Show t SY AMY ADAMS HER P PROBLEM IS IN HER THINKING Deer Dear Any Amy I have been happily married for tor 23 years I love my husband and be loves me I 1 shouldn't have a worry in the world but here ismy is my problem I am SO 50 years old ld and my husband is 46 All of a sudden I am afraid of the differ ence in our ages When he is ready to retire at 65 I will b be 69 I am worried I 1 wont woot be able to take care of him Do I have a problem or am I creating one Sometimes I think I should get geta a divorce but I have no reason except the one I told you about Am I 1 being silly We have no children Mrs AG near Dear Mrs AG It amazes amazed me how people ere ate problems where none exist Of course youre you're being silly But If you want to make yourself sick worrying what's going to happen 15 years from now go ahead Then your husband will have the problem of wondering how to take care of YOU Dear Amy Ive I've been wondering what I should hould do when a boy says some thing like lIello Bello beautiful or Ill III gorgeous Should I blush say thank you or what what Nancy Naner Dear Nancy Its It's a compliment you dont don't say thank you for If you ym like It blush and if you want It repeated say What Dear Am Amy mother law who I have a never seemed to care for me She lives very near and never even visits us If she walks into my place or of business she acts as asif asif if she doesn't see me at all I have been married to her son for 30 years We have two children and she never acts like she cares anything about them either Iv Ive I've never given her any any reason to think ill or of me met no bad habits bad character nor anything wrong at all to cause her to be this way Ive I've worked hard In my home and business to help my husband and school our children So now Amy what would you do o she comes around 1 always speak to her and ask her herin herin in but she never says anything Should I go do n treating her hel kindly or r what This is hard for me to endure A Tired Lady Dear Lady Continue to treat her kindly If you have been enduring her for thirty years ears you should be used to her b by now Dear Amy has lias it occurred to An Irate Irah Mother that If there had been no liquor cabinet with its ita I supply of whiskey the young folks would not have been tempted Idly edly the son knew the Ule whiskey was not for him and knew that it was wrong to steal But young folks seeing their theil par cots drink and serving liquor to their friends naturally assume that that Is the thing to do When the parents learn to ab stain the children can be ex exported ported to refrain also Your sug i that the son should d ex plain to the other parents well made II Cuzner I Dear Amy I IDear I am very much disturbed about the 17 year old young man who got into his folks folk's liquor cabinet I with his friends What's good for forthe the goose is good for the gander The parents are only reaping what they have sown I am well on my way to the nineties and haw have never had a liquor cabinet in In ny life and my folks never did either I know my children dont don't have an aD in their homes and I reel feel sure that that the same applies to the grand and great grandchildren grand In spite of aU all that is being said and written about the liquor business it doesn't seem sem to sink in It any apologies are r due they Uley should come from flom the theother theother other side Sorry Dear Sorry You are entitled to your our Ion However I disagree Where liquor Is stored Is of no conse conce quence There are few homes bomes to onI day that do not have liquor on I hand for special ons The young set should be taught If if they dont don't already know It Is not theirs to use or lr consume As It Is they are too spirited I Please address all letters to AMY ADAMS o c eo TIllS THIS NEWSPAPER For a personal reply enclose a stamped sell addressed envelope |