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Show Fagk 14 -- THE HERALD, Prove I tah Tuesday November 21, 1878 Children Learn Ask the Cook for Cheese From Parents B C AROL McGARVEY cheese spread is fun to receive because you can enjoy it right then any time of day with the giver Just get out sonv apples or crackers, and you re in business A iin' i a i vnvo a v u v iuiu 5 uiSt Ml playmates Chiklren iearn first from their parents and those close to them from brothers, sisters playmates and others in and out of the family unit Careful selection and proper use of toys is important to assure children s positive play and healthful development But the influence of the toys themselves is always secondary to the behavioral shown by parents and olners and in the way they play with children Toys become most significant and useful when parents establish a close companionship with their child research psy According to Dr Brian Sutton-Smitchologist and specialist in children s play, "It's only when children are sure of parents love that they can be sufficiently independent to enjoy and develop through their toys." Parents who participate in then children s ptay are best equipped to select and match toys to the child s functional level But more important, by playing with their children, they can help them discover things that they, as adults, have forgotten they ever had to learn "Modem adults, says Sutton-Smitare taught to give up childish things, to be grown up and respon sible Parents who are able to keep in touch with feel ings about their own childhood will be able to communicate better with their children and make a more significant contribution to their development." Research has shown that children who play a lot often become more creative and imaginative than those whose exposure to play and toys is more limited. Children who play regularly with their arents and ethers are most likely to achieve the ighest level of creativity as adults Parental involvement in children's play, at the right time, is vital to the full extent of the children's emotional, intellectual, social and physical development Parents must be truly playful, however, to produce the greatest effect on their children Merely imitating or even ignoring a child's play may not be enough. Through active play with their children, parents can encourage playfulness, introduce new toys and play concepts and thus assure progress of. the play curriculum. They can encourage imitation by children and help them become more comfortable with new things and situations. As partners in play with children, parents are best advised to do what they enjoy most and to introduce variety into play. This may mean physical play, like rolling on the floor with children; verbal play, such as Jelling stories or jokes; game play as with checks s, marbles or or play with toys and other playthings. Dr. Sutton-Smit- h offers a few simple rules of play to help parents know when, and when not, to play with their children. Observe. Determine through close observation a child's skill levels and play interests. Play along. Enter and play at the child's level. Be careful not to impose a play level that is too sophisticated and adult, for this may cause disenchantment for both parent and child. Play a little above. After playing for a while at the child's level, parents can then introduce a slightly newer, more complex play level. A conversation between two dolls, for example, can be demonstrated by a parent after the child has mastered playing with - CHEDDAR CHEESE SPREAD 8 oaaee sharp Cheddar cheese, shredded (room temperature! package i ounces) cream cheese, softened 1 h, k, 3 1 ' cup milk cup butter or tablespoon Worcestershire sauce I teaspoon dried chives teaspoon dry mustard teaspoon celery seed I teaspoon salt t 'easpoon dill seed or 'i . ' teaspoon dried dill weed. CAROLYN MILLWARD 'i rye bread, crackers or apple wedges Bea! ail ingredients except last one in medium dow! until creamy Pack crock or non into metal container, cover tightly Refrigerate at least 24 hours, but no longer than 2 weeks from Remove refrigerator hour before serving Garnish with snipped chives, if 1 desired with Serve cocktail rye. crackers or margarine, softened 1 Cocktail 't cup light corn syrup until stiff cap water Transfer Jensen in K ceremony to be a egg whites teaspoon anitla 1 cup coarsely chopped nuts Heat sugar corn syrup and water over low heat, stirring constantly, until If you just can t resist sweets, here s a Divinity recipe to tide you over. Make it. taste it then give the rest as a gift so you won't be tempted 2 d long stamped, UNIVERSITY MALL 471 20 Stores from Orem High School and LDS Seminary. While attending high school he was employed