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Show Page HERALD, Provo, Utah, Thursday, October 30-- THE 5. 1S78 Candi Jones Helen Help Us Marries Know Him Better Before Ultimatum By HELEN BOTTEl DEAR HELEN: I'm 30, have successful career, attend night classes, am divorced 10 years, and I've been through a mishmash of relationships. But I'm much in love with a 26 - year old man, who also loves me but shuns marriage. A four - year affair with a woman who jilted him has made him wary, though not at all bitter. We've been seeing each other five months, and he's content to keep it that way indefinitely. We're so good together, I yearn to be his wife. But I'm caught in the trap made for liberated women. It's no longer acceptable to play games, withhold sex, be coy and sneaky to win a husband. Honest talk is the only way, and that he gives honest gets me nowhere answers I'd rather not hear, like he'd "disappoint me because I expect so much of him." It's true he's sometimes undependable and forgetful, always late, tends toward laziness among other minuses. But then again, he's kind, gentle, understanding, generous, even tempered, good looking, honest and affectionate, plus many good traits. I've tried everything from sweet and considerate to bitchy, I even stopped seeing him, but we were both so miserable it didn't last long. Could you or your readers tell me how to make a man marriage OVERLIBERATED minded? DEAR O.L.: Look, you've only known this man five months. Why push for an early marriage when you're enjoying the relationship as is? Give yourself a year to discover whether or not he becomes what he predicts a disappointment. Then, if you're still good together, he may have reached the turning point the time in a bachelor's life (usually his late 20s) when he goes susceptible, and almost any woman can get him to the altar. Be sure you're very much in evidence when the change happens! H. - -- Greg Newell Candi Lynn Jones married Greg J. Newell in a ceremony P.S. Ideas, please, readers? DEAR HELEN My gentleman friend is terrific, but so uninhibited' We po to our favorite restaurant a lot. The owner is an older woman. She comes up to greet him. and he gies her a big hug and kiss, sometimes waltzing her down the room. He even hugged my mother the first time he met her. Surprisingly, she didn't mind. He knows everybody. You can hear his laugh even at a noisy party. This exuberance isn't put on. He says he likes people and can't help showing it. The other day I said my feet hurt so he grabbed me and carried me up a flight of stairs to my office, then gave me a big kiss just as a opened the door. So everybody saw and cheered. Is there any way I could calm him down without hurting his feelings? EMBARRASSED DEAR EMB: DIXON Parents the of Fortnighters Set Culinary bridegroom are Mr. and Mrs. Gregory Newell Sr. of Hayward, Calif. Demonstration ceremony the Following a wedding breakfast was hosted by the bridegroom's parents at the Hotel Utah. A reception followed that evening at the Empire Room of the Hotel Utah. The bride has been attending Brigham Young University for the past The program will two years and is a confeature a culinary cert pianist. demonstration by Dr. She was also chosen as Monnahan. At the annual Miss Missouri in the state summer party Mrs. Wi- beauty and talent contest. lliam Dixon, president of The bridegroom has Fortnighters, presented been prominent in him with a "loving cup" political affairs as a- - soil in recognition of his ser- conservation aid to vice to Fortnighters as former President Gerald "Chef Extraordinaire." Ford. The couple met while Other officers of Fort- both were attending nighters are, Mrs. Wi- BYU. lliam Sinykin, first vice They are honeymoonpresident; Mrs. Samuel ing in Palm Springs, Stith, second vice presi- Calif. dent; Mrs. Ted Bandley, An open house will be secreary; Mrs. Phil Odle, held Saturday at the treasurer; Mrs. J. L. home of the bridegroom's Bach, corresponding parents in Hayward. secretary, and Mrs. Tony Another open house will be hosted by parents of Pasin, historia'n the bride on Oct. 10 in Missouri. The couple will resume their studies at BYU winter quarter. Fortnighters Club will