Show gentle Bree breeding dind boosts chances for success by JOHN A men of tho the older r school chool are disposed tit nt the present 13 timo time to resent some of the lie shortcomings in deportment which they find in the younger younge r generation they are inclined to find and fault with the young man because of his general lack of reverence for anything they criticize liia his dresa as loud they icy see bee in him almost the antithesis of the young nian man as lie was in their day remembering all that hint was required rom comred red of themselves in deportment nent these older observers verg of the younger generation may go a little too far in iii criticisms of tile tho present type of young business man the they Y nay may exaggerate a biffle their own early virtues they hoy may fall fail to recognize that tho the times and tile manners of men mell are subject to change rut but it remains that for the y yoking ourn M man entering business not a little of liia his chat chances ices for success cesi way may depend upon his deportment there can call lc be no cut and dried stant standard lard of bosc manner measuring up tip to every line of occupation occasionally one sees seca tho the extreme modest type of young 0 man mail in public places who in the effort to lie lc regardful of hils deportment goes to painful extremes perhaps lie enters a general office afi ico which has a general lobby outside a railing which is set aside for tho the general public ile he may remove remove his hat on entering the door and stand at ilic hc railing lint hat in lian liand waiting attention front from an attendant fit la in my observations the young inan may be guilty of a faux pas costing liim him dt dearly arly if his mission to the place admits almost universally ali tho e onice ace attendant is disposed to show his contempt of such ouch a caller ile he decides that such a man mail seeking C audience ot of some gome ono insi inside is anxious in tho the experience of tho attendant those persons anxious to get inside are arc persons whom lio lie lias has found it to dismiss if lie he can f I 1 in these busy crowding times d a little of tile old fashioned courtesy an and d consideration once ruled arno among 19 gentle people COMO comes to th the hurried man mail of business with all its old subtleness and balm balin when occasionally sio nally a hurrying man passing through a doorway I 1 ahead of you pauses a moment to lb hold it open and yoland you nod the thank you that hat springs to your lips cant Y you feel that mutually tile the two of you have expert fricek a little something not exactly related to tho the sordid boroa of life there iti is plenty of time still for these dieso small amell r a 4 n ce s of 0 gentle breeding deportment bascil basal on dionest deven decency I 1 ey still ia u tit it a premium in tile world the young man nt at large cannot cannat afford to t forget the fact t w A |