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Show 4 Page If Nephi, Utah tmes-foft- i0 Wednesday, October 9, 1996 Happenings. . . ConunonitY Calendar. .. The Hmes-New- s will publish a Community Calendar each week of events in our area. Ifyou would like to have your event published in this calendar, please submit it by 5 p.m. on Monday at our office at 96 South Main, Nephi or send to CommuP.O. Box 77, Nephi, Utah nity Calendar, The Hmes-New84648. No calendar events will be taken over the phone. s, Tuesday, October 8 Rowland Hall at Juab: Juab Volleyball 5 p.m. 6 p.m. and 7 p.m. Thursday, October 10 4:00 PM & 6:00 PM 5 p.m. 6 p.m. and 7 p.m. Friday, October 11 Juab Football: Varsity game Juab at Morgan, 7:00 PM Troy Cattoor and Sandy Peterson wedding. Reception 7:30 to 9:30 p.m., Delta Stake Center, Delta. Tuesday, October 15 Juab Volleyball 5 p.m. 6 p.m. and 7 p.m. Wednesday, October 16 4:00 PM & 6:00 PM 5 p.m. 6 p.m. A reception will be held in their honor that same evening at the Delta Utah Stake Center from 7:30 until 9:30 p.m. Sandy and Troy invite everyone to share this evening of happiness with them, with entertainment by Sandys brother, Ronnie and 7 as a Registered Nurse. Troy graduated from Juab High School in 1989. He attended Western Texas College on a National Rodeo Scholarship. He graduated with a degree in Vocational Technology and a "masters in Professional Rodeo. They will reside in Nephi where Troy is employed in the family business. Parenting techniques for teens Troy Cattoor and Sandy Peterson er should develop rules and be permissive-indifferendevelop warm involvement with few reaffectionate with them. Diana the sense that other aspects of straints will produce a creative, New Horizons Volunteer Baumrind emphasizes three the parents lives are more im- confident adolescent. Instead types of parenting associated portant than they are. These these teens have few friends, are and never learn to As parents we want our chil- with different aspects of the ad- teens are socially incompetent, and do not abide by rules and regulations. dren to grow into socially mature olescents social behavior. These show poor individuals and often feel a great are authoritarian, authoritative, handle independence well. Why should they? Their parents The permissive-indulgenever made them follow any. deal of frustration in our role as and permissive. Permissive may Many parents use a combinaparents. When our four boys hit be divided into permissive-indulgeparent is highly involved with their adolescents but place few tion of techniques rather than a and permissive-indifferen- t. the teen years, we teased that The authoritarian parent is demands or controls on them. single technique, with one techthey had savings accounts but we didnt know if it was for missions restrictive, with severe punish- Permissive indulgence is also nique the most dominant. Alor for bail. Luckily the bail ments that insists the teen fol- associated with adolescents so- though consistent parenting is wasnt needed, but it is so hard low the parents directions and cial incompetence, especially usually recommended, the wise Permissive-indulgeto watch your children make mis- that he respect work and effort. lack of parent may sense the importance of allow their takes in their life which could be This parent places firm limits being more permissive in cerparents avoided if they would just listen and controls and allows little in- adolescents to do what they tain situations, more authoritarto us, their parents. (Just like we put from the teen. Authoritari- want, and the result is that the ian in others, and yet more auan parenting is associated with adolescents never learn to con- thoritative in others. listened to our parents, right?) This article is part of a series Those of us who now have adolescents socially incompetent trol their own behavior and alConflict as adult children have gone the behavior. For example, an au- ways expect to get their way... on Some of from Bible of rear the its the thoritarian deliberately might program (spare parents part stopping say, parent gamut rod and spoil the child), to Dr. You do it my way or else. There their adolescents in this way be- the violence by teaching the chilSpock (dont spank), to Dr. Wat- will be no discussion. Adoles- lieving that the combination of dren. son (dont be too affectionate), to cents of authoritarian parents Dr. Seuss (if youre an elephant are often anxious about social dont get off the nest no matter comparison, fail to initiate activwhat). Luckily I later learned ity, and have poor communicathat "rod in the Bible meant tion skills. The authoritative parent bread not a stick, so I could Prescription diet medications cent overweight. enjoy feeding my children in- encourages teens to be indepenIn rare cases, the drug can be enormously beneficial for can still limits and dent but of them. stead beating places The most widespread view, controls on their actions. Exten- people who are seriously over- cause pulmonary hypertension, is al- weight and have trouble dieting, a heartlung disease serious currently, is that parents should sive verbal be neither punitive nor aloof lowed, and parents are warm but the most potent ones carry enough in extreme cases to cause from their adolescents, but rath- - and nurturing toward the adoles- some risk and arent designed death, says Tuomi. Early signs cent. Authoritative parenting is for someone who just wants to include shortness of breath and associated with adolescents so- take off a few pounds before a noticeable loss of energy, so its cially competent behavior. An major social event, says a Stan- crucial for persons taking this authoritative parent might put ford Health Services pharmacist. prescription drug to watch careMost recently, a new diet med- fully for