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Because of this rare opportunity, I would like to hope we have a chance at a relationship most stepchildren don 't have with their stepparents. I would like the baby to call me "Mom" instead of "Kelly" and to view me as a third parent, not an interloper. However, the current custody arrangement is tilted severely in the ex's favor, because she is breastfeeding. 1 think 1 will lose this special opportunity if we don't get to baby a chance to bond with spend any time with the baby actual Mom isn't a slam-dunas the best thing for the baby till she's a toddler. Should I (because, for one thing, not urge my husband to petition all mothers are good mothfor split custody? ers). But you at least have to Anonymous consider that it's the best thing and that attempting to get What, so you can rip the breast out of the baby's mouth? closer to the baby by antagoIf you want to be a "third nizing her mom might be the worst possible thing. parent" to this child, then you need to do the one thing that You have to scrutinize any makes you a real parent, verthought you think, any idea sus the grown-u- p who occupies you get, and any move you the same space as the kid: make you have to scrutinize Tell Me About It You need to think in terms of yourself for flaws, frailwhat's best for the child. ties, selfish motives. If you're "What's best for the child" unwilling to question whether is not I believe this applies univermaybe you're wrong, then there's little chance you'll be right. sally, but it's particularly true, stepping back and giving the and the consequences particularly cruel, when there are k you need to do is stop seeing "Get close to Baby" as a zero-suproposition. Babies may bond with caregivers, but so do toddlers. Even if you came in a year or two "late" (which you won't), D Sharing with Utah CJounty everything worth celebrating! well-stocke- that doesn't relegate you to some second tier of parental belong. value. Make no mistake: You If you've got these, you'll make the best of this "rare opoccupy the tier you earn, through your love, your presportunity," regardless of when ence and there it is again your parental clock starts your ability to get over ticking. And if you're respectyourself and think in terms of ful of this little baby's mother, the child's best interests. then she's more likely to start It has nothing to do with that clock sooner. Impatience the title; I've seen too many crashes the gate (and usually "Moms" whose children gets thrown out) where grace have severed ties with them gets invited in. in disgust,1 just as I've seen devotion to the Carolyn at tellme small children involved. guardian who goes by "Kelly." washpost.com, or chat with Once you have stripped your That's when "Kelly" is lib- her online at noon Eastern motives of all their protective eral with affection; judicious time each Friday at www. and consistent with limits; rationalizations, the next thing washingtonpost.com. 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