Chris Another minister, Rev Arthur Johnson of Cottonwood Presbyterian Church, said he regards every mamage in a sense as a mixed mamage because people have different backgrounds ard attitudes, as well as religions. He seeks to help the couple recognze and respect differences, and to learn to resolve or accept differences before tne wedding day The time to do it is before the wedding rather than later on Later on, if you have a fight, i finl fn r 4 percent of the normal needs in June, well manage to get by, said Winn, although there will be slower deliveries and fewer 75 deliveries But i the shortage falls to 50 percent, there will be major problems, he said In that case, stnet rationing might need to be applied travel , regarding The public has varying needs and some of these are essential to keep society running, while others are necessary only in the minds of individuals, Winn said Fun tnjK, weekend outings and pleasure boating are some of the non essential Uaes of fuel which might need tighter control if the shortage gets worse, he said If 100 million cars take to the road for the Memorial Day weekend and use 10 gallons of gasoline each, that s one billion gallons of gas gone in a single weekend, the trucking repre- i y. n,A p, f Nouvoo buildings Continued from Page of the Nauvoo Mission. A-- 3 The settlers of Nauvoo were not motivated by vain ambition or political and economic power. President Romney told the group had received a They knowledge of God, they realized that they were His children, he said They had been bterally charged by the Almighty to build up the Kingdom of God m the earth. They were, here in Nauvoo as they had been before and have ever since continued to be about their Father's business, he added Relating the difficulties which the early Mormons encountered as they were driven from several states, President Romney said the people who came to Nauvoo were stalwarts who had been tried and tested in the crucible tribulation and affliction He lauded the Nauvoo Saints for refusing to give up after the martyrdom of Joseph and Hyrum Smith and the plundenng of Nauvoo On the contrary, with superb courage, faith, fortitude and they organized themselves and pioneered them way more than 1,000 miles across the plains and mountains where, with faith, they built up a new refuge in an inhospitable These are the things we hope these restored edifices will help to impress upon the minus and hearts of all of our Fathers children who visit this sacred place, hallowed by the and accomplishments sacnfices of the builders of Nauvoo, he added The Bngham Young home, y bnek structure, was inhabited by the Mormon leader and his family from a two-stor- 1843-184- 6 The Noble home was the home of Lucy Mack Smith, mother of the church founder, for a few months during the summer of 1846 as the Mormons were being forced to leav e the city The Seventies Hall served as a training facility for Mormon missionaries Dedicated in 1844, it had a hall on the first floor and a community library and museum on the second floor. The restored Webb Blacksmith Shop is equipped with tools actually sed at another shop in Nauvoo The two large bellows, two anvils, bench vice and other tools were donated by Dr James L. Shupe, of Logan. blaik-smithin- g Restoration activities are being conducted by the church through Nauvoo Restoration, |