Show tho domestic journal many men iron in selecting a wife only view her as ai their esseling nature utaro mug not ua ike a loving anki bil helpful oom com pao p 1 voice should filio alil hare an equal influence in the family circle but only onit RA a blizil subject to bo be molded by an indomitably ill will with these theeo mon man tie no of 0 their s ches ives ever kioa gains i a response beyond a mechanical nod of 0 the bead or nu nn ernnt any femmino feminine assertion is iteana ly y ignored either cither lj by onlo or unlit te crenco ronco cr these are arc une ageo which cannot uil fail to distort and pervert tho the nature of 0 a woman correct judg mout mont con can not cot exist dial and all vitality of 0 feeling is ia crushed tho the dome ilo metio stio tyrant dona does not always storm on oud bustle LO ho may leavo lug his seasons of 0 softened feeling celi cR but ho ii inexorable in lis hit demands dea oJa tied there is a quiet and Pott letl determination in 10 his manner against which it is i to contend does vo a I 1 eny any act ail aa I 1 direct and this is tho the creal to which many a wea k woman lias bits answered jno of this class thrusts books anil and papers out of tight bight when ellis eho hears her footsteps fearing that tbt they may serve rig in a pretext for or hini him to had flud fault alt with wilh tho dinner buying no do testa for or reading himself ito ho insists apon being by her to prat pratt llo loo by which namo ho he graciously gracio oely dubs duba hor her dional powers which aro are far aboto tho the average oliber caliber chou lately visiting a friand who ho hall had within bor ber all the requisites of 0 mentill ability our oo 00 conversation drifted toward books Venturing to ask her glicr opinion of ono ODO of tile tha later novels imagine our conr when rho exclaimed 11 oh I 1 never dover road read novels norela I 1 like to do so e but ray i ay iy husband wont al lowit it ho diakes me read the alia encyclopedia noil and different hi fistori stOri alcad to him la in tho the but bat a work koak of ho be says eny I 1 shelf never netar touch I 1 sho she did not for a moment that she bho WM wan an oba tot for rootlet but the pres euria which hal hail boon been brought bron glit to bear epou tier her own tastes aca thought hon glit that she wis was performing 0 only aly an act of ft witolf cluty another bursian ii insists upon apon a report of 0 every visitor who has haa entered his bin homo during hit his all alliance aba ancs sance anil and the tabi tanco of every utterance nde ranco they way my bavo maila made it if ally seem atam contrary to his hii own particular VISITS views tin his wito into is strictly forbidden ever to receive these Titi torr tore another still compels nu an industrious and frugal blo to ask aek hn but cither to lo visit or outer laia tAia low few friends she is never ot at liberty to tomako make the most trivial engagement freely owl aad inde penile one obtrusively interferes with every detail in bonse bonsa hold management while lu ho told bililly I 1 Y deserts lis lia f to 0 a difo 11 sli set and foider i rainy many a man ronld love guarded with jealous care the narrow economy churak the clit ul of fo 90 miley women has besu e 1 by the tha rigid exaction of huo baudi with regard to money tho the mail who vrho can not irest his purse with lenco to hils hi wife lul tile the wito wife nho will abuse thil thi confidence ore are void of tho the truo true ples plea which govern a happy household the woman who odenis from froia the amount anoint ol to her bar tor for bouLe hold for Lecos i sary per bonal wasti wants hati lai la i in nine cases oat of ten feet beau brought to this thil moral blind by th hatsh and grinding guiniling grini ling spirit of 0 a hua hubband bAnd wo havo acen a high spirited wocia wocia i witti with such inch a degree of eart rity so an to the tha expands taro of 0 c r dollar and receive soch aoh a b lambdi 1 fotr eravi c after in the eye of children naj and berr ants anti eich each worn oman unless it oil fool should have till the tf whole hole jot orol limatine arnt ot of he bo home I 1 chii ix in tier legitimate field for authority which abound nover bo be encroached upon by masculine lie ilio tation it la is these domestic in felicities alich are every day lessoning lesio ning tile 0 of the home bono tie lia conr standard of moral ant us as liy by a withering frost rost the needs of an n upright chera cLar which under anjer diffor ent would unfold toward a perfect aej a lio life blight ing efforts tal och are the result of that lit thoughtlessness which many IQ in entering the tho marriage mir ringo not taking into those important attributes ol of each other which will result in a union cisro garding all ail choso softening iDil acnes of 0 mutual forbearance which should over ever bo be exercised to cill forth tho the ten dot dor consideration for the personal pere oual tables of 0 ecob other oilier which even io in tho lite moat perfect marriage mur tiago can never rna ill ia parallel lines cincinnati gazette Oa zette |