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Show till H.it!ct4 DMLYMRMD, March 17, 19W Piovo, Utah, Wednesday, Parenting with love, not fear, most effective with tough teens Bv 'Sonre&Eiing's Afoot' nothing By ERIC D. SNIDER MISTY WISE CONSIDER THIS same path, the same consequence: grounding. Many parents wonder if this is the only way to keep their children out of trouble. The door loudly slammed shut. The angry silence seemed to complicate the situation. At 2 a.m., a mother's mind is racing trying to find the words to let her child know how worried she has been. Tired and worn, the mother questions, "How do I tell her again that curfew is at midnight9" After dropping his backpack by the door, he leaves with his friends for the arcade. They are iike a gang, always together with their long hair, dressing in dark colors. His mother worries that these friends are going to pressure him to go against everything bis parents have taught him. TALKING TO rustrated and worried parents sheds valuable insight on parenting. have discovered two groups of parenting motives; allow me to the discovery. Fear is the first motive of f I pan-ruing- Every parent at one time or another parents out of fear. It is inevitable. When we fear that our children will get into more trouble or won't learn we intended for the them to learn, it is easy to try and control their lives. We may think, "If my child fails as a student, 'or in any British murder mysteries, the Grand Theatre's production of the Broadway flop Misty Wise other aspect of their lives) then I fail as a parent." Control is a natural response when feeiing fear. If we can control the environment or the actions of the child, we feel less fear that they will somehow go wrong. WE LOVE our children. However, there is a distinction between parenting out of fear and parenting out of love. Thus, love is the second motive of parenting. We want our children to excel and be happy, but some unwise choices can be scary for us and for them. When we parent out of love, we allow our children to make their own choices. This may sometimes mean that we don't agree with their choice, but we support them no matter what the consequence may be. The following are some ways to parent out of love: Take the time to understand and be understood by your child. Knowing the "why" can help your child keep expectations. Help t hem to understand you are on the same team. When our children know that we are not playing against them, but with them, it helps them want to cooperate with us. The Dallas Morning News Like airport beacons on a runway, glowing disks light the way to the maw of a deep-seoctopus. Biologists have discovered suckers on the octopus Stauroteuthis syrten-sis- . The find is rare because the suckers don't actually suck; their only use is as light signals in the ocean's murky depths. The suckers could represent an evolutionary transition, a structure that lost its deep-se- a a light-emittin- g Kenison) is the amateur sleuth of the bunch, and it is her theories and suspicions that fuel most of the action. Uninvited guest Geoffrey (Mark Gollaher), a college boy, also shows up and begins wooing 7-- ter view. Squids and cuttlefish have their own light organs, which The. glow in a colorful array of lenses, mirrors and other features. But few octopi have such organs, and S. syrtensis is the first finned octopus found to have them, the researchers wrote. Sea creatures use their luminescence to signal to each other or to attract their dinner. 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The show has its moments, and the way it ends is rather daring and unusual, but overall, it's nothing spectacular. A.Delta Air Lilies 9 ff,rm Times 1 To form with a great deal of enthusiasm and dedication. All are committed to their absurd characters and never let up for a moment. J. Chad Davis' set is per but original use sucking added a new one glowing. from Scientists Harbor Branch Oceanographic Institution in Fort Pierce,, Fla., and Illinois Wesleyan University in Bloomington studied the light organs of S. , syrtensis in the lab. In the current issue of the journal the researchers Nature, describe how they dissected some of the suckers to get a bet- "Carl , Dottie & Now in Layton!! and one is liable to forget that it's supposed to be one. Any show where you have to remind yourself that it's a parody probably isn't a very good one. greedy nephew (Shawn A. Maxfield) and a French woman (Darla Davis), whose accent seems to come and go. Provo. 448 West Aniclope Drive larcro vaen These are all stock characters, which is perfect for a parody. The problem is, the show is never very pointed in its satire, Hope Langdon (Melinda Cole Welch), who, we learn, is the illegitimate daughter of two other guests and a possible heir to the Rancour fortune. There is also, of course, a Sherri Simmons, daughter of Betsy Simmons of Provo, will marry Jon Thomas, son of Michael & Theresa Thomas of Centerville, on March 18, 1999 in the Mt. Timpanogos LDS Temple. A reception will honor the couple that evening from p.m. at the LDS Church at 2900 N. 650 E., The Voice of Hope 2 Saturday Where: Salt Lake Community College's Grand Theatre, 1575 S. State St, Salt Lake City Cost: Tickets are $4-- $ 13, with student and senior discounts Val & . for available. Call 957-332more information. Running time: 2 hours, 20 minutes, including one intermission ' Sensitivity ratine: A couple "damns." Also, characters get killed frequently; however, there's nothing gruesome, and the deaths are played for laughs. d, Misty Wise is a certified family life educator. Simmons, Thomas V multi-doore- Octopus from ocean's depths is armed with glowing suckers WEDDING if What' 'Something's Afoot' Whan: nightly at 7;30 p.m. through Saturday, with an additional 2 p.m. matinee on Billed as a "parody" of "Something's Afoot" seems to be more interested in retelling those old stories than in making fun of them. The musical is set on a dark and stormy night in a secluded mansion owned by an eccentric millionaire. Lord Rancour, whom we never see, has invited six guests for the weekend, most of whom, along with the hired help, start getting killed. The question is, which of the 10 people present is responsible for the murders? Based loosely on Agatha Christie's "Ten Little Indians," this version could aptly be called Ten Little Idiots." They mill around, fretting about the murders, making lame accusations at one another, and occasionally burst into song. Miss Tweed (Sharon Lynn haps the best thing about the! i" show. Its panelfej look is perfect, and there are number of clever booby trap and devices hidden through- - ' out, things fall from the ceiling and pop out of walls; one chaiw ' " acter is even devoured by a If yea Co The Daily Herald For the fourth time in two weeks, the call from the school comes: "Your child has missed one or more classes today." Disappointed and frustrated, the father wondered what more to do. All of the alternatives seemed to lead down the spectacular s game For More information ca!L325-2S4- 8 A v-- i i y-- N |
