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Show ! - y! Puzzling Problem Of Giving Gifts: Who? When? and What? little as five dollars, a pastry server or serving spoon less than fourteen dollars. Who gives engagement pres. ents? ' present back automatically. Traditionally, the man gives a Suppose a friend Is getting mar--, gift usually a ring, but it can rled for the second time. Are you be anything to his fiancee. ' a to second send gift? She may give him a present if obligated Answer: not at all. You would she likes, but it isn't customary. be expected to furnish a gift only Engagement presents from others, if you had never given either of even family members' and close - the pair a wedding gift before. friends, are strictly optional. x can g What are the rules about be ' a tricky, one that showers? often funny business puzzles even people who are sure If invited, you're supposed to of their good manners m other take a present, though it can be a areas. Knowing what the eti- very small one. Even if you can't quette experts say may save attend, you. would probably send some kind of gift unless you had guesswork and embarrassment the already attended one shower for and help make the same girl. blessing it's supposed to be. When is a wedding, gift a If you are invited to an anniis and when it "must" optional? versary party or celebration, Theoretically, a wedding gift. must you bring or send a present? like afly other gift, is a matter of It's not necessary,- but it's "nice choice, not obligation; in practice, and many people do it. close friends and relatives usual When should you give your hosly send eifts to the bride and. for tess a present? the most par?. rany guests who are attending a If reyou: plan to attend .the wedding or simply paying a first a When same. ception do the to in a new home, a friends visit Is to the Invited ceremony 'guest but not the reception it is not small gift is thoughtful, though customary, though it would be not strictly required. It is cus perfectly proper; to send a gift. tomary' to take a present to your Should you give anything to hostess when you make any visit longer than an overnight stay. elopers? If you v4sh: presents mayi be Many people; however, bring gifts , sent to them just as to any bride even when they stay less than a and groom. day. What is the traditional gift of ' the bride's parents? appropriate? Those that aren't too elaborate, By a very long and lovely, tradia too basic of set silver tion, sterling personal, or sent when a busi flatware. The gift symbolizes the ness matter is pending. Gifts of parents' wish to establish their liquor, boxes of fruit or gourmet daughter in a gracious way of assortments are the most comlife. As to the amount of sterling mon, but .something like a sterfsilver flatware given, the only ling silver paper holder or desk rule is the family budget and ruler would also be correct and what it can provide. less expensive than you might What is the m&st tactful way Junk. Gifts- should not be sent to to find out what a bride wants? business associates on personal It's perfectly all right, say occasions like, a wedding or the many etiquette authorities, for birth of a child. If you were notifriends to ask' the bride or her fied of the event by a wedding in mother. Or you might inquire if vitation or a birth announcement, she has registered her patterns you'd send personal not a bus' .' and preferences in china, sterling inessgift. silver, crystal and linenx at local When someone gives you an store. expensive gift. Is it "only .good By checking the store's bridal manners" to reciprocate In kind? Not at all; you're never obliregistry, you can find out which items have already, been bought, gated to spend more than you can and which others she'd like to afford. As a matter of fact, givhave. In this way, you can turn ing lavish gifts exceptj8r the up useful and imaginative gifts closest friends and family memn within your budget; a bers js'. considered ' very poor spoon or pickle fork In her ster- taste, because' it may embarrass ling silver pattern may cost as the recipient. Suppose you want to send President Kennedy V gift. First you must cpiery the White House staff to see whether he will accept It otherwise you may get your j U J r gift-givi- i - bon-bo- 1 t i SUNDAY HERALD 3A nnual O.E.S., held their Morris picnic at the, Salem Park. There were; about 40 members and their families present and a delicious buffet dinner was served. Mrs. Georgia Roach, Payson, was general chairman and she was' assisted by t Tintic Chapter No. ' her jhusband, Joe Roach. 