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Show wW My T'Virrf y ""'ry i nn y-g- y 'y I r!7 my -- wy fry-im- p rriwe"ew v""1 DESERET NEWS, V w V w T'r u ,y' April 18, 1968 Thwrsdoy, QJT Caring For An Elderly Parent Mary Marker By MARY MARKER Dear Mary: Our third and Iasi child was married a year ago and I went back to work after being a wife and mother exclusively for thirty years. It does not interfere with our home life and it makes the world a far more interesting place for me. Miss Diane Wright and Timothy P. Phelan were married Wednesday evening in a ceremony performed at the Carillon. A reception followed. The bride is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Don W. Wright, 1326 Columbia Dr., West Jor dan. Parents of the bridegroom are Mr. and Mrs. I am thoroughly enjoying this new lite. But now my husband wants to spoil it all. His mother needs nursing care will perhaps for a number of years. She wants to come and live with us. She is a large woman and heavy, and I have had back trouble for years. I simply could not lift her around. Besides that, she lias always been very critical of me, and I could not stand her nagging. Men are sometimes strang creatures. After my husband Clayton M. Phelan, 1316 Colorado St. Bridal attendants included Miss Edditha Perez, maid of honor; Mrs. Geoffrey Morton, Mrs. Richard Green and Miss Javlyn Outsen. Becci Oakden and Vicki Oakden were flower girls. Michael Beveridge was best man. The bride has studied at Compton College at Compton, Her husband has Calif. of attended the University Utah. Prenuptial parties Mrs. Craig Christiansen Miss Becky Gregor and Craig L. Christiansen. Gregor. The newlyweds were honored Wednesday evening at a reception at Log Haven. Attending the bride were Sharon Miss Christiansen, maid of honor; Mrs. Scott Reynolds, Mrs. John Raemer, and flower girl, Laurie Christiansen. Ring bearers were Ricky Gregor and Randy Gregor. Scott Reynolds was best man. The bride and her husband are attending the University of Utah. tliev are happier there, Like tth'at Is Dear Like: You are wrong about the majority of old folk going into homos of one type or another. Actually, here are some figures from carefully prepared surveys persons mad using 2,500 old aged 65 or over, in each three countries, of Phone countries. It is the thing to do. Iam sure the majority of old folks go there, and I think r COMPARE I 277-504- Den RULISt 466-145- 5 lor Appointment Yoor Homo or My Office ads icceptad only it Classified Counter, 143 So. Mein 2. Ads must lit paid in idvancs In cash. 3. No ads taken ly phone, 4. Ads must ran 4 days or more up to 8 days startinf April 21. 5. Ads mutt not sxctfd I linns. 6. No rotunds. hefore 7. Ads must le placed Wednesday, April 24. it I pju 1. All War oni 295-71- 1 - ... a FINANCING homes In all modern elderly group who live in institutions is; 5.3 po cont in Denmark ; 3.6 percent in Britain; 3.7 percent in the United States. However, I do feel that your offer to help care for your mothe financially rather than physically Is wise. M.M. . . . SAVE Deadline 1 p.mWadV April 24 were given by Mrs. John W. Drou-baMrs. Geoffrey Morton, Mr. .and Mrs. Clayton M. Phelan, the bridgegrooms parents. Gregor-Christians- Mrs. Timothy P. Phelan has spent h.vo hours with his mother he is fit to he tied. Yet he thinks I could be tied down with her day and night and be an angel. I know I cant, and I know he could not stand the strain of having her live with us. Please he'p me to convince my husband that it would he impractical to make this move. I am willing to uae my total salary to have her cared for in an excellent nursing home, or to have nurses with her in her own home. I think that is fa!i enough. I tell my husband that old parents, even when they may not need nursing, now go into mark, Britain, United States, all living under similar conditions. The percentage of this y, en A rehearsal dinner, was given by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Don Christiansen, 2815 Hermosa Way, Monday at the Paprika. First Congregational Church was the setting Wednesday evening for the wedding of The bride is a daughter of Mrs. Richard C. Gregor, 4480 Stratton Dr., and the late Mr. Boots Winter-Wear- y Before you put away winter boots, brush loose dirt and sand from the inside, wash the outside with a sponge dipped in suds, rinse and dry than thoroughly. Next, mark the size with a magic marker, clip pairs to gether with a clothespin and store in cardboard box in an corner. Prenuptial parties OUR NEWEST BEACH LURES! were given by Mrs. Joe Walters, Mrs. William Lodder, Mrs. Emmett Heinrich, Mrs. John Raemer, Mrs. Scott Reynolds, Mrs. Rosemary Tepper and Mrs. Ken Gerrard. Come fall, youll know which youngster has grown into which boots. Each child can start the season with a clean pair. SPECIAL BUY! Easy living fun jackets head for the fresh outdoors! 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