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"letters mingle souls. ” The death of love often brings sorrow. reeriminations. tears But for some celebrated letter w riters 2- Edgar Allan Poe. Er— nest Hemingway. F. Scott Fit/— gerald. Colette and others 7 heartbreak yielded an added div 1— deud' Today’s failed love affair became tomorrow's plot. ".1 i..iii..i‘.‘.‘ tor an lrish» Mansfield. she transformed her disillusionment tow and him into a back. "BC l)-tn't waste your time on 12...:1 Shake up the world Two w riters ’ Tw o plots. ”After French writer Francis notably unflattering story. 'Je ne Parles Pas Francais.” Davidson VV 1’11L‘s. "Careo returned the compli— ment by using Mansfield as the ‘ and critic George Jean model for Winnie in ‘Les inno— iisi‘uw-‘l tl‘...‘ paper pa» cents.‘ a writer w ho falls in love :f‘uw .ino lc1"'y as "vege"uitit' ‘ 11_ulIlCl‘lel\ln‘ ”-11ch H The \a‘; Starr-111. how.‘l LL11 s 111 say about his ‘1 romance with Fllcn i C1ill"sc“»‘slliliti;t_\ cont .1 1111.11.1llon paper re— 11.1.1 111 on paper 111s ‘y yet 11 111L\‘1} glor ‘ititli .knowhiltge virtue. .1211; low. ‘ reiaiiwuship with Robert . '11; 111.11 iiisi‘ired Hi/abe‘th in order to glean material for fus ture short stories. ” in one of the must disastrous lute .111airs on record. Oscar ‘~\11de lost not only his heart but his freedom to “the love that dare 1.121 speak 11. name. " Blackmailed by "iis own love letters to Lord \lt'red Douglas. Wilde served 11...: years injail for sodomy. Though Lord Alfred's care» lessncss had been largely to blame. Wilde forgave him. in yet another letter: " . the end in art is the beginning.” he wrote. "Sonnets to the Portu— ll‘cgttll 1-11 paper; Brown— ‘hei .1 1.111 letter, Their nannies .11 correspondence .I-i‘. progressed. over b1 1111 "Don't think 1 don't love you Etiquette columnist Judith Martin may haie had Wilde in mind w lien asked to recommend a .1‘.1biecii..viis.ti‘marriage git-111cm ago oi ietter-w r1t~ “undoubtedly 11.: ' \ it‘liii 2.‘ii idyl " Sch-Aster 1 i'c‘ll"- ‘.\. i W ASHINUTON iAPi This summer. \ isitors to a new national rimseum ‘1\lll be e11- safe plate to store love letters \:l'c\UL'L‘L‘stCtl 111C lll’t‘ place "110‘ i. burning ii‘gs For 15 years West Orange Hos— pital in Winter Garden. Fla. has been home to Nancy Duffina. She has given birth to two of her three children there; she has worked there as a pediatrics nurse; and she has grown tip there. pro- lone says. from \liles Se.1ies to his fessionally and personally. "I started work there at 21. with coasin. Addison Miles. on only two y‘ears' experience." says On the other hand. if M0111 and Dad were pragmatic about risktaking. evaluating failed risks to . 1 made a bed for coumged to read other people's 111.111. The Smithsonian Institu— tion‘s Postal History Museum. w hile and then ‘1‘. ish to go back again. Tlius she gradually went out of my arms to the grave. so opening 111 July. will offer that 1 should not tee. it so se- American history as told through letters by soldiers immigr1111s. homesteaders. missionaries and slaves. "We‘re trying to use letters from people to others or to bUsi— nesses that rev eal who we are as a people. how we viewed ourselves and our country.” says verely .is it torntrom them all at Aug. 31. 1849: “The whole not.” Writer and editor Nancy Pope says she and others unless that article can be turned scoured historical societies. libraries and universities for the letters. must of which were written "by people you’ve ne\ — er heard of. " Exhibits will change periodis over which there IS usually a little green. Dust. dust. dust. that has been the order of the day 8; From Maria Perkins. 21 slave. to her husband. Richard. on Oct. 11‘. 185-2: "Dear Husband "l w rite y on a letter to let you know my distress my master l‘i'ds sold albcrt to a trader on the standard white male per- and other child is for sale also and 1 want you to let (me) hear .0. accord to sleep on the mat on Monday court day and myself from you very soon before next eort if you can I want you to tell dr hainelton and your master it'either will buy me they can attend to it know and then I can go afterwards. 