Show I i tiff n BY 7 DAUGHTER EXPECTS TOO MUCH Dear Amy My died 6 5 yens years ago leaving me with a 13 year old daughter My other three children were married One year ago Ire I re married and my single daughter now 18 is living giving me trouble She finished high school a year ago and enrolled in a business college She also has a job which pays for her tuition but lives at atour our house not contributing one penny for room or board I also give her carfare and lunches so that she can save her money for future tuition fees Now she wants to move to an apartment with a girlfriend who will pay the rent but she wants u to continue giving her board money stoney and more or less support all aU her needs and expenses This I refuse to dol doh She also wants me meto to to divide the money I received for selling my own home borne among my four children naturally In eluding herself since I have a alIew anew new lIew husband who can continue to support me My daughter is welcome to live with us the way she has been not lIot lifting a linger finger nor costing her a penny I worked hard rals rais lag Ing and pleasing them aU all No one ever handed me thousands of dollars Are aU all my kids entitled to all I worked for because I remarried Its It's all in their name Dame U ii I should clie die but Id I'd like to have my money for our keep when we are old and not have to depend on my children A Distraught Mother Dear Mother When a son loa or r daughter attends college and must work to pay their tuition fees they need all the help they can get Continue to help her while she lives under uder your oar roof and suggest that she pitch In with the housework occa atonally But for her to expect Ton oa to her apartment or orto to share hare in the money moner from from the tale Ie of f your roar home Is unwarranted ud and not for her to decide I think Tour JOur piano plana are wise wile Do not alter Deai Amy Amr D aU all Women take back what ever eTer you buy them U If they ther do toy wife would win first prize Sh Is II the orld worlds world's greatest take backer I rave gave up bp buying her ber lifts so 10 now I 1 give her cash but anyone 11 else ebe buys her she cant can't wait till she Ibe can u ex change it t I carve caNe to thE sion that she enjoys knocking herself out What do you ou think Carl Dear Carl I 1 agree Women who have chronic exchange itis believe that whatever you can buy I can buy better Let Id her alone She She's having a wonderful time The day clay they start an exchange counter for husbands Is when you have cause for alarm I S Dear Amy For someone who digs the Beatles you ou should learn how to spell their name Shame on you A Beatle Fan Dear Fan OOPS Row right you are I just didn't dig them deep enough S e e eDear Dear Amy I left home and got married when I was 15 I am now 19 and about three months ago my husband left me with three small children to support I am unable to support my children because I lost a leg In a recent accident and andam andam am unable to work My physician has asked me to marry him and I feel he is the theone theone one for me 1 My ly husband has called and demanded the children I Ilove Ilove love my children and do not want to part with them I feel that my physician would make an excellent father for my children although he it is 39 years older than I lie said he would divorce his wife to marry malT me What am I to do Totally up Dear Mixed up Mixed up You have a serious problem I hut but this does doel not give you the right to create problems for others others blow can CaD you knowingly let leta leta a man maD break up his family and home for you 1 0 so 10 that you can selfishly live with your children in inthe inthe the lap of luxury when you know you ou dont don't love him Let Lei your e conscience be your guide In my dear Before you 1011 return to your physicians physician's office visit flaU your oar clergyman's office Address an all letters lettell to AMY ADAMS o e TillS THIS NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose a stamped addressed envelope |