| Show HOW TO SECURE PEACE AT HOME it 13 just as possible to keep a calm cairn house us kis a clean deall de aly all house a 2 ohe obe cheerful i ful rul house an orderly house as a it furnished house if the heads themselves set to do so bo where is tiie the difficulty of consulting each others wk weakness ness nesb as its well as each others wants each eacil others tempera as well as each others health mach each oth othealia others erlia comfort confort as well as each others character ohl oh it ii S by leaving the peace peace at home to chance I 1 instead of pursuing it by system that so many ho homes mes are u unhappy it deserves notice also that almost any one ean b bo a courteous and forbearing and patient in a neighbors house if any thing goes wrong or ba be on out ont t of time lime or disa disagreeable agreeable gree able abie there it is made the best beet of not the ilia worst even efforts are made to excuse it and to show that it is not felt or if fett felt it is attributed to accident not desin deci design decin n and this is not only easy but natural in ili the tiie hausa house housa of a friend 1 will not therefore believe th it what is so natural in the tha house of another is impossible at home but maintain without fear that all tho ilia courtesies of social life may be upheld ili in dom domestic estie esile societies socie A husband aa as willing to be pleased at home come and 2nd ea as anxious to please as in his fleigh bors bons house and a wife as intent int ailt on mald maid making ng things comfortable every day ilay to her family as on set days to lier her guests could not fail to make their own home happy let us not evade the point of or their remarks by recurring to the tho maxlin maxim about allowances far for temper I 1 it I 1 is vors 3 than tOlly to refer to ou our r temper imper u unless uless we could prove that we eyer ever gained any thing tiling good by giving way to it fits of punish lis its s quite a aa much if not more than those they are vented upon and it actually lr quires requires more effort and inflicts more pail pain i to give i them up than would be required lo 10 avoid them philip |
