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Show . athleen Kathleen ( Norris Says : Y YOil You Oil Should Spoil Your FamilyBell Family (8f 8f ( Bell > 11 Syndlcato--WNU Syndlcato WNU Syndtcate-WNU Syndtcate - - Servke Service ) I IH'L : H'L HL H'L,3r ' ,3r 3r , " I It ) t t tt t I t I ; zA : : k kt ka IL t a 1 Ii IiR R . . I 'a a ' , , * il _ _ _ _ _ I % , _ _ \ _ _ 1I 1IS 1I4 S { \ \ ik , _ _ 4 _ _ _ _ I4w frI I H 4 4fr fr frH A 4 Awie 4sda . wi/e wi e sd/a sd a / cold gold coldme goldas me as . O once rAGa that when wham her 'u"band uband huiband 'u"band.lIld huibandaaid ' " .lIld lIld aaid . 0 to & lie her , early in .heir heir gIsmir . ntGrried nsarriad ntGrriedIlf nsarriadlife Ilf life . . , I , In.v ne"er neer n.v nv . " laCJll'd laCJlld heard ( ' you .ay ay say . a chell ch.ap chap . ' or mean thing , hin , .boul boul thoui . anyon anyone . . , . .h h ike . _ mad made . up uplutr upII.t lutr II.t IIt . mind cIa I Uses h he . never , ieve , would _ 14 By B aiy , KATHLEEN NORRISDo NORRISD NORRISspoil NORRIS 0 YOU spoil poll your fam fam- family fam- fam famfly family - - Do D ily fly 1 ? You should Theseare Theseare These ' are terribi terrlb terrible Ie * times timeswhen timeswhen timeswhen when we need everything tha that thatlove thatlove t tlove love can do for us , . we need to tohold tohold tohold hold on to love , to go on be believing belleving believing lieving lleving in it And xpoiling spoiling islove isloveLove is islove islove love loveLove Love fulfill fulfills * the law It is all allthat allthat allthat that human heart hearts ! need Aman A Aman Aman man may be rich , popular popularyoung , young , successful But if hiswife his hiswife hiswife wife doesn't doesnt ' love him he .an't .ant ant can't cant can'tpossibly < . can'tpossibly cantpossibly .an'tpossibly ' possibly be a happy man He Hemay Hemay Hemay may think he can wip wi win to happiness hap happmess happiness pmess piness by divorcing nis his 'his ' Wife Wifemakmg wifemaking wifemaking makmg making a highly sa tisfactory satisfactory satisfactoryarrangement satisfactoryarrangement tisfactoryarrangement arrangement for his children childrenfinding , findmg finding a more affectIOnate affectIOnatewoman affectionatewoman affectionatewoman woman But nine times out of often often often ten he marries exactly thesame the thesame thesame same type of woman , just as ascold ascold ascold cold coldand and calculating as the thefirst thefirst thefl-t thefl t first - * So that doesn't doesnt ' work Another man may be poor He Ift Hemay Iftmay Hemay may not be a great tucceaa success aucceu In bus busaea busl buslDess ! ) Dess iess * Other men may be b .tepped tepped stepped steppedup . iteppedup .teppedup up over bls his hl head bead and there may be bedoctors bedoctors bedoctor doctors * billa bill * , aa4 and flilal dl1al flhlal obligationaalways oblliatlons obligationa oblliatlonsalway obligationalways * alway always . ready to t * jeopardize the budgat budi budg budit budge e at t But It If In ifl his mU little hour bouse house there is isabundance isabundance laabundance abundance of loving lovin , chUdrea cblldren children rac eec eeclag racIn racing In lag , to meet him blm aa aD an old mother moth.r mothr . smU amil smUlog amiltng millaf log tng , as a * she * he puts put * the foru forks fork * an and ani " llalses glasses llalseson glasseson glaseon * * on the upper supper eupper table , a sweet weet aweet woman womanturning womanturning womanturning turning from trom the gas { a * atove itove tove for his hisbomecomlng hishomecoming hl hlkoniecomtng koniecomtng bomecomlng homecoming kiss that man I il is * rich richMuat richMua richMust Muat Mua Must . Be De lie Preaene Preserved PreservedI.ove rrea rve rveLove Love I.ove Iove . Is I * no accieent accident . . It li is life Ufe II 5 IImexhaustlble 5inexhaustible inexhaustible mexhaustlble miracle But It has hasto hasto ha hato to be preserved . , held beld aacred lacred sacred When Whena a woman regard regards * . her bet marriage .s s as asmerely . amerely .smerely * merely a springboard Ipringboard to social loclal suc succelIS succes uccess celIS ces , clothe clothes * entertainment . , fllrta flirta fllrtaUonssham flirtalionssham flirtaUons Uons-sham Uons sham lions-sham lions - sham Is fa La the ham sham gold laid Ihe she Ihepays shepays hepay pays tor for her Improved position poslUon But Butwhen Butwhen Butwhen when It is real marriage when the thewile thewile thewife wile feel feo1 feo1l1 * that . . having chosen chehas she shehas shehas has