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Show FOR AND ABOUT TEENAGERS By CD. Smith Too Bashful To Ask For A Date! t T- r.-.. j.....rn).- , ,v little different from making con- , , r ' 'kLf versation with anyone else. U you ' f w """ '"' '"' fcw I want t get off on the right foot, , f VD"'' "y J i find out what Interests you have In . C J f J rvii X MUST" I comrnon- Tllis can be simply ac- ftw SrtiA. " ryyrlw r I complished by asking, "I like ten- f lAsroK 1 I ' nis- Do you?" I if j'sJ 16ashful ne tfling u,rtft Tememberin8 ' I ' 1 WW ' f I5') 1 I that a good conversationalist i$ also a " 1 f I X lfX ASK t good listener. eA boy who is worried V xJm f J I ' t 5 about what to say may wind up say- f , rJki I T ' '" 3 ing nothing at all.This can be avoided vrfJyyvV'il V I L-J J ' 'mP'y remember that ha 1 U Yks A ryJS doesn't have to do all of the talking. V " -rs- j ' iJhe cannot think of something to I j 11 jr"ns -pwl " say, he can ask a question and then 1 ,1 i ?- yyfi j- 2 r listen. Chances are that he will bt into an interesting conversation be- A teenage boy asks: "How does like to take you to the next dance, fore he realizes what has happened. a boy go about getting a date with Will you go with meV The second- Being a good conversationalist a girl and how does he make in- oelt way (, t0 decide exactly what to s easy. Just be yourself, and don't teresting conversation?" My rehearse it lilently several times, hesitate to talk about the things It is a good and important sign then my it at the firtt oppoHun, timt. that interest you l But be sure hat when a boy realizes that he is "bash- AM ' w or B date it Ukt lwim. y on talk too much and that ... , . - t. l . , 1 nsKmg a iftri t b uuiv m you are interested enough to ask ful or shy. Once he ha. this real- ming or riding 0 bicycle... it be- about the other person's likes and ization, it becomes easier to over- comel easier and easier with practice, dislikes and courteous enough to come this shyness. The first thing he 0ur SUggestion: don't hesitate, listen attentively. should do is make up hit mind to ask ast for the date. Nearly every girl tr yM hVe tnf problem r for the date. The easiest way to do jn the world considers it a compli- ".ddrVsV' AVum'u" "or this is simply to walk right up to the ment just to be asked for a date, and aboi7vtnAGApeb ''ssav young lady and soy, "Carol, would Making conversation with a girl feVrsi&QBi!. |