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Show lift! r nHi ini)iiMjwi iiM,rirrigfiffirwTiriiiii -- New Time To Start a Note This is the second u series of articles written by Tom Stottenwerk wife of a Chicago doctor Bored wih her daily routine of hriue and aimless shopping, she went back to work Now her days are so filled with liv iro, Iherrs no time for boredom Read on or the whoe story m Editors We gals have two live. Our first one lias us so engrossed m growing up. m t ourtship, mariidg, home, n out PTA and iluldien meeting', plus a imnad ol oilier activities, .hat ve have little tunc to tlunk ol ourselves. These at t iv mav i.ot all be excit mg but they die v time, and effortconsumnund- - ing Suddenly to nave some pui pose m iiu simp some leason fu being ali't detinue goal to woik tow aid, icgat dless of bow liMgmti-ant that goal ni ly be rnatu.ed and whether we not. we aie iead to siait our second lite These aie the diflu ult veais women whispered alxiut when we were voting gnls, the ears duung which women seemed to become chtonicalh vague suffering indisposed allies and pains, for which Lvdia Pmkharn s tonic was the usual remedv. Thanks to our wisp medi cine men, things hae changed W'e need not he "bottled up " so to sneak. W'e can start spaikhng about with new lo fil! our suddenly empiied lies BEST A EARS We know that these veais i an be the best years of a womans life; that those vague adies and pains are ior the most part imaginary, c aused by too much sudden consciousness of self. Jt is an established fact that like e erjtlung changes. The childien are gone; our niamage settles into a relationship; the placid demands on us diminish. We will I do now n eety pei'm las hae Bv TOM STOI.LENMERK devas-tatingi- an ot ten tepeated BACK TO WORK, LADIES it m c boon niaket her ai duties as world .shaking, but she is busy, slip does son ething that needs to be done, something that demands her time and attention There nun be times when slie nnglit be dngi untied and l! enlv 1 had a minute say to last do nothing " but no sooner does she lmd herself with nothing to do titan she glows lidgety and iestless. Becoming a w tdow in middle lite inci eases the misery. Not only does she find her home and hands empty' but the emptiness is topped loneliness and a feelol being lost ing "He was my whole life," is a Critamly d ipsii't coiisicu-- i ' m What FIWI A JOB blend of mine lost husband some years ago hei Be- ta, .sp he aft hei coniloitablv tixed, she didnt hae to woik reasons and tor financial didnt give woik a single thought Instead, she tiled to till hei time with the usual activities of the floundeimg female cards and fashion lunch, and found hei self at shows her doctor's office mote and more. Finally, w ho the doc toi a peisonal friend, persuaded her to find herself a )ob. She did. This was live yeais ago and now she is one ot the widows I know Her additional income is used tor sea uyage auctions, which she extends bevotid the usual two weeks by taking leave without pav . was als-- 0 s, liedule to meet she told me. smiling In the oftioe. enjov the people I work with I enjuv the woik and at night I don t have wiiry about a m nred enough sleeping pill to go i lglit id! to sleep " Aien t you ever tempted 'o plav hookv ? I asked. Oh, iht.e dip mornings w ien an ait'n me pain lieie or t hei o makes me think I s1 ould prihaps, take it easy, but you Know what? By the :n diesspd and have time had hi s.ikfast lie forgotten all about it. Staving hippie, doing nothing, would make it it so 1 know! ' she explained. laughing (RANGE OF PACE As I rush aiound on my luiu h hour, 1 can always spot the Zombies. They've come to town m twos oi threes for a heat They've had their lunch and now. as they walk aimlessly, they have to make the gi.no decision of which stole to biovv-- e in, killing time until it is tint to go home don t mean to imply that luncheon dates and store best-adjust- A SCHLDl LE "It is wonderful to get up in the morning and have a Winner n In Knitting big way, too Her lust project a coat. "I knew Id have lo make something I wanted to wear, she said, "or Id never By LILLIE MILLER Deseret News Staff Writer s A champion krntter in just that's Mrs. five yeais Glenn C. Giosjean. Her hobby has been t ew ard-in- g continue." HER HORK Mrs. Giosjean, who resides with her husband in Boun'iful. works at Hill Air Force Base an an inventory management assistant. But I knit eve.v spare afternoon minute and morning breaks, lunch hours, and while watching television. Sometimes I'll knit until the m personal enjovment, now it lias bi ought her and national recognition She was named iirst pin, e