1 don’t want a trader to get me they asked me if had got any person to buy me and I told them no .. .a man buy the name of brady bought albert and is gone I don't know where . 1 am quite heartsick nothing more I am and ev er Will be your kind wife Maria Perkins" it‘s unknown if Richard Perkins persuaded his master to buy Maria. Weddings letters to woman he loved (11‘. \-‘.v 1‘. :1 1‘111‘ 1: R;.‘i‘.11..‘.u.l \‘48' 11111.” \llaii ‘ie t Amri- side. press yourdear hand in mine. 1k look deep down into the clear Heaven of your eyes A so that the Elisabeth Jolley, Joseph Gagon words which I now can only write. Flisabeth Diane Jolley. daugh- er man‘s wife llig‘s‘.‘ .1111: wt; “ excerpts are nugbt sink into your heart. and make you comprehend what it is taer of Mrs. Danice N. Jolley and 1‘3... "1 trom "lite 11111111 01 l.i“-t" that I would say ~ And yet Annie. .1” that 1 wish to say —- all that my l’i‘k‘ \\ ::‘i-.r~. and The-:1 lot e Letters.” 11‘ f‘ 715:. N l) :i. i lsiin (Pi‘t kc! Prowl-s ' "N123. 1m 1 not 2.11111 you now tin-ling 1.11.11 i might \ll by your Horoscope By JEANE DIXON For Mar, 16 ARIES iMarr-‘l‘. “ll-April 191: Pay 1110“: Jittv. to your own well-being Study 2.1121 .wli-zniprovement projects V1111 ad soul pines toexprcss at this instant. is included 111 the one word. love — To be with you now — so that 1 might whisper in your ear the de- hosted by Marjorie Gagon at the abandon this world with all my ny. That same evening a reception was held at the Old Utah County hopes of another: — but you be— lieve this. Annie — you do believe it d’.‘ w ill always believe it so long as l ihiiik you comprehend in some measure. the lcrvor with which 1 adore you. so long. no worldly trouble can ever render me absolutely wretched. ()11 my darling. my Annie. my 'a. 2.2 our career. 2‘. compromis‘ .11 ‘;“:~‘1v.r 5101) will open the door tr-a2ting l. TAI'RL‘S April 20-May ‘20.: The spot light :5 or. a challenge. Be Willing to try r1221. methods. Weir‘uum suggestions mn sweet sister Annie, my pure ‘-‘.uuiful angel — wife of my soul forever your own :"r-‘n; knowledgeable young people. A. (name encounter with a friend could more profitable. CEMIVI 'May 21.1.1119 201: Capitalizivar knowledte and experience to greater {111.11.111.11 security for tie irtlre Be or. the lookout for opportuni- te: to make new busmess and social mamas. (‘ANCER iJune 21-July 2.21: A uteruber of the opposite sex shows interest in you Keep your mind on your work. however. Protect your reputation by rcfustng to mix business with pleasure-2. Relax at home. LFO 'July 23- Aug 212: Do not give up if you fail to 11:11-1 an Irmnediate solution A conversation with a friend prove»; inspiring. Keep an eye on a i‘ivni or romance could get off-track. VIRGO iAug. Z3~Sept. 221: Your ca~ reer and business expectations are sub jet-1.0 change Careful research could speed you on your way. Although money talks may be difficult they should not be postponed. LIBRA ‘Sept. 22.4114 "22‘ Make spes (‘ific plans for the future. Problems war people at a distance are misrer to sort out than you ant1c1pated. Organize your day to avoid scattering your energies. SCORPIO iOct. 23-Nov. 211: Rely on your instincts when the chips are down. Be more sensitive to the real needs of someone who says one thing but means another! Step back and get an overall V‘CW Mr. Richard H. Jolley. of Provo. married Joseph Albert Gagon. son of Mrs. Marjorie D. Gagon. and the late Glen L. Gagon. Friday. March 13. in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A brunch in their honor was 1 inc emotionisi. which agitate me 2 I would willingly ~ oh joyfully Lion House following the ceremo— Building in Prov o. The bride graduated from Eldo— rado High School in Albuquerque. NM. She served in the California Arcadia LDS Mission. While at Joseph Albert Gagon tending BYU she was employed by Elisabeth Diane Jolley the Provo City School District and worked at Maeser and Edgemont Elementary schools. Since gradu— in the Washington Spokane LDS ating from BYU in special educa- Mission. He is presently employed tion