Show I JO a aE mr BY AMY ADAMS FIRST COME FIRST SERVED I Dear Amy When we were sm small U we had hadan an aunt who never would buy anything our school was vas selling She wouldn't even take a penny chance hance on a raffle rame no matter who it helped Ten years ago this aunt married and now has children at at- at attending tending Ute the sa same me school we did but she sings a different tune lune now Her children are coming over all the time selling one thing or an an- an another other and we told Mom not to buy any tickets or what evet they are selling She says its it's not right to blame the children for their moth moUt mother's ers er's faults The thing Is there are more aunts and uncles now and she still wont won't buy anything from rom th their children Now her boy has been trying to sell 11 us a subscription to a maga zinc and we told Mom to get it from one of the others as It would still be In the family amily But Dut he made sure he asked my Mom before any of the others had a chance A feW eW minutes after he asked some of the others asked so I told her Id I'd tell you about it and we would let you decide Sam Dear Sarr Sant San San- t Moms Mom's right come first served sll S Dear Am Amy Ive I've been married 9 years ears M My wife wiCe and I have a problem that has virtually destroyed our mar mal She Is of the opinion that itis it itI I is morally right to carryon carry on friendships with various men She sa says s 's she dos do's does not like women friends although she has several She has her male friends calling her day and night nigh She has gone out with one that I know of She says it Is all right because he Is different Iv Ive I've offered to take lake her out but she refuses 1 then told her that if she wants to LO go out she should d go out with her girlfriends She claims Im I'm old lId fashioned and that no DO one does that any more She says that she wouldn't bl be seen ou out dead with a woman and that if I love her I should trust her Id I'd like to save our manage mariage What should I do Mad and Confused Confused Dear Mad and Confused Your You wife's reasons for her ac Lions are are as s sick as she Is Get Gether Gether her to your family doctor and to toa a psychiatrist She seeds needs all the help she can get and so do you it If you ou want to continue your marriage on an even keel Dont Don't put up with her nonsense any longer Only trust her In the hands of a physician e eDear Dear Amy I am a girl of 15 not married I had been dating a boy of 18 not married I love him very much and he said ho he loved met me metA A week ago he was married to one of my best friends Three days ago I found out that I was pregnant I dont don't know what to do I dont don't want to take him away from his wile wife but I have no financial sup port and when my mother found out my my condition she kicked me out I presently am living with my girlfriend She said I 1 could stay there a couple of weeks but after that I 1 would have to leave What can I do A Mixed Up Kid Dear Mixed Up Send me your name and ad ad- ad address dress and Ill I'll put you to In touch with a home for unwed mothers S D Dear Amy I have a problem which is too large for Cor me to handle alone and andI I have no one to ask for help I am a married woman and have 3 boys l I have a good husband but buthe buthe he doesn't have time to talk to tome tome me or to take me anyplace I was very lonely for companionship so soI I went out alone and I met a man who is so wonderful that we fell fellIn fellIn In love lIe Ile Is 28 and Im I'm 37 But Dut ButI I love my husband too I dont don't want ant to leave my husband and boys but I just cant can't give up this boy Ile He Is so muCh fun un and a great lover I am just plain wor vied ried sick over the whole thing I want to be with this boy all the time lIe Ile says give lip up my boys and husband and come to him as his wife What shall I do A Lonely LOlley Married Woman Dear Deu Lonely If your lover wants you without your children and you are con side ring his offer then you de- de deserve de serve each other On the other hand band If you devoted as much much time and and energy to your husband as as you give ghe to this toy boy you wouldn't be a Lonely Married I Woman yoman TIle The bonds of matrimony are are useless unless the Interest Is kept up A 1 Please address all letters to AMY ADAMS t o do TillS THIS NEWSPAPER a a For a personal reply enclose stamped self addressed envelope |