scaled sealed her fate tate che she ahe puts puis real reallove reallove reallove love Into it And the difference difTerence is isU Isit IsU U it at between the polei polee pole poleeSpoiling poleiSpoiling ! Spoiling his family means for a an ait an n it an sometime sometimes * to consider their theirp theirlx theirp p lx < < inl lnt mt of view to try to put himselfinto hlmselt hlmseltInto blmaei blmaeiinto Into his wife s a place into his hi * chll chil chlldren children children dren s a pia places res and ana think of what whatthey whatthey whatthey they want from him blm whatould what \\ould ould toud toudmake \ wouldmake ouldmake ) make them happy bappy Instead of mere mere- merely mere1y merely - - ly 1y bovinf shovmg shoving hi bit hb , hand into his hi * pocketand pocket pocketand pocketand and giving hei hel bet some 'ome ome come ! ' money let lethim lethim lethim him add a UUle Utile little &ympalhel ympalhel ympa\.hf't ympa.hft ympa .hf't hft sysnpathet & \ . ' c Inter Interest intereat Intereat est eat to the money Just sayingDon sayingDon saying sayingDon Don t you get awfully tired cater caterIng caterjog catering Ing jog to us Mhry Mhr ) ' or Inotice I notice oollce Mum Mummy Mumtoy Mummy my toy i Isn ian n t gett i 1 s f g much muchut ut of thatfor that thatfor thatfor for herself hersell ' will make makc ht hi h r t 1 ( ' cart 'art art c-art c - fly flj flyup fljup flyup up like IlkI ' a birdA bird btrd birdA btrdA A . wife told me 01cc 01 or ce that vhen vhenber vhenher vhenher ber her husband husbnnri laid said t h r ' earlv t'arlv tarlv early n ntheir ntheir ntheir their married marrll"d marrlld " life I rver i r ver hesrd hesrdyou hea heardyou rd rdyou you say ay a cheap or me men mein . ! in thli lhir thug thugabout gabout g gabout about anyone darliny darling . she 1.he 1he qUietly quieUy qUietlymade quieUymade quietlymade made up her 20-yenr 20 yenr 2O-yel1r 2O yel1r 20-year year - - - old mil ml1 mis (1 1 d ( thai that thaibe thathe thathe be he never would To t I 1 a ave ase e Dad Oad take lakea takea a tender Interest tnterest In tn a 8 sn SIT all ull b byhomework : ) s a * shomework ahomework homework or oz say ay syn syrs ath 8th t rally rallyWhat rallyWhat rallyWhat What can I do to in kfp kLCI kic1 ( yo yoj i J fro frii friiworrying froworrying > worrying about th-il th il thdt that - Mui Mur m my , ' ' ' Is Isto isto isto to insure happiness happmess to ne Wi . a aanyway aanyway aanyway aanywayAvid anyway anywayAvoid anywayAvoid Avid Avoid Lamt'ntaUoD5 LamtntaUoD5 Lamentations Lamt'ntaUoD5The LamentationsThe Lament ' t ) rsThe ) The wife wile s a job of spoiln spolill poilii g.he g the \.he .he \ . fanUy fan fanily fanfly ily fly mean nleans means * only being kind kmd kuid Not Notnervous Notnervous Notnervous nervous not critical , , , not Dol eager to toretaU toretail toretail retaU retail all the bad depressini depressing fright frightwing frightexting frightening wing exting new Dews news possible poa.1b\41 poa.1b41 poa.1b poa1b 41 . \ a at t the end ot of otthe ofthe efthe the day but bJlt , lookinf lookln.l looklnl Iookizg . serenely aheadf ahead aheadto aheadto to better times Urnes , . , aad and uaafralel unafraid to go goforward goforward gotonvarl forward It ft Is ! an absolute ah lute dut duty , for forua forus terua ua us all aU te to ratraia retrain refrain from lamentationa lamentations lamentationaaad lametitatleaaa aad . .nd nd . Tala yafn vain regreta recreta regrets new DOW te to keep k"p kp " u- u up upour upour uur - our ur fcearta ftearti earb , . Dot not B t to cry cr , until untiJ we'rebutt we're were we'reburl we'relurt werelurt ' burl butt . . WE , IE ( NEED LOVE NOW NOW1 NOW1With NOWWtth W WItla With Itla the , lae world worldapparently apparently apparentlygOing apparentlygotng uppmrentlygoing gOing gotng to 10 pieces aroundu aroundus wound around us u . , wneed we weneed weneed need low love now mor more thun than , han ever everAnd everAnd everAnd And Kathleen Kahleen , Norrts Norris Norr . bfheves believe bv'lieves bvlieves bv'lievesthat bfhevesjust ' . that , hat "Jpollang Jpollang "spoiling spoiling " ' " . your youramtly family /amtly amtly familyJwt / amtlyJust just Jwt mea mfns means , . loving them . , gltJ gsv gltJIng gsving fWmf Ing Ingthem ingIscm , them I/scm I scm / J a ( little more ratherthan r rather ratherhan therthw han than , I a ( little less le.u leu . attentIOnthan attentionthan attention attentionfive than necenary necessary . , and trYing to togive togive five give " them .em em . wh what t they f/say f