she has been employed at Dix- by Baldwin & Gagon Construction Company. on Middle School. The couple will be mahing their The bridegroom graduated from Timpview High School. He served home in Pleasant Grove. Wedding guide The Daily Herald ‘5 policy is to publish as many engagement and v1 cdding notice.» as possible. Because of the high volume of wedv dings in the area. announcements are published on a first—come. Iirst— seri e basis and either a wedding or engagement announcement will be" printed. but not both. “All change is stressful, whether the person views it as positive or negative. You have to learn new behaviors, change old habits.” — Gini Cucuel, mental to account 1 would not give 25 cents for all the country passed cally. but the iiiUscum will strive for diversity. Pope says. "We'll be looking at history through different eyes. not just From the museum‘s inaugural exhibit. a peek inside Amer~ ica‘smailbox: From Narcissa Whitman. a missionary. to her parents. on the death of her daughter. Sept. 30. 1839: “1 will describe to you. if 1 could. herbright. lively appear— ance on Sabbath morning. the day of her death. She had always slept with me until just a week before her death. and that night she proposed ot her own Orlando Sentinel country traversed has been a barren trackless waste. with the excep» tion of the river valleys along spectiye By LORAINE O'CONNELL once. director Jim Bruns. Together. they give a glimpse of a nation "bound together by letter—writ— ers. some grammatical. others Edgar Allan Poe penned By Associated Press Changes in lifestyle never come easy Our willingness to take risks is determined by the role modeling provided by guess who —— our par— ents. of course. If Mom and Dad took a risk that failed. then proceeded to whine about what a mistake it was. we probably will be leery of doing anything that's not familiar. Ma— the tloor her by the side of mine. When 1 used to take her into the bed with me. she would he a little iil.tlls. Carco briefly wooed Katherine wrote American history comes to life as told through letters at Smithsonian Institution their UlUrl\lllP1|li‘k place in L111‘- king 1 ‘—.1ge.l_ in11 .1 red "-‘.1rd; but that helped. ' Shaw wrote she ‘. Monday Marin 13. 1993 cl. pcments, mini-tint; '.'..111lc"1s. ..ii 1‘ l'~11.1 !‘.1_1e “$1 I Janice Nelson, David Schwartz health counselor a nostalgic Duffina. 37. So when the hospital announced that. as of March 1, it would be moving to a splendiferous new lo cation on State Road 50 in Ocoee. Duffina was not among the em- how they could do something bet~ ter next time. we‘ll look at risktaking as “an ordinary. average thing to be doing. " Malone says. And although stress is normal with any change. resisting that ployees cheering the news. change can intensify the stress. "My reaction was. 'Why‘.’ Why "A person who resists wears are we doing this?‘ “ Duffina says. down." Cucuel says. "It‘s like saying goodbye to a That wearing down can manifest friend. This hospital is something itself in physical symptoms. she familiar. When something creaked says. including massive fatigue. or squeaked at West Orange. I Then there are headaches. neck said. ‘Oh. that‘s nothing.“ When problems. stomach and intestinal something creaks or squeaks at the problems. joint aches and pains. new place. [‘11 be saying. ‘What is "It depends on which part of that?‘ your body you're vulnerable in.' "Whenever you lose something says Cucuel. “In a lot of people. familiar. you feel the loss. “ their allergies flare up. " Others were feeling the loss. For a 24-year—old Orlando man. It)(). the mix of good and bad changes in John Carroll. director of social his life —- marriage last summer. work services for the hospital. twins due in March. a fledgling heard so many people expressing business and unforeseen medical anxiety over the upcoming move bills — has produced something that he offered a workshop for em- beyond stress. ployees who wanted to vent their "I get depressed sometimes just feelings. because I'm so frustrated." says Oh. puh-leeze. you might ask. this man. who requested anonymiisn‘t that