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Show If / / Sweetheart Keeps KeepsPostponzng KeepsPostponing KeepsPostponing Postponzng Postponing WeddingShe's WeddingShes Weddmg Wedding , . , STle She's Shes ' , Probably Ftchle Flcltle Ficlcle FiclcleDEAR FtchleEAR DENE I have havebeen havebeen havebeen DEAR ( EAR DORIS DOIUS almost en ena engaged en- en ent engaged-or engaged or engaged - - or been Atfirst At Atkeeps - t - girl irl for lor two years gaged a cd to a it public be- be because because - - : t make first t we couldn objections obicctions hut but hutI butI family 8 s cause 01 of my out of tbelr their attitude attitudeand attitudeand them I talked fiancee How However However accepted mY and they reCuses refuses to let me annonnce announce annonncetbe announceShe ever she even noW nowthe She Shekecps Shethe engagement tbe the tile the tilewedding thekeeps day or of ofwedding postponing postponmg tbe the tin tinfriends keeps kecps of our ourfriends ourfriends bmt hint to any and 1l if I wedding engaged engagedshe engagedshe are a- a aL , really friends t11 thit tlizt ' t we - Into a temper She won sne snewear twear t she flies fbes fires L temperher - - - - - her " - and < . irui sheclaims she sheIwear I gave gaveclaims , " - .claims claims wear the ring , nng i ia to have bave haveave other boy boyfnends boyfriends the right Iwear claims ave aveother fnends friends and says I maygirl may have otbergirl otherfriends other otber othert Throngh Through " --t t - It - aU all ll ihc she ! rha 'lays lays gays 'laysshe gaysshe ' T- T TLshe ' - " girl ' - fnends friends - But Butwhat Butwhat believe her hertrjif me and I loves Lshe she refusal refusalto what Is tbe the meanmg meaning . . _ of her - trjif d k- k kto - - - - - to make the fact of our relationship relatlo1\Shlp relatlo1 Shlp relatlo1ShlpknownB relationshipknownB relationshipknown \ known-B known B known " ' ' ' - B R FANSWERThere FANSwERrThere F FANSWER n ore oredistasteful oredistasteful oredistasteful is nothing nothmg ANSWER-There ANSWER There ANSwERr-There ANSwERr ANSWER - - There distasteful than having to enlightena enhghtena enhghten enlighten the natureof natureof nature chap as to a nice young ot of his fickle sweetheart . . And certamJy certainly cer cer- - " * Tt V Vyour F Fhad Fhad letter B R long tamJy tainly If your of hope for foryour foryour had gIven me a glimmer the thehope thehope thehope have stressed your case I Id d hope for all It was worth worthBut worthBut worthBut But the tacts facts look uncompromlsingly uncompromisIngly uncompromis uncompromls uncompromisingly ingly clear clearHere clearHere clearHere Here is a girl who presumablylikes presumablylikes presumably presumablylikes likes steady devotion as much as asany asany asany any other normally vain vam woman womanShe womanShe womanShe ot of security secunty lD in lDduced induced induced She enoys enJoys ] that sense duced by the knowledge knowJedge that there thereis hand waiting waltmg to do her herbiddingready herbiddingready herbidding IS a man on bidding-ready bidding ready - ready to be her escort- escort escortanXIous escortanxious escort-anxious escort anxious - anXIous to prove his undying love lovefor lovefor lovefor for her This she is not willing W11hng togIve togive to togive give upBut upBut up upBut But on the other hand she has a asneaking asneaking asneaking sneaking suspicion that her steady steadybeau steadybeau beau is not the hero she s dreamed dreamed.of dreamedof dreamedI . of Perhaps if she waited a whIle whIleMr whileMr whileMr Mr Right would come along And AndlD Andin Andin lD in the meantime nothing nothmg could be bemore bemore bemore more convenient convement than to have Mr MrWrong MrWrong MrWrong Wrong on tap registering reglstermg devotionin devohonin devohon devotion in a big wayI wayBeliete way wayBelieve I Believe BeZetc Beliete , me B n R F there IIIere III ere are hundreds hun hundre hundreds dre dreds < of heartless l.eartless leartless . sel/lsh sel lsh sell-h sell h selfish { / - $ young Ihongs things thingsin ' 1 in the Ihe ivorld world uho play this trick Irick regu reguI regularly regularly regularly I larly on 11 tl 11elr tlerr t ! eir elr err unsuspect zm-suspect zm suspect - ng admirersTl admirers admirersTI ' Tl TI Tle TIa e a wonder to me is 15 l1 tl ii tle iie e i I nfa I 1 ng nggood nggood nggoodialure good goodr r , alure ature ivitli wllh with tihich ulHch which these 11.ese 11ese . aidcntswains adent ardent adentswaons ardentswains , swaons swains accept accepr excuses and alld postpone postponemen postponemeets postponements men/ men meets menalld / $ andal and alld at 01 al bis bu Isis It must mmt become ap op apparent opparent apparent parent after afler