Show I BY AMY ADAMS I PARENTS SHOULDN'T BE PARTIAL Dear Amy My brother has diabetes and liDd he gets all the attention around our house U if I do something bad say my parents kill me U 11 he does docs some some- something thing had bad he Is told not to do it again I asked the doctor if lie he could be spanked if 1 hes he's bad and the doctor said yes But my any par par- parents parents wouldn't dare spank him When I ask a question they dont don't bother answering but when he be asks they answer quickly When When- Whenever ever they talk his name Is always mentioned U II I become sick they just send me I upstairs to bed and dont don't think about sue me how lIow can I get them to know Im I'm alive Im I'm 11 years old Ronald Pear Dear Ronald Your brother has an incurable disease Doot Dont envy him II If he be misbehaves he should be in the same sanse manner as you are Your parents know youre you're alive Uve and you tan can bet your best baseball bat they love you as much as they love Will him They may have a peculiar way of showing it sometImes but I wish you would tail teU theta them of 01 your feelings just as you have told me Dear Amy My doctor just told me I have one year to live K I have no lions of felling my family or friends I have been so close to tomy tomy my mother Im I'm 23 that I cant can't bear to tell her I dont don't date I dont don't go out at on all It might happen and Im I'm afraid to todie todie die I know I am a big girl but when I go to bed I wonder if it will be bethe bethe the last time Ill I'll see my mother dad and my little sister and broth broth- er I love them so much My mother keeps asking me what's wrong and what did the doctor say I But I 1 cant can't tell her ber I 1 cry when I have an argument with her and I try to snake make It up She SheI I asks me why I 1 dunt dont go out and have a good time but I dont don't an an- an answer her What can I 1 say Sal CAW Dear CAW V No one Is is big enough to share this burden alone loll Jell your lam fans fly ily dear and then get another doctors doctor's opinion have ha been known to make mistakes In i hing a patients patient's they Ills e only human Dont Don't glee give up UPi I Yea Yu seed Deed all the help you can get getGood Good lurk luck and God Bless You Tou see Dear Amy For 10 years I have been won won- wondering dering whether say my marriage Is legal Here are the facts We were married Aug 3 1963 in a Method Methodist Church by a minister There were no witnesses present and none are listed where it states witnesses on the minister gave us us We have three children ages ranging 6 4 Please put my mind at ease Mrs lILT MT Dear Sirs MT inclined to think your mar mar- Is legal regardless of the fact that there were no iso witnesses Write to the Bureau of Vital Sta in the city where you wee werf married and request a ropy copy I your marriage certificate If 11 Ii h legal Its It's on record C S S Dear Amy Im I'm 16 years old and my parents still dont don't give me a substantial allowance I receive a dollar a week just like my little sister I asked around and most of girlfriends all receive at least five dollars and my older sister told me that when she was fourteen Dad started giving her five a week My parents are both working and have good jobs and certainly can afford to raise my allowance besides I do quite a bit of house work at home and I think Im I'm en en- en entitled titled to the money Please help roe me because every time I ask my parents they have havea a 1 reason for lor not giving It to me mc and the reasons are all Use Ule same No Money Dear No Money Ioney One Olle dollar In my opinion is islar far lar irons Irom adequate to cover tover a girls girl's personal expenses for II a week If she is to pay for them I suggest you itemize your needs In dollars and tents cents and show theta them to your mont mom and dad If their reasons for lor not raising you OU are more morl valid aUd than your needs Id I'd like hue to know what hat they are S SC 1 ase address all letters to AMY iMY ADAMS 18 o c do TillS 1118 For a personal reply enclose a stamped self addressed elope en |