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Show J-,- . Your Doctor Says Tf (The following is one of a series of articles written by members of the Utah Medical Association and published in cooperation with your local newspaper. These articles are scheduled to appear throughout the year in an effort to better acquaint you with problems of health, and designed to improve g of the people of the Utah). THE CHILDS MENTAL HEALTH One of the best guarantees of a happy child is a set of happy parents. In this era, young parents are so flooded with articles, books and lectures on how they should care for their children that It begins to seem an appalling Impossible task. They may see their children as a group of little rather than huresponsibilities man beings who can be a source of enjoyment and pleasure. The very desire to be the best possible parents often leads them to be harrassed, confused, and irrit-ibl- e with their children. Most parents worry too much rather than too little about their Childrens emotional children. needs are simple. They need to feel loved, secure and have opportunities for new growth and experience. All children have a strong desire to be good; yet, they are filled with feelings such as resentment, rebelliousness, and greediness, which they dont feel equal to handling by themselves. Parents can help them control these feelings, and thus feel secure, by sound firm discipline. Since parents are human beings too, and have feelings of their own, it is impossible to be completely consistent in their discipline, but the parent should certainly try to make the rules consistent, few in number and of a nature that can be followed by the child with some degree of comfort. Out of concern that he might pass up something of importance the parent may at times tend to be critical of every slight deflection on the part of the child. The result? The child begins to see himself as a very bad child, who never does anything right. No child can be good all the time. It is enough to ask that he V . well-bein- Coipe in and see our giant 500 lb. Cheese Now on Sale at Money-Savin- g Prices.... Medium Nippv , Orange jyic parent stresses important things anl lets the little things go for the child to pick up later by him- self, and if he lets the child know he considers him satisfactory if he complies most of the time, the child will begin to see himself as good and pleasing on the whole and will try harder to include other things which he feels will please the parents. It is hard for a parent to know whether he is expecting too much or too little of a child. He can read books on what the average child of that age group should be able to do, but since each child is different that is not always an adequate criterion. If the child fails more often than he suceeds or if he is tense and anxious about the tasks, it may be that too much is expected of him, and demands should be relaxed to a point where he can hurdle them more comfortably. On the other hand, parents, should remember that the child gets much satisfaction from mastering new skills. They should not do for him things which he can do for himself. The child who has everything done for him may also be tense and lack confidence in his own ability. Further help will be given the child if the parent lets him know that all his feelings are acceptable but that a sharp firm line is drawn as to what is permissible and what is not permissible in the way of expressing them. 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