a u.h uh wh . Ie le to even tl t1 tle t1a e a mostcred most mostcred mostcreel cred creel Ions lous loss youth , oulh that Ihal some/lonE some lonE sornetling sometl / ing isu.rong isurong 15 is 15taong iswrong taong wrong . with IVlll witha . a sit atton alton ation in tthich uh.ell uhell which whicha . a lady ladycia ladyclams ladyclams cia clams ms to lote lore 101 e her 1 1ero ero yet conlult conlultally conlir contir conlirally u ually ally refuses to make male l.m lm Iim I . im her prnale prorate prnaleand prorateand pniale1end and personal possess possession possessionIt . on onIt It is pretty safe to say that th"t tht " when whena a galls gal is in lD love she will move Heav Heaven Heaven Heaven en and earth to hasten the weddmg wedding weddmgdate weddingdate weddingdate date not to postpone It it . . Unless Unlessthere Unlessthere Unlessthere there Is a really grave reason for fordeJay fordelay fordelay deJay delay it is the female ot of the specIes specIeswho specieswho specieswho who clamors tor for wedding weddmg bells She Shewants Shewants Shewants wants her ring and she wants her herweddmg herwedding herwedding weddmg wedding and she wants the world worldto worldto worldto to know that Mr Right belongs belongsexclusIvely belongsexclusively belongsexclusively exclusIvely to her She also wants wantsto wantsto wantsto to prevent any other woman from frommakmg frommaking frommaking makmg making even a temporary claim on onher onher onher her hero s time trme and affechonSo affectionSo affection affechon I ISo So that when a fiancee shilly shI1ly shal shallies shallies shallies lies and fakes excuses and urges urgesfreedom urgesfreedom urgesfreedom freedom and independence mdependence for both bothparties bothparties bothparties parties to the contract contr-act contr act - she is dem demonstratmg demonstrating demonstratmg onstratmg onstrating fairly conclusively that thatshe thatshe thatshe she is not marriage marnage minded She Sheproves Sheproves proves that she is holding on to a agood agood agood good sure thing with one hand and and.feelmg andfeeling andfeeling .feelmg feelmg feeling . around for a more excIting excItingromance excitingromance excitingromance romance with the otherBe otherBe other otherBe Be warned B R P F and don t twaste twaste twaste waste your youth waiting waltmg for yourgirl yourgirl your yourgirl girl to find someone she likes better betterthan betterJhan I Ithan than you youDEAR pu _ I o DEAR r AR DORIS DENE 1\Iy 1 Iy My \ daugh daughter ! . ter married marned a boy three years yearsago yearsago , ago who Is nice enough m in bis hIS "ay ay way " but naybut waybut has proved a very bad provider providerHis providerBis I IB.s B.s Bs His . salary at present does not en enable enable I Iable able theyhave him to support a wife wIle and they , have had to come to live bve with me meI meI meI I daughterIs am not rich nch and as my daughter daughterI I . Is not good at housework houscwork I am over overworked overworked worked \ My 1\Iy 1 Iy son in law is still stili work workI workIng workbig worklas I Ing big but at a greatly reduced sal salary salary . ary I feel that I am being bemg made to topay topay topay pay tor for my daughter s matnmomal matrimonial matnmomalmistake matrimonialmistake matrimonialmistake mistake but do not know how to get getrid getrid getrid rid of the incubus Is it my duty to toI teU tell totell toteU the ( he boy bay he must get gct out and fend fcnd fendport I fcndfor fendI fendfor for hImself until he IS able to su suport sup P support port his WICe-l\lrs WICe l lrs wife-Mrs wife Mrs wife ' " - \ Mrs A GP GANSWERFirst GANSWERFirst G ANSWER-First ANSWER First ANSWER - - First ot of allIt all it might be bea bea bea a daughterto good idea to train tram your daughter to ba be usefularound useful around the house so that sothat at least you would not be over herown worked overworked Presumably it If she had her own bea home she d have to learn to be a good housekeeper and it is cer certamly certarnly tt1l1ly certt1l1ly tarnly beallowed bea not right tight that she should be depending dependmg a allowed owed to drJ.ftIdly driftidly drift drJ.ft drJft . idly along aJong depend mg on you to cook and clean eJean and walt wait andwait andwalt on herIn herIn her herIn In factIt tact fact it looks as thou though h g your yourem yourdaughters hdaughter daughter s Probl Problg problem em v . were here ere more se senous serlous serious rlous rious than your son in law Jaw s There sThere is no e evidence VI d enCe to dthat thatVI prove that your provethat proveyour your s sw " -w w i-i i - i- i iM son - law - - ' - - - - ta buta In Is anythmg anything _ . , ? 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