taking things a tad too ty to protect his privacy. far? His wife. who is 21, has had a Not at all. he‘ll reply. difficult pregnancy and has been “Most of us are creatures of advised to get complete bed rest habit." Carroll says. "For a lot of until the twins are born. Caring for us. change is very difficult. Some- her has slowed start-up on his ‘cathing as dramatic as this (move) talog business. and the couple are can conjure up all kinds of irration- living offtheir savings. al fears for people." "What invariably happens is Oh. e‘mon. you‘re thinking. that the frustration spills over into Getting divorced or getting every aspect of your life." he says. canned from your job is a heavy- “You find it hard sometimes to get duty change — but moving front up and face your problems. That's one job site to another that's only when you have to reach down infive miles away? side for some confidence and say. “All change is stressful. wheth~ ‘We‘ll get through this.'" er the person views it as positive or Meanwhile. he works out his negative." says Gini Cucuel. a li- frustration and depression by runcensed mental health counselor in ning. rowing and writing poetry. Winter Park. "You have to learn In addition. he and his wife have new behaviors. change old habits. taken a long-term approach to the “And change can be more Changes going on in their lives. stressful for one group than anoth“Right now we’re facing some er because a lot of people will say‘. down time. so we‘re both trying to ‘This is an adventure, I’m excited take advantage of it and figure out about it.” while other people will our game plan. In that sense. this time has been productive.“ resist." What distinguishes the excited Good idea. therapists say. from the anxious when it comes to In addition. “transitions are a good time to examine some of the change? “Risk-taking ability." accord— long-held beliefs people have and ing to Cheryl Malone. an Orlando look at past patterns of behavior.” says Nancy Sutherlin, an Orlando licensed mental health counselor. psychologist NowFitnessTra Only $6.°°/Week iner & Personal Counselor . Personal Janice Nelson. daughter of Ron— ald H. and Joyce Nelson of Orem. will marry David Andrew Schwartz. son of Joel and Mary Schwartz of Salt Lake City. on Friday. March 19. in the Provo LDS Temple. ...It Works! The deadline ibr submission is A reception will honor the couple that evening. 6-8 pm. at the liiti‘rmation on events that be— River Ridge LDS Church. 1120 E. eurred more than two weeks earlier 600 North. Provo. The bride-to-be will graduate w ill in )I be printed. Inti vmiation tor weddings must be from BYU this April. She works at submitted on .‘1 him) available at the an advertising agency in Salt Lake City. She served an LDS mission Hc’l’illtl office. Announcements are published to Phoenix. Ariz tree ot‘charge: there is a prtxessing [cc (1158 forPhotographs. Her fiance graduated from Golden wedding announcements BYU. He served an LDS mission and photographs are published with to Austria. He is employed in Salt 1 mt chargc. Lake City. where they wil live. We reserve the right to edit all two weeks before desired publica- {ii lll. David Andrew Schwartz Janice Nelson C( )p} . SAGITTARIUS 'Nov. ‘2‘.’-1')er‘ 212: Sin» ales find that romance is very much a part of today's agenda Handle financial matters carefully to prevent arguments wrth friends. Travel will produce exeellent results now. CAPRICORN iDec. 22-.lan. 191: Meditation may reveal a need for better concentration and focus in your work. Tap into your creative genius and con31der unusual investment proposals. Old friends may come to your home. AQUARIUS (Jan. 2011911. 181. Reaction to your proposals is favorable. Being with friends is exciting. opening the door to shared projects and activities. You have the inside track when it comes to landing a contract. PlSt‘ES ‘ (Feb.19~March 201 A pft cathy" by Cathy Gubewito biv— mums lN 51x Myst] EVEN 1F THE MRRiAGE FAILS, {m SIX uivs in temporal I THE ooom or sruoteuess .iino etcomwe ii BRlDE.'! I unit we Done it! 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