Show 61 t f BY AMY ADAMS r l J Ji tJ THEIR Oft IS AT HOME Dear AnlY Amy I have something to say and If this little say ay Is not said I will cry or something b bad ad will happen I am 13 years old and my little brother is 9 My mother and father have been married 19 years My father tells my mother that he has a son on by another woman The They have a war every Friday night For Christmas he gave tile the boy a present and gave the woman lie He gave my little brother a 1300 present and m my mother mothr Mother says that she doesn't want to get a divorce and break breakup breakup up our home Please helps hell lIe He gets drunk every Friday night and her r hl Is what he talks about Lost Out Dear Lost Out Jt's ILs too bad that our family Is subjected to this war war every Friday n night Ig h t but your needs help Urge your mother to enlist the aid uld of your clergyman and n a m of your local chapter of oC Alcoholics Antny Anon moue With the proper help and ond your dads dad's cooperation he can enn resolve his personal and peace will rel reign n In Ybur home bome 0 once n c e emore more Good luck luckl 55 Dear Amy I am a sponsor or er to a boy who Is going to be 19 this month graduate In June I have given him A gift for his to his el eighteenth and also a Christmas gift every year Including the past year I am am now wondering when does docs the givIng gift stop I have children of my own and as they are getting older they need so many things that sometimes I feel fed I cant can't afford these ex extra tr a gifts This young boy was confirmed at age 14 1 gave him a cash gift at that time and someone once told me that stopped after the person was con con- confirmed firmed Your opinion on the above matter please Mrs L J It Dear Mrs L Kt You were never obligated to give the young mon man gifts The only gift expected from you was wasat wasat at his birth birds Godparents are to oversee the spiritual education of oC the Ule g godchild up t to his hlA confirma- confirma confirmation Uon tion At this time Ume In his life re- re remain re main his l friend confidant and advIsor Dear Amy I heard that your birthday Is Ison ison on May and will willbe willbe be 80 years years old Is that t at true Just sign nhe Ine Curious Dear Curious I should live JIve so 80 long You have the birth date right Now divide by two then add two Dear Amy Im I'm 28 years old have been happily married for 10 years I Ilove love tny my husband and like to be beloved loved but I 1 think my husband Is takIng of ou our r mar mar- marriage lIcense by being overly affectionate af- af fl The minute supper lupper is II over he wants to make love Iove We alread already have seVen chU cht dren and Lm Im about reedy re to go out or of my mind Would you lug lug- augest est that he get psychiatric help Going Nuts Dear Going Nuts Your husband doesn't nerd need a but if you ou taking advantage and and t If your family Is completed you should both vl visit lt the Planned Parenthood Center In your youl community In aU all the years I have been writing this column I have yet yetto to 10 hear a wife complain about an over affectionate spouse spouse- Dear Amy N Next month my hl high h scho school l graduating class dass of 1958 Is h hing Ing Its first reunion I have been Invited L LI I d since I never at at- at attended tended before I dont don't kr v quite what to do or expect Do you Mr Paul laul Dear Mr Paul Its It's where memories are re- re revived revived by those who survived w e Address all letters for tOI AMY ADAMS d cLo o TillS THIS NEWSPAPER F Fur r n a personal reply enclose a stamped self addressed envelope l |