open the fall season this evening at 8 p.m. at a meeting to be held at the home of Mrs. James Monnalian, 238N. 175 E., Provo. Got a problem? An adult subject for discussion? You can talk it over in her column if you write to Helen Bottel, care of this newspaper. Copyright 1978 by King Features Syn- dicate, Inc. Cross-eyed- ? Children who are cross-eyedon't outgrow it. This myth and several others about eyes and eyesight are demolished in an article about eyes in the October 23 Family Circle. According to the magazine, children may at birth, but it appear cross-eye- d should disappear after six months. If it doesn't, a doctor should be promptly consulted. IDS Temple. Parents of the bride are Mr. and Mrs. Samuel J. Jones, Chesterfield. Mo., former Provo residents. The bride is also the granddaughter of Mrs Oralynn Jones Meecham. MRS WILLIAM I've a better suggestion. Let this terrific, uninhibited man teach you the joy of doing what comes naturally. If his openness continues to embarrass you, perhaps he's chosen the wrong II. partner. d performed Monday in the Salt Lake Favorite Home Recipes Vows Set RUSSIAN DRESSING Debra Harward will become the bride of Ter-l- y Kent Frazier in a ceremony to be performed Dec. 19 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A reception will honor the couple that evening in Provo. They will be further honored Dec. 22 in Philomath, Ore. where parents of the bride-elec- t. Mr. and Mrs. Moyle E. Harward. reside. Parents of the prospective bridegroom are Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd M. Frazier. Corvallis, Ore. Miss Harward attended Ricks College for one year and is now employed in the accounting department at First Security Bank in Provo. Mr. Frazier i a senior at Brigham Young onion 'j small 5 c. sugar or less t can tomato soup ' c. white vinegar s4 c. oil garlic to taste s4 T. mustard i t. paprika '4 T. Worcestershire sauce s4 T. salt Blend all for seconds to bind, then refrigerate. MRS. DON GILMAN Orem Thornton, Park Vows Announced -- Mr. and Mrs. Ron the bride, Margaret Thornton. Orem. Attendants Glasmann. will be Lori Lagerstedt and Cheryl Hartley. The couple were Sept. 28 at the home of the bride's Best man will be married Vaughn Williams. After their marriage parents, Mr. and Mrs. the couple will make Ron Thornton. Orem. their home in Provo. Mr. Park graduated from Orem High School and is attending Utah Technical College in Hairdressers Orem. The bride atSet Kickoff tended Orem High and is now employed in Orem. Ice in :f ) f I, lillllllll ' luncheon and fashion show Monday at 11:30 a.m. at La Casa, 210 W. State Rd., Lehi. How much ice should you order for your cocktail party? Of course, it depends upon how large the drinking crowd, but generally you should plan on a little more than a pound per person or 25 pounds for 20 Chairman of the event is Jan Brady. The public is invited to attend and there will be a nominal charge for the luncheon and show. old HUH v M I J Vl dishwashers... worn-ou- t nnA r( oo. w vUDvvj MS vni mn I wanted a clone!" No. 1, will hold a kickoff Orders PRESENTS - I National Beauty Salon Week will begin Sunday. UTAH APPLIANCE & FURNITURE CO. W "But didn't want a little brother. Luncheon Fete people. I n(t.K.ju.rm I North Utah County Hairdressers, Affiliate HOME ARTS SECTION Of Women's Council will meet Monday at. 2 V g by Gil' Fox ,SIDEGLANCES University where he is majoring in urban plannMr. and Mrs. Harold ing. He filled an LDS misD. Park, Orem, ansion to the Costa Rica nounce the marriage of San Jose Mission. their son, Drue, to Jodi Serving as matron of Thornton, daughter of honor will be a sister of Club Notes p.m. at the Women's Cultural Center for the opening meeting which will be an open session for all members of the council and their guests. Nancy Kader, wife of Omar Kader, will speak on community involvement and women's and Theirs Yours Harward, Frazier offered by Waste King and participating dealers when you trade up to Waste King's stainless steel dishwasher with the patented 3 way double arm system. S V V W H II M if V It H V 1 H Save now on. the RCA color TV of your choice for 1979! 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