any side effects and to his arm around the teen in a Son bom September 26, 1996, called dexfenfluramine ication You report these symptoms to their and say, comforting way to Tom and Joni Bott of Orem. doctor been has (Redux) promotwidely immediately. He will be named Brady Thomas know you should not have done effecThe drug is not recommended Bott. His grandparents are For- that. Lets talk about how you ed and is very potent and use, certainly no rest Anderson of Nephi, Dick and can handle the situation better tive. However, weve had a lot of for long-terabout more a this than The adolescents of questions year, and shouldnt particular Marlene White of Pleasant next time. be taken some does which by are anyone with respiauthoritative carry drug, parents Grove, and Tom and Carey Bott diabetes or hyThe nevertheless risks. and problems, ratory drug responsible. socially is of Orem. be acceptable for serious- pertension, or by patients taking Permissive-indifferemight Ada Taylor of Springville. certain other medications as listparenting is a style in which the ly overweight people, who may beillness ed on the medications warning be risk of at greater Son bom September 23, 1996, parent is very uninvolved in the Lisa label. Patients should review the cause of their is associated life. says obesity, It with teens to Scott and Melanie Molyneaux doctor of pharmacy and use of this drug carefully with of Nephi. His name is McKoy adolescents socially incompetent Tuomi, director of drug information at their doctor before a prescription lack of James Molyneaux. His grand- behavior, especially a SHS. is issued, andor ask their pharpermissive-indiffereThe parents are Mr. and Mrs. James (Wyeth-Ay-ermacists for guidance on its use, The manufacturer answer cannot the parent H. Ockey of Nephi, and Mr. and Tuomi Philadelof Laboratories do 10 says. oclock, you Mrs. Clark Molyneaux of Mona. question, Its The drug reduces appetite by know where your child is? Ado- phia) recommends that dexfenlescents have a strong need for fluramine, available only by pre- stimulating the release of serotheir parents to care about them. scription, be taken only by per- tonin, a brain chemical. Adolescents whose parents are sons who are more than 20 per By Juab Jr. Varsity and Freshman Football: Juab at Grantsville Juab at Gunnison: Juab Volleyball Ron and Susan Peterson of High School in 1989. She gradDelta are pleased to announce uated from Hair Systems of the marriage of their daughter, Southern Utah in St. George as Sandy, to Troy Cattoor, son of a Cosmetology Instructor. She Mr. and Mrs. Dave Cattoor of graduated from Utah Valley Nephi, on Saturday, October 12, State College School of Nursing Mark Peterson. Sandy graduated from Delta Saturday, October 12 TBA: Sandy Peterson will marry on Saturday 1996. Juab Jr. Varsity and Freshman Football: Morgan at Juab Juab at Manti: Juab Volleyball Troy Cattoor and t, Jeannine Chisholm self-indulge-nt self-contr- ol p.m. Thursday, October 17 Juab Football: Varsity game Grantsville at Juab, 7:00 PM Monday, October 21 Career Ladder Focus Day (No School in District) nt nt self-contro- Tuesday, October 22 Volleyball Region Tournament. First game of tournament is played at the top four home sites Thursday, October 24 Juab Jr. Varsity and Freshman Football: South Summit at Juab 4:00 PM & 6:00 PM Friday, October 25 Juab Football: Varsity game Juab at South Summit, 7:00 PM Saturday, October 26 Volleyball Region Tournament - Place TBA l. nt Parent-Adolesce- nt Diet medications useful but too risky for casual weight loss give-and-ta- ke Thursday, October 31 1st Quarter Ends Friday, November 1 Career Ladder Day (No School in District) State Tournament - Place TBA Volleyball Wednesday, November 6 JHS-P- T Conference New babies m self-relia- nt Friday, November 8 Elementary PT Conferences Thursday, November 28 Thanksgiving Holiday return to school on December 2nd Great-grandmoth- er nt self-contr- nt Monday, December 23 Christmas Holidays begin, return to school on January 3rd Thursday, January 16 2nd Quarter Ends st .. This Community Calendars . n r brought to you by Troy Cattoor and Sandy Peterson wedding. Reception 7:30 to 9:30 p.m.. Delta Stake Center, Delta. cups sliced (1 pound whole)-fres- h flour cup 12 cup yellow cornmeal 1 12 tablespoons granulated 1 se sugar 2 ONE YEAR OLD Hi! My name is McKell Lavon Valtinson. I turned one year old on September 17,1996. My Mom and Dad are Beau and Melinda Valtinson of Mona. My grandparents are Keith and Karen Belliston, and Grant and Melinda Kay, all of Mona, and Lois Valtinson of Salt are Lake. Ilene Mansfield of Orem, and Carl Holm of Grand Rapids, Minnesota. Great-grandparen- teaspoons baking powder 14 teaspoon salt 12 teaspoon grated orange peel 5 tablespoons unsalted butter, chilled milk 34 cup low-f1 teaspoon granulated sugar Filling: Combine apricots and 13 cup sugar, set aside. Combine cherries and 1 tablespoon flour, set aside. Cornmeal Biscuit Tbpping: In a large bowl combine dry ingredients; stir in orange peel. Cut in butter until mixture resem 1 teaspoon sugar. Bake in a preheated 375 degree oven until golden brown, 25 to 30 minutes. Serve warm or at room temperature. Serves 8. Cornmeal Biscuit Topping:. Ben Franklin Store Saturday, October 12 stir and rough); sprinkle with just to combine dry ingredients. Combine fruit in 1 12 quart apricots 13 cup granulated sugar baking dish; spoon batter over 2 cups pitted (12 ounces whole) top (dont smooth the dough fresh cherries you want the top to be bumpy 1 tablespoon flour and This Weeks Weddings bles Coarse meal. Add milk; Filling: 3 Mt. Nebo Thriftway Reminding you that we have a wedding registry at Ben Franklin that can be used at either store. Stop at 385 North Main and see how easy it is! Cornmeal Cobbler Apricot-Cherr- y fy at --kV. i ' |