winner in the National Wool Needlewoik contest for her an Irish Fisherman entiy sweater. She is the first and only Utahn so honored nationally. Her reaction on learning the I just couldnt good news: believe it. I didnt dream I'd e v e r w in with all the competition. There were so many entries from every state in the union wee hours of the morning until all the TV stations have signed uff. Her favorite llpms aie those with lots of pattern. Plain knitting is boring She has entered contests before I submitted my first article, a dress, to the State Fair in 1966, at the urging of WON RIBBON Her winning sweater was first entered m the 1967 Utah State Fair, where it won a Dlje ribbon. This made it eligible lor the national contest, sponsored by the National Hand Knitting Yarn Assn. Only items which have won state and-n- r county fair ribbons are accepted. has been Mrs. Grosjean knitting "about five years. I began when my mother start- - aSbV ('J ' Deseret News photo by 0. Wallace friends. Kasteler Mrs. Glenn C. Grosjean won first place in national contest for the sweater pictured at the left. ed. I decided if she could learn, I could, too." Her mother, Mrs. W. F. Jensen of Logan, took a few classes of instruction, but not Mrs. Grosjean. She picked it up and taught herself. She started out knitting in a And she will continue to enter contests. She's already working on her next entry but its a secret. And what did she do with the money she won in the con- test? Bought more yarn for knitting, of course ! yr yw vw-awwi- !f f , pti 1 i.Af. . 1 v 1 Deseret News photo by J V Inle. As a change of pace, they aie fine. As a steady diet, they are anything but nourishing. They will leave you feeling empty and maybe even a bit guilty without knowing exactly why. instead of a So, why not become an avid time-user- At A Benefit Tea... w time-waste- r, ? (NEXT - AGE IS NO B Spring Suits Something exciting is happening to suits this spring. with Skirts aie swinging scads of pleats. Jackets are being cut long to hipbone level. Blouses are being made of crepe, or sport ruffles or lace. Wedding By ELIZABETH S e v women oral called hundi ed at the L. POST Dear Mrs. Posf: About four man years ago, a gave me his wifes wedding band. She had died 10 years prior to the time he gave it to me. He passed away this summer. My question is: Should I wear the ring on my right hand, or not wear it at all ? I Utah gover-nm- rer,dence Tuesday s aft-e- i noon. Mr Rampton was hostess at a tea to benefit the United Ceiebral Palsy Dave. Invited guests vveie presidents and board members of some 130 womens organizations in Salt Lake County. During the afternoon, they weie informed about Camp Kostopulos, being built in Emigration Canyon. Its the, main project for Utah Cerebral Palsy affiliates this year. The camp is being built for handicapped children. Mrs. Philip L. Gagnon Was Wednesday, March 20, 1968 tea chairman. She heads the County Womens for the current Salt Lake Committee clriv e. man, and Mangunt. Mis. John K. Dinner-Danc- e Presiding at the tea table were Mrs Rampton, Mrs. Dan S. Kostopulos, state women's committee chan - For The Married Ring-O- nly of the Emily Post Institute Hesiep, cnief pho'os epher Mrs. Dan S. Kostopulos, left; Mrs. Calvin L. Rampton and Mrs. Philip L. Gagnon are all smiles as they visit at tea held at Governor's residence. waste No at all Both are my favonte pastimes, once in a Blue-Ribbo- ' ivi' "I 1 A TOiny" University of Utah Medical Student's Wives are planning to be held Sata dinner-danc- e urday at the University Club. Festivities will begin with a social hour at 7 p.nt. Dining and dancing w ill follow. Music will be provided by the Ram c hei os. would like to wear it as it is a beautiful ring and I thought a great deal of both ot the deElaine V. ceased. Dear Elaine: Many widows and divorcees transfer their' wadding rings to their right hands, and if you wear your friend's ring, the impression will be that you were married to him. A wedding band is so clear ly vvliat it is that it is rarely mistaken lor decorative jewelry If it is so unusual that it would not appear to lie a wedding ring, wear it; otherwise, don't make To your wedding day perfect from start to finish, nv newest book, "Your Guide to Wedding Procedure" is lust what vou need To get a ccpy, send twenty five cents in coin, to cover booklet and shipping expenses to Elizabeth L. Post, in care of the Deseret News, Box 1257, Salt Lake City, Utah, 94110. Arrangements for the party are being made by Mrs. Jack B. Rampton and Mrs. Wayne E. Smith Assisting them are club offiG. cers, Mis. 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