Show BY AMY ADAMS J f NOT COFFEE MATES D Dear ar Amy For 21 years I have been hap hap- happily to a wonderful man mun lie He is u n good provider prO for nw me und and our five stron strong sons und and he has built a beautiful house for us he Is not at work he is always at home fixing thin things s around the house so that every every- thing everything is in good repair Once In a while he sits in his green chair and reads but I dont don't mind that Hut But Amy there Is one thing that ts Is gelling me down Every evening w when hen we have ha finished eating supper and I am about ready y to get up to make COff coffee t for us he sn says s 's No No coffee coffre huh I have played along with his little game for 21 years but it is bc beginning to bother me I have asked him to stop but he says he cant can't stop now because it has become a family tradition lie He Is such a tease about this that I dont don't know what to do t would you do Patient la Housewife What makes you think your husband Is playing Either he doesn't t scant or lie he doesn't like yours your's Stol Slop being a 11 nudge If he wants ants coffee coff hell he'll ask tI for It iI e e Dear Amy Im I'm only 14 and In life I plan to be a nun I thought about it very much und and I know Its It's what I want Jut hut if I 1 tool hili my parents or my my friends they would all make fun of nie me My Kly moth m n lb e r probably r wouldn't let me out of her sl sight ht because shed she'd think Im I'm holy All the bO boys 8 would laugh too Do you think its it's right to let everyone know or should I just say Im I'm not sure of what I want to be just yet Nun to Dear Nun be Your desire to become a 11 nun nunIs nunIs Is commendable If your family and friends laugh it would reveal their decided ignorance Tell them If you wish and Ignore the con CO s nut keep in mind that young People often change their minds about their future us liS they grow older C r t Dear Amy You naked for possible lions to the problem unsolicited of mall mail and here are which have been blen successful to some extent we get mall mail addressed to or Occupant and there Is an enclosure to be returned post paid after completing com com- completing we simply complete the enclosure sign it or Occupant as the case may be and give the add address l e as Just Springfield Ore Many of our neighbors do the same and It has helped for we arent aren't receiving as much of the junk variety any anymore anymore more Another method which Is a asure asure sure cure I was forced to use after my brother passed away a afew afew few years egos When hen such mall came for him I simply wrote Deceased and placed It hack back In Inthe inthe the mailbox if f there was no re- re return return turn address I removed the en- en enclosed enclosed closed return addressed enclosure ure and put his name and address on onIt onit It with the same word beside It lt It really worked for It wasn't more than a month or two before all such mail stopped Perhaps someone can think up upa upa a word that could be used that be just as effective One might try moved or unknown AJL I a Springfield Ore C e C Dear Amy Since her marriage about 3 years ago I have been sending l a Christmas card to my and her husband for which we never receive one In return Should I keep sending one as asI asI I do all my nieces and nephews or should 1 eliminate her Puzzled Dear Puzzled One should never send senda n a card with the Idea Iden of receiving one In return If you are fond or of you your nitre niece and nephew continue to remember them with n a card in inthe inthe the true spirit or of the h holiday 0 II d n y season Young people at times limes are thou thoughtless but nil as they grow older they do change C C M MAddress Address all letters to tot AMY ADAMS o c TillS APER I For or a 1 personal reply enclose It a stamped self addressed envelope |