Show J BY aY AMY AMY AD ADAMS 7 SHE WAITS ON HIM HAND AND FOOT Dear Amy I have a large family 9 1 children and my husband I do what I un can for all of the then but my husband seems to 1 have to do is i walt wait on him hand and and foot I have to serve him all of his hil mule meala in the livi living R room or he wont won't eat and I have to serve his breakfast in bl bed l When he gets gels home from work at night he lies on the couch and doesn't get up until its time timeto timeto to go to bed If he wants a glass of water or wants the TV turned to another channel he be caU calls for forme forme me to do it 1 11 dy baby Is 4 weeks old and reo re- requires quires as well as the others a lot lotof lotof of my time I just cant can't ant keep this up much longer I dont don't yet et to bed bedat bedat at night until 12 or 1 o'clock and andI J I have up at seven J I sin am worried that I will have a nervous breakdown if this keeps keep up much longer I cant can't even get out of the house bouse to go visiting for foran foran an hour bour or so because he be say says Jm Im goIng to visit a boyfriend What would you suggest J I do Worried fear Dear Worried I Your our husband is II spoiled lazy and Inconsiderate And your our eaten cater Ing to him has made him worse Iut the shoe on en the other foot and let him cater to you In the evening Job wha whatever it is Is childs child's play compared to yours II If he rebels to il the change g get t thim him to a doctor before you land there lie is III suffering from an anover over indulged and an anover over overactive Imagination I Dear Drar Amy lily My girlfriends and I are single and we were discussing the facts of life We are 17 18 1 and 19 We covered Just about every every- everything thing that we know and all that we have read about including sex Surely sex cant can't be everything in n marriage What comes alter after sex J P and E Dear J P F and E Seven enl Dear Amy My daughter lives in an old neighborhood surrounded by ec ec- ec eccentric centric old Id women To all appearances she Is a rather young lady but only on the surface Actually she Is plagued by a series aeries of chronic illnesses and cannot keep up the last fast pace of these elderly ladles They criticize scold whiz per and snicker about her She's clean neat and hasn't a lazy bone in her body These ladles go out in theIr robes about six in the morning and dig prune water ater cultivate and gossip in their yards yard My daughter Js ja quite miserable because she has to put up with these characters character Frankly I feel there Is so much to do in ones one's own yard that there I is no time to criticize others flow 1 does one answer these fanatics D J B Dear D J D B They TIley are not to be answered Your daughter would be healthier and happier U If she ahe Ignored them and tended to her own affairs Then they will realize they are barking up the wrong tree and look for another This hen party should be persuaded to put their free time into a more fruitful en Dear Amy I 1 am sixteen and still In in school My husband Is eighteen and we weare weare are secretly married Yesterday I found out that J I am pregnant My parents are down right mean and his parents arent aren't the best to get along ak ng with either Now to get down to the main problem The child does docs not be be- be belong long to my husband Who should I speak to first my parents the actual father or my husband Student Mother Dear Student Talk to Ask yourself why you got Into this mess In the fIrst place Then tell your parents If your husband Is willing to stick by you I hope he h is able to tomake tomake make a decent respectable woman out or of you All you have accomplished by your actions Is bringing grief and unhappiness to those who ho love you Please address aU all letters to AMY ADAMS o c TillS I IFor For a personal reply enclose a tamped stamped self addressed envelope |