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Show Kathy's Corner How to show love to your child by Katby Riggs USU Extension Home Economist One of the first developmental tasks children learn is to trust This trust is de- veloped by children feeling the love of their parents and then eventually giving love to Kathy Riggs others. The early nurturing received by children can make a great difference in how loved they feel and even in their ability to give and receive love throughout their lives. Ross and Campbells book. How to Really Love Your Child, suggests four ways to show love to your children. When parents implement these suggestions, the childrens love tanks are filled. In other words, they gain confidence in giving and receiving love. The first way to show children you love them is through warm, pleasant, eye contact. Infants show delight when they catch a persons eye. When parents look children in the eye while talking, the children feel a conveyance of love, and part of their emotional needs are filled. Even busy parents can give their children eye contact. It takes no additional time to look at someone when you are communicating with them. Coray nominated for senior citizen award Gene Coray of Nephi has been also is responsible to keep the nominated for the Utah kitchen clean and is responsible Outstanding Senior Citizens of 1991 award. The award is sponsored by the Prime Time Utah Seniors organization. Coray has been a member of the East Juab Senior Citizens organization for nine years. He has served as president of the group and as a member of the local advisory board. He is the groups nutritionist, and in that capacity, oversees the planning, buying, preparation, and serving of aU meals for . for its inspection by the state board of health. Coray is a faithful and dependable member of our organization. He has never missed a meeting, says Lorin Corbin, president of the local group. He retired from the U.S. Navy as a lieutenant commander after 22 years of service. He was at Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7, 1941, and was awarded the Navy Marine Corps medal for bravery in rescuing a wounded man from 0 the water after his ship sank. He the organizations members. A group of volunteers is a member of the LDS Church, helps with the preparation of and serves as an ordinance the meals, and each one takes a worker at the Manti LDS turn every three months. Coray On the flip side, researchers find that hospitalized children who were capable of eye contact were eqjoyed and visited more by the nurses. Children who learn to use their eyes as part of their communication feed the needs of other people. As people respond to them warmly, these children continue to have their needs met. A second way of showing love is through physical contact. Infants generally thrive when they are frequently held. Children usually enjoy being hugged, kissed, and held by their parents. A pat on the shoulder, a tousle of the hair, a gentle poke in the ribs, or a back rub can be very warm ways of making children feel emotionally secure. At some stages, and for some children, touch may be uncomfortable. It is important to respect the childs request not to be touched, and to be sure that any touch is appropriate. At a later time, a child may be more willing to have physical contact Adults may find that they communicate better with each other when they hold hands, touch the others arm, or occasionally pat the others back, Heating Repairs, all types Gas Furnaces & Lines Remodels New Construction Backhoe Work Free Estimates Call Alex or Mike at 623-201-1 a Hr host. Drv Carpet Cleaner lifts out deep down spots and spills. Nothing else Is so easy, so effective. Has just the right amount of moisture to dissolve and absorb dirt. Quicker, easier, more convenient than wet methods. Furniture does not have to be moved. Carpets may be walked on Immediately. 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Shadow Apartments, want ads to sell your unneeded items filled children who can go back to their own activities and not need For Sale fourth month free. One and two Times-New- s Standing up for you! INC. Rent for the first three months, get the Use and a setting in which they in can express love. When parents do not feel or show this love for each other, they may want to review and practice the steps above. If this is still inadequate for bringing love into the relationship, counseling may be turn & EXCAVATING m gtitansM! Gene Coray themselves. This means encouraging children to think, to be spontaneous, and to realize that they are separate persons who must assume more and more refor themselves. feel that they are completely sponsibility A feeling of harmony and love loved. This sometimes requires a the home can create a feeling lot of time. Busy parents may do in of peace and security in children, this at bedtime, on a routine trip to town, or while cooking a meal or cleaning a room together. OcAmericas Tax Team casionally, however, parents need to drop everything and focus on nothing but the children. The payoff can be happier, more ful- TAURUS PLUMBING 80-10- Equal Opportunity Bouwng for example. A third method of communicating love is through focused attention. This occurs when parents give children full, undivided attention in such a way that they four to extend their sincere gratitude and appreciation to our many dear friends, relatives, neighbors, and associates who shared their love and concern for us at the time of our great sorrow The kind sympathy expressed in the many cards, letters, and floral tributes will long be remembered The money, food, and visits were so appreciated A special thank you to Dr James M Besendorfer, the local doctors and nurses, the staff at Central Valley Medical Center and Nephi Medical Clinic, the ambulance crew, and Anderson's Mortuary Thanks to the Relief Society sisters and all those who helped in the services We were grateful for the help of Chris Neilsen, members of the Nephi City Police Department, the Utah Highway Patrol, Raymond Jackson, and the Utan Highway Patrol Honor Guard who lent us appreciated moral support It made our sadness easier to bear Norma, Neil, and Wesley Sherwood, and Diane H Brough 6 We wish to extend our thanks to everyone who helped us in our time of need We are a blessed community with good doctors, nurses, friends, and neighbors We want to thank all those who have brought food, sent cards, called, helped with our baby in our absence, and brought flowers We also thank Dr Kartchner and the rest of the medical staff for all they did for us. Thanks againl Merrill and Mary Shaw 6 We express our love, concern, and appreciation to everyone who helped in any way during the illness and following the passing our our beloved husband and father We especially thank all the doctors and nurses at Central Valley Medical Center; those who brought food, flowers, cards, and money, the ambulance crew, and Mike, Miles, and Kay We appreciate you so much We thank the stake president and his counselors, our bishops and their counselors, the Relief Society for the wonderful meal and help with the flowers, and all who participated in the services We thank you all so much The family of Evan Blackett 6 |