as a ski instructor He has attended Will Close Ai 6 p.m. On November 22nd UNIVERSITY, MALL ore Following their marriage and a honeymoon trip to Hawaii, the couple will make their first home in Orem. Team up at Zions Bank and a grandparent of the bride. Mr. Leo Weatherston The bride has been entertained at wedding showers held in her honor by Kathy Henry, Sherrie Zobell, and by Mardene Boren and Karen Evans. Attending the bride will be Mardene Boren and Jolynne Walker, Angela demonstrating a new concept and arousing a child's Boren will serve as to child alone leave the and learn. response, practice flower girl. After the new skill is mastered (it will take months Best man duties will be in some instances, minutes or hours in others), the parent can playfully demonstrate another, more ad- performed by Jeff Clark. Miss Millward vanced concept. one doll. Back away and observe again. After i: ' : Choices The Maturity Myth By Karen Blaker, Ph.D. DEAR DR. BLAKER -- 1 am a young electrical engineer with a wife, two children and a house. Even though I have everything I always wanted, my life is not completely calm. There are even a crisis now still ups and downs and then. My wife is also upset by this state of affairs. I think we both hoped that, once we acquired the trappings of adulthood, we would "live happily ever after." I feel almost foolish writing about this when so many people have such serious problems. But I would like to know if my wife and I are the only ones who feel disheartened and cheated by the realities of adult life. You are not DEAR READER alone! We have all been fooled by what has been called the "maturity myth" into believing that total satisfaction will settle in once we have such tappings of - adulthood as a spouse, an education, children, a house and a career. This myth, perpetuated throughout our youth by parents who must have known better, promises no more crises if we take the proper steps and follow the rules. The myth is wrong in implying that adolescence is the last time we need to ask ourselves the searching questions about who and what we are. Adult lives are full of crises. At age 32, my neighbor was forced to get a job for the first time. A colleague is considering giving up his beloved private therapy practice to become editor of a major professional journal. My husband fulfilled a lifelong dream at 22 when he entered law school and knew he had with a scholarship made a mistake after only two weeks. There are family crises, too. Each is another opportunity for change and growth. 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Member Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation An Equal Onportunity Balance in Statement Savings Account Employer Unlimited check writing Free, personalized, numbered checks Check guarantee card Overdraft protection Master Charge or Visa Travelers Checks Cashier's Checks Chek able Savings -- - ad- McGarvey Box 4994. Des Moines. Iowa 50306 AT THE from and is presently Brigham Young UniverAmerican Fork High employed in Orem sity and is presently Mr. Jensen graduated employed in Provo. School and LDS per- include self dressed envelope with your request to Carol (Wednesday, November 22) Jensen, Orem Special guests at the will booklet. Three Year-rounChristmas Rum pots, send 25 cents and a further to of the Let's Ask the Cook THANKSGIVING EVE DIVINITY cups sugar A. wedding For your copy than apple wedges honor the couple will be held that same evening at the same location from 7 to 9 p.m. All friends and relatives are invited Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Maiden R. Millward, American Fork, and Mr. and Mrs. Ira Store no longer two weeks whites to a large mixing bowl Beat on medium speed while slowly pouring hot syrup into egg whites add vanilla Beat until mixture holds its shape and becomes dull. sugar is dissolved Cook 10 to 13 minutes Stir in over medium heat, nuts without stirring to 260 Spread on lightly butdegrees on candy ther- tered 9- - by 5-- by mometer loaf pan and pat smooth Beat egg whites and with fingers Cut into salt in small mixing bowl squares Or drop by - graduated Seminary In high school formed Saturday at The she was active in pep club Colonial House, 187 W and Future Homemakers Mam St., Lehi, by Bishop of America She attended Craig Kennington. Utah State University A wedding breakfast at Jedediah's in Provo will follow the ceremony. A reception peaks form teaspoon onto waxed beaten egg paper 2 Carolyn Millward to Say Vows With Dennis Jense n on Saturday Carolyn Millward will become the bride of Den-ni- s Spread Money Ordeis Gift Checks Reduced installment loan rates Accidental death insurance policy Notary Service Safe deposit box $5 savings account |
