| Show i i i 1 1 i i 1 i why they dont marry an excl exal ange ge paper in the middle state states on the subject remarks it has been observed that there are more men and women in this age than any that the hi tory of the past has given any account of in othar word worde the tendency of cell coll lacy was never greater greate than at present undoubtedly iv the observation is a trae true one and it la is calculated to give rise to serious r fractions as to the causes which have combined to produce this uhn unnatural tural and unhappy state of things it cannot to ba accorded to tho the young men we answer for it they athey incline as ardently towards the tender sex as their fathers did before them nor to a want ol 01 sensibility and appreciation on the part of the young women for jowas it ever e er has been marriage I 1 h the alpha and omega of their heir thoughts the first and the last occupies it their akia waking hours and fills up the measure of their dreams it has hag ha been so f born the beginning and anti will be BO so till be the end seeing then that both sexes are willing seeing that under whatever di advantages of a bad education a stupid policy the artificialities of society the glare of romance the nonsense of fashion whatever things may happen that nature will assert her supremacy and turn tile the sexes lezea always 1 kindly toward towards each other it may wellz well weli be hiked biked why hy with this perpetual attraction they wey do not marr matr it is an unfortunate state of things and the blana should be placed where it properly property belongs it is always deemed ungallant to say anything that ii Is not flattering and agreeable a to the iha ladies we fear that both sexes boxes bave have been injured by this tills predisposition pre disposition to say home phrases on the tha one hand and to expect them on orl tle tie the other flattery is a mixture into which nonsense and lying enter ente r at a the principal ingredients and truth is 3 sometimes disagree disagreeable abe we shall bhail lay aside oost flit flattery tery altogether on the present occasion arm ard ald present a few plain truths for the of the sex however disagreeable they may be our position Is that the reason reagon why they dout dont marry are traceable ali till to the women to their pernicious bringing up to the habits they have formed and to their general incapacity to attend to household duties or to take tako upon themselves the he responsibilities of maternity and family government young men who are about viboit entering ept ering eting upon tb tho tha business of life who are destined to be the fathers of the next generation want something g m rb in the companion of their ilves lives than a baltej doll they want something more mora than a delicate I 1 lispin romantic who c cannot a n 0 0 t move except with an aloof ain air of languor who kro alro the ho hours urb urs of the day in pointless lassi lassitude tude lude doieg nothing but eat and dress aid alid ald dream the timo tima away and only bloom in he the night along tlde tide of others as useless as herself making the balmy hours hideous by execrable thrumming on a piano accompanied with execrable singing floating through and flirting with young men inen who I 1 true in their nature love the fairy vision on ehe zhe pre lents benig but for no other purpose than the gratification of the hour white sa an the time she is thus wasting her bloom end and frad frap ance and precious health her poor scrub of or a mother m may be locked in sleep elep which her ber exhausted nature demands mands th this 19 kind of a woman will not make a man ha hap reynor will any man except be he is aa as frivolous as herself er self seif offer her honorable marriage men want went to see in their wives some tome glim least of common sense and they want to fee tee some evidence that they arr are ar competent to sit at the head of a hou bou household sebold but how bow is it with f he the majority r ity of the young women they turn their backs a r ks upon domestic duties and know nothing of 0 domestic joys As soon as they can getaway from their mothers care they rush into shon shops and factories and trades it has hab kot got to be so that full four fifths of our young women dont know enough about the kitchen even to make a cup of coffee or to cook a beef stake or broil a mackerel indeed in too many ca ce sebit would be deemed an insult to ask them the question if they it now how to cook instead of home duties they are fierce after accomplish accomplishment ments mente not thinking or not knowing that what they call accomplishments be come defects unless they are associated with home graces which most adorn a woman young women it if they would preserve themselves f fresh r esh and pure and fit to become what god designed they should be helpmates help mates for man should exercise exercise a stronger restrain restraining ing influence over their minds than has been the fashion of late years should cease to look upon marriage only as a means of Cg greater ogreater reater extravagance and a wider scope of pleasure and upon the husband only as the golden boosa who pays for them depend upon it that while amusements and are regarded by women as the chief objects of life they will find men who will gratify them but not for marriage so longas long iong a married men who havn have been so unhappy as to be caught by such chaff present a example and anti warning those hose who are out will keep out of the silken noose according to announcement judge eckels commenced his court on monday laott last he may nay be more nore expeditious than iban hi hib hia s colleagues there is certainly room for improvement and we shall boon soon soonyee bee see what direction mattern matters will take in the southern district the presumption is that there is not much business in prospective in that court as few arnone of the lawyers resident in this district are there in atten attendance danci UNITED STATES COURTS the district court couff that has been sitting Bitting in this city for the lis last afo tto four i ur weeks as will be seen by reference to the report of its proceedings adjourned on friday last till the of september the grand jury after finding thirteen bills of indictment against erring sons of adam reported themselves and were discharged on the one of the persons indicted on being arraigned plead guilty and was sentenced by the court to ten years imprisonment another a negro indicted for murder was arraigned ned plead not guilty was put tipon upon trial but after the solemnities of the trial bad progressed some two days the proceedings ings were ent short by the disappearance of a negro witness the jury was dismissed the prisoner sent to jail and will probably be brought to trial again in about ten years if matters progress at the same rate they have of late we have not been disposed to say much about the proceedings edings and rulings of the court during the do we wish to now the judge has a peculiar pee pet uliar way of mae mai maintaining staining nta ining the dignity of the bourdi court that seems to consume too much time for foh this ak fast f to which we have a right to refer refet in truth it takes his bis honor longer to do a smail small of business than any judge with whose history mankind are acquainted and we wb feel safe in saying that if the wa way y business has been done in this territory duding during the last ladt year is a fair sample of the judicial proceedings throughout the united states the Judiciary ds Ja receding rapidly instead of oi advancing to fio far tar as expediting business is concerned boncer bonter ned and umess un some botne change is made few of the many man y law breakers will hereafter be brought to punishment and if they do not brea break kjall jail jall or aie permitted lo glye give security for their appearance when called balled for more will di diether ethere 6 of old age than willever will ever be found guilty of the for which the they y may be indicted 0 ok arres teck teci the adjourning of the court three or four weeks because a court cd uit is to be held in another district ninety five aniles distant leaving prisoners boners in jail and an indefinite amount of business bustness of is a new feature in the administration of justice that some do not full fuli fully y understand and it seems that none of the members of the bar can or will throw any light on the subject if as some have supposed from the course things have taken that only one court can be held at ett the same time in the territory orv and there are as many transgressors pres preB torb sors in this ibis country as has been reald vented it will certainly be a long time before they will all receive a just reward for their deeds |
