Show ky jil 00 jg F r qi m 3 COUNTRY VISITING tile batles of f idolfo llo and fluent the charm of au an country alonge no one possessed of his bis senses would invite a person to his country house for the purpose ol of making him unhappy at least so one at first thought but it is 13 all ai obvious fact according to mrs sherwood who is 11 authority on oil manners and social ii sages that very mally guests air air united invited to the country houses of their fi trends aud and are aie extremely aniser miN erable ble while there they have halt to rise at unusual hours houi deat eat n lien they are not hungry tit ame ire or walk or play tennis when they would mould picter doing anything ani ilse else and they the arp are obliged to give up I 1 those host hours which aich are prec precious ions to them for other duties or pleas picas urs tires so tint many people atter after nit an expel i ence of visiting malting tile aie apt to say xo no more it ore of 0 the alt ery of vi biting for me if I 1 3 ou ise A lady 1 idy guest eais a mrs sherwood Shei wood i i apt to be a slave sla P from rom the alie tact fact that as yet lit tile the american hostess has fins riot not learned thit that the truest hospitality Is to let her hei guest alone and to allow her to enjoy enjo her self belt in tier her own way A thoroughly well bred guest mikes makes no trouble in a hoube she has the inspirit of oa a lady and Is cato caie fill ill thit no pi plan in ol of her bei bo hostess hof etess stess baill ba addia dis ar arranged b her ber presence slie she mentions all tier her separate invitations imitations deniges to know when lei her wishes her ter pria pres ence if the car carnage riago can take her hither and yon or if she way muy be allonce allot ed to hire a I 1 age talal 1 I he be chirm charin of tin an american country 1 liisi ib i generally Keuer all abatt is it i home hoine anil and sacred to home duties A model guest gaic sl noer never infringes tor for one moment of on the right ight s of the master ina of tho the house houe hou e sit slie net tt er spoilt his dinner or hu his dris 0 by being lile late blie bhe beer sends him back to bring brin her parasol pi raol she bhe never ne er abuses his friends oi 01 tin the family dog sho she Is cartful careful to in from topics she join h ID N haibt table if she knows b how to play pla but bile ought never to ile bo dilill ed to riso rise en at hour earlier cir lier than her wont be because cause le ie v to talo an early train for tonn alese early perfunctory break fuls fasts jre are liot times fur for conversation nud and they ruin the day for many bad sleepers there Is no onice office in tho the world which khouli br be filled with such stub punctilious de vot 01 ol loll ion propriety pro and self respect as tint that of 0 it if a lady ever ci er allows allow s tier lier guei to feel f tl ILA she Is 15 it a chube ot of blie ble i isolates the ferst rule of if she fail in any way in her adious as liotti ss to a guint w A horn nom the she has invited ini ted b bin lie thoms shows herself to be belli ill bred and iano rant 1 it of the first principles ol of poli politeness tenes ahe invite twelve people to clinner arid then ak them to dine ou oil til the t pavement pi thu than ignore or withdraw draw froin rom I 1 i t 1 1 llvell and |