18, Robert i ') , 1 moon days. Yes, despite the years; my husband and I are still a pair of 'lovebirds. We enjoy just being together. ' Resentful nf the fact that wp can be happy without ' her. ourl daughter is determined to' come home, sans husband. Yet she Was bound to marry this boy and both were sure it was forever. I live in! daily dread of her suddenly rifaging the .doorbell probably in tne dead of night, for-shis melodramatic, falling hysterically into our arms and crying "I can't DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I jim a boy .of 14 who is sick, aitd tired of the favoritism shown my older brother. As an example theye is the pigeon pen we "built'f to- - , take it any longer!" j Why won't children understand ti at once married, nobody's life isj a bed of roses? My husband and I had it pretty rough for years bat I never said boo to my family. Today we're doine extra well and. 'like I say,1 our girl feels left out. 1 10 you think I'll ever see the t me when I have my man all to . g, J. MBS. KEITH BARNEY (Valene Jarvis) ; Valene Jarvis Becomes Mrs. .Keith j. Barney A charming SPANISH FORK was the recent nuptial event wedding and reception of Valene Jarvis, and fceith J. Barney. The bride's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Thomas B. Jarvis and Mr. and Mrs. Ray Barney are the parents of the bridegroom, all of Spanish Fork. The young couple were .united in marriage at the Palmyra Stake House on Aug. 24. The bride was radiant in a beautiful floor length gown of white nylon and Chantilly lace. The gown was styled with a scal loped neckline trimmed with sequins and had .long tapered lily point sleeves. The bouffant skirt was enhanced with nylon shaped in diamond design and centered with tiny clusters of sequins completely circling the full skirt. Her shoulder length veil of sheerest bride's illusion fell from a tiara of crystal and pearl. 'The bridal bouquet was a large orchid surrounded by vanda orchids and shattered white crysanthe-mums. Bridal attendants were Kathy Hansen, maid of honor; Carole Ann Larsen, Marilyn Hales, and Judy Barney. They wore identical gowns of lavender satin, carried colonial bouquets of white car- nations centered, vwitti lavender chrysanthemums and wore, rhine- stone tiaras, gifts of 'the bride. Petite Susan - Schramm and Connie Hansen served as flower girls. Brent jarvis and Gary Jarvis, brother of the bride, acted as ring bearers for the double-rin- g ceremony. Kent Barney, twin brother of the groom, was best man. Ushers were Stephen Johnson, Dean Corcoran and Dan Corcoran. BEAUTY BRIEFS The newlyweds left for a short trip to Las Vegas. d A dress is flatter honeymoon When they return, they will make ing to the woman who makes sure their home in Moab. I her back is smooth and blemish- -' An back attractive free. requires E MEAT daily scrubbing with a long-ha- n dled back brush or a stimulating STORAGE meats will keep Ready-to-serloofah sponge. a week if properly refrigerated, sausage A day a the beach may mean while dry and semi-dr- y All weeks. several will keep around the eyes. e should be meats Apply a dab of eye cream and covered or tightly shut out the glare with protective kept wrapped sunglasses. Slightly curved lenses when refrigerated; as exposure and wide frames will give better to air causes unnecessary drying of meats. side protection. I ; A ' u ,i v- ' " - ; ? .closed;. i' Tomorrowl I MT H - Taylor's will be k )) ': .W West Center ? x ft. . ' , wv ' ' " p . J : V ed . 'I t- ! t V'v ' V' .. Send your problem to Helen Warden Erskine. Be sure to en close a stamped, envelope and address her caire of this newspaper. Helpful leaflets ayailable. Write for "Marital Har self-address- riKriM ' ". k : .' 1 , , ' H Ol -1 ' :. . II jl i mony." r PRE-INVENTO- RY 111 I I READY-TO-SERV- 5 ' 7 I?