say theywant / wnt want notwhat not notwhat notwhat what you tvunt want them to uantNo < uant uantNo ant antNo No one ran can be bp really happy happyw.thout happywithout happywithout w.thout wthout without . love and the thp poor poorman poorman poorman man who hai IWI has an fin adorlnK adoring adorlnKf adoringitsi dorin uif its/i its i uifn f ( itsiI r Ie Ien / < I n ; fmr lar jar richer r'her rher rieher . ( ' than the man n1lm nsnis 01 of 01me(1lU ofmean.s ofmewts I me(1lU me1lU mean.s means me(1lU101f ( . it/tow it tow . t/io t io /101f 101f / < c ' uife < lIe rvpnrds re/ards re ards regards / { 'If'r Ifr her hernsarrinp hermarring 'If'rn.arTlf ' ' n.arTlf narTlf nsarrinp . ) c to fit him h.n hn . . m mf ryts r Ff ri < 'y y ly ( ' y a a1 ' asteppinK a ash'pplng astepping sh'pplng shpplng stepping steppingstone ' stone IImlP to social lorwl sorb1 lorwlsue sorb1SOC sue SOC sueCPIS SOCcess suecess CPIS cess And the tlae 1110 happy Fsappy happyman Fsappymon man mon or orwoman orwoman orwoman I woman is prepared prf'parrcl prfparrcl prejiared ' to fare larf face ' an anunCf'r'a.n anuncertain anuncertain unCf'r'a.n unCfra.n unCfran uncertain ' ' . future > tilth u Itla ith the ths thehope thshops th thhope < hope hops ' andcourar andeohirags anil and roiirafe coura/r coura r eohirags / { ' that onlylove only onlylove onlylove love ran can canH /H H girt / { IK e tlu tlii t/i t i / m rn Here Is a letter Ictter that may havesuggest have a asuggcst isuxfiesti suggcst suggest ! ) n in it ( for or some wivis wivLS It Itcomes I IComes Icome comes * from a Chicago husband he heI hi hiIs hiI I Is * . 40 the wife wile two years younger youngerth youngerthey younferthey th they y have two small boysMarie boysMarie boys boysMarle Marle Marie la Is Ia a flne fine flneook -ook ook LOOk , - > - and a good goodmanager goo goomanager eo eomanacer < manacer manager he writes and we own ows ownour owsour ov.our ovour . . . our small home The boya boys fo go to topublic tt ttpublic tcpublic public school .chool chool . we can pay our bills billsand billsand billsand and theufh thGtugh though my wife 18 Is I * pretty much muck muchof muckof muchof of a home bome borne body we do coax her out outto ou outo oulto to picnic picnics * or Dr movies now and then thenBut thenBut thenBut But she he a s I so 10 50 darned b-1 b 1 b-l l b-I I - - - u at e I ! And I Idon I Idon 1don don t I know what to do about itShe itShe it itShe She ilta sits site silent at the table sometime some sometimes sometimes times * sicnLnx sighing Or If II ahe she abe quotes a aheadline a abeadlIne aheadline beadlIne headline It it's its ' ' . always a depressincone depresslnione depresslni depressint depressintone one When she he sends ends the boys of off ! to tc toschool tcschool toschool school she site aays says ay Jim Is Just ju.t jut . like herfather her herfather herfather father completely Irresponsible and andthat andthat andthat that she hope hopea * . Ned lan Ian isa t starting startinganother atartin atartinanother startinxanother another cold The Brown s I a are los losing losing losln ing < their lovely place they think thinkwhal thinkwhat thinkwhat whal what Anna has Is cancer it looks as asif asif 11 if Harry and arid Margaret were going ( oint to toget toget toft get a divorce divorceCustomarily divorceCustomarily divorceCustomarily Customarily my toy wife wLle wile begins bl'glns blglns ' the theday theday theday day on a I ng n < troan groan Wt WI Ie le I m mhalf mhalf mhalf half asleep I hear her hcr Oh dear dearTuesday dearTuesday dearTuesday Tuesday acain agalnl again ! ! I oufht ought to see Ma Mabel Mabe Mabel bel be ) she he s a been home a week Oh Ohdear Ohdear Ohdear dear that means we ought to nskthem ak ask akthem askthem . , them here and the rug rui ; isn t lick lickYou t 1 ick ickYou > ckYou You never can trust those p prut pioileOh { o Ie Ic IeOh IcOh Oh rain again No wonder the thl ' childress chll chil chlldren children dren dress get colds Now I J suppose suppos ! ' cggs eggs cggswill eggswill eyeswill will 10 go up I hate and despise th ssort 5 s 5sort ssort sort of ot a day I m afraid you rt . r < - x g g- g gIng ) - > - ing tog to have a is stu Mul tuild Id birtt blrt birti ! 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Tealb breath talIJn taJkinf taking . deUght delight deUghtand delightand dellxhtaaal and tae the power wr aiul and opportunity to toserve tosalva toserve serve sal-va sal va - one ne s i own beloved ones an anlII1endInar ananendlng anuaenellac lII1endInar anendlng jey joy oy |