| Show home truths to ladies some writer says that a young lady khouli aboul always ask four questions before accept nethe hand of any young man la Is he lionor honorable Is he kin kind of heart can he support me comfortably does he take a paper now thaes all nonsense wonder how near come to the truth after having asked him not catch the young man in question saying anything against himself not if he loves the girl for fear she marry him not he much rather had be he that she would find out after marriage as she surely would yes marriage is a key that unlocks the true character of both semes sexes and but few I 1 think are very happily disappointed the fact is both expect perfection but bu never find it on earth we all have faults and should know others had faults too aye should desire them for who would be united to a perfect being if they could having never sinned they would see no occasion for sin sm but little charity get from such they would believe belleve that all could be good without a struggle because they were Away witt such give me those who are in the midst of sin and 11 fighting like a turk to get got out of it forever struggling struggling to be good and do advancing perr pert perhaps leaps a step or two each dav up the rugged tangled hill of goodness div me such an one and then I 1 shall have a ilea hear r to overcome my faults and ascend the hi hilj J too to have any body that was all perfection near one would so heartily discourage me that I 1 should sit own in despair not lifting the first foot to r reform or beccue better but pm im getting off my subject I 1 believe or a little cne side how are you to find out about said young man ran he ile woul dInt say any harm barm of himself and his friends if ho he had any aily would wold speak in his favor doing as they would wish to be done by under similar circumstances you would not ask his enemies and if they came and told you anything of course you woul dini dInt believe them for they tell the truth that is entirely out of their line of business then how are you to find and out or come any nearer the truth my advice to you is if you love him get married biar blar ried take him for better letter or worse if it he be proves all worse make the best of a bad bargain if you do not love never marry for you will be certain to find no good where there is no love for love aideth a multitude of faults As for his heart never think it can be unkind As regards support wh why if f you marry him and find he tries his best ni but cant support you comfortably then if you are in good health see what you can do begin by boing doing your own work it wont hurt those dainty fingers of yours to do house bouse housework work what inthey do look a little brown it wont hurt them not a bit louwill You will be all the healthier for a little more exercise exer aise alse I 1 would not have a man I 1 loved a slave to men working from sun to sun san while I 1 was doing little or nothing not II 11 about his taking a paper any man of common sense and you woul dInt marry a man who badin badyn t would be sure to take a paper or papers ladles ladies boudoir |