- Ail M I r- I I r I 1 1 I I 1 1 at Wakefield's in Provo -- J Flair for Flattery that gets you everywhere . ... Charles Hymen's plaid prettin ess with mobile skirt set in motion by cluster pleats, a leather-loo- k bpw-tie- d belt. Acetate and rayon plaid .with the look of fine sheer worsted. Blue, brown, dubonnet,or green with black. Sizes 10 to 20 1995 A dress A ve sun-crinkl- Cannister Model 8 es cfept. Ready-to-we- ar ready-to-serv- " WAS 499S ONLY Sack ?o S chob Foir 3- All steel construction - fe Floats on air The Most Beautiful Lingerie Selection n, in TOYO Mail Orders w- SURGICAL FITTINGS by 34 WEST CENTER Filled pull&ver of bulky wool knit is matched with an all wool Man Flanne knee tickler of soft . Come in and se ect your Lingerie, Girciles, House Slippers, etc. PLANS MARRIAGE "Mr. ami Mrs. Foster Gardner of Nephi announce the engagement and forthcoming: wedding: of their daughter, Mary Gwen, to Glen 'E. Adam-fiQson of Mr. and Mrs. Paul D. Adamson of Salt Lake City. The wedding: is to be solemnized at the Juab Stake House on Sept. 21. Miss Gardner is a graduate of the Heneger's Business College, and is employed in Salt Lake City. Collect all the compliment ofi campus S in our Jantzen sweater separates. The frbsh NOW ... J i unpressed pleats, Pullover fe Full horsepower motor Sturdy hose stretches Xtra long Carpet and floor cleaner in 1 head - 34-4- 0, just wear a smile and ajjjj2(jii Graduate 'Fitter PROVO HOOVER'S r- - ; 0 FULL sub YEAR GUARANTEE T . his s one of our pet pumpsr -crmf -y OU'H foil in love with it, tool Note the neat little 245 NO. UNIVERSITY instep strop, the just-righeel, the young smart look so typical of Geppettos. Just on from our wonderful collection for Fall. Red kid,' Black kid, Black patent . . . $17.95 Nil ...... Luoiu Jv ht by GEPPETTO r '11r -1 m VL LOOK! wew Lower Prices For This Sale HOOVER OOVER X Polisher. Scrubber W Elec. Floor H o o v e r Xpolisher! Scrubs, polishes washer Wets, scrubs and vacuum dries floors all in one easy proc & waxes floors. All with same brushesN ess! IMC. 78 No. Univ. Avenue, Provo ' . ! .. FR I ' r . i 3-12- 63 - Sportswear dept. 4 H $14.98; Backed . " " ''' : : (7Vi If "i A . bare-backe- y . . . . rjiyself without a spoiled child coming home to roost? My husband would take her back in a if I said the word. Toment daughter is quite different. She never peeps no matter how difficult the way, just smiles and is happy for us now that we have the money and leisure to travel and enjoy life. am 44, my husband ,49 so we ave plenty of wonderful years head together. Should we: listen o our pampered girl and start raising her again? I thought my job was done four years ago. Too Much Love DEAR TOO MUCH: Your 'mm is laaugnter restlessly seeking an remotional security which she has .not yet found. This is jartly your fault. The tone of your letter ..... 1 flirMll.4 J her in favor of her older sister. jfJp2S0 A :L: . Our dad bought us each a. homing pigeon. My brother let his siarve then Jblamed mine for peeking him to death. Then my mother blamed me. Meanvvhile I earned money to buy moVe pigeons and what did "Mom dof but make me give one to my brother. .Now we are moving and have to seE pigeons and pen. Mom says half the money belongs to my brother when .he didn't earn a red cent of it! He has always triedj to get something for nothing in this life What' can you do with people like that? Tifcd of It All DEAR TIRED: Forget it! If your brother chooses to. be petty and 'a bully, that's his business, not yours. By favoring him your mother is doing him more harm than good Qt again, that is noi your business. Your sole respon sibility is yourself, and a big one too.". If each one of us could make a success instead of a botch of managing ourselves, this world would be "a wonderful place in which to live. Get the best price you can for pigeons and penr di vide? Che money with your grasp ing brother and go. on to other this. time alone. enterprises e ; - Mrs. Robin Mc- EUREKA Cabe and Mrs. Marie Evans en tertained the members of their pclub, the. Modern Mrs., recently by taking them to a show at Spanish Fork. After' the - movie they enjoyed a tasty, lunch at a local restaurant. . . : ; Eureka Clbbs Entertain at Parties ' even-mor- Utah County, Bj HELEN WORD EN ERSKINE That is why material things as DEAR DOROTHY DIX: When sume .such importance in her ut to let ner come nome our "youngest daughter, was mar- eyes is not the answer. Your husbjamj, ried five years ago we 'went all being imore sympathetic, is the out on the wedding. She had more one to help her out of this morass than any girl could wish 'for EUREKA he ask her what she when single; this was our final Suggest wants in life. You'll probably find gejsture. From thence qn she that it is approbation and a. fee r would be on her own and 'we free tion than money or vith the last child grown and material 01 your love uive tnings. to renew' our. honey- and it will married truly set yoi free. - , ' Apron Strings After Wedding , house-warmin- To Untie - 1 " ng Utah ba u g h te r Refuses I Gift-givin- i SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 2, 1962 Dorothy Dix ... |