Show The I ADVICE TO WOMEN AND MEN WHO ARE TROUBLED r L By Kathleen Kaye Z r This department Is conducted solely for tor the tho purpose of ot advising on social and ind domestic problems personal It If you OU ore troubled id let et me help you ou If tr you ou have a 1 problem to w meet let mo mon suggest n a way It If you Oll arc glad Klad Iad lot let m mo me 6 rejoice with you rOll strictly confIdentiaL communications to this department will vIli be bo treated ns RS All letters must bear tho the signature ture of tho writer Tho The Initials on only I will be he used unless some Homo dIstinguishing mime is supplier supplied and anonymous ls writers w will bo I Ignored Address mo nie ver personally In jn care of ot Tho Tim Telegram Dear Miss Kaye Will Win you please answer the following fol foi 0 lowing questions 1 How old oldis oldis oldis is Earle 2 2 Is he lie married 1 If so to whom 3 3 What can I II I use to remove warts 4 Wh What t th h has s become of Doily Dolfy Dale 5 E. What is 18 the latest ballroom dance that will be bo popular this summer summer sum mer 6 6 WI Will you please tell me some harmless method of reducing re re- a large bust Is a solution solution tion of epsom salts and hot water good for reducing the bust 7 What Is the correct f eight for a girl 5 feet 3 inches Thanking you I remain J J. J H. H B. B 2 Earlo Earle Foxe is married so his age is not important since since I 1 don dont t know it His wife's name is s Celia Cclia Santon 3 3 Warts may be bo removed I Iby by touching them with a toothpick I which has been dipped in nitrate of or silver Repeat this treatment several times dan dally 4 4 Miss Dale has retired retired retired re re- re- re tired to private life lite 5 It is a hittie lit hit little tle tie early to know definitely what will willbe willbe willbe be the tile new summer dance lance I understand understand understand under under- stand that two veI very fine artists are arc areto areto to do exhibition dancing in this eft city be beginning inning within a few days If tf you will wm follow the tho news columns you I will no nc doubt learn where and when you will be able to see these people I in the latest steps G G. G A solution of or I epsom salts Is considered vcr very good for reducing but it is a long tedious way to get results There arc in inthe inthe inthe the market somo some very ery good rubber robber appliances for reducing the bust You will be able to get them in any good corset shop 7 7 The correct weight for a girl of or 5 feet 3 inches is about or pounds depending on the ago Dear Miss Kaye Will vou you please tell me the correct correct cor height of Marguerite Clark Also Mary Pickford and Mae Murray Mur ray Can you give me any idea I which well known actress is the smallest and her height ThankIng Thank Thank- Ing you very much I 1 remain sincerely sincerely sin sin- F. F R R. R B. B lar l Marguerite Clarks Clark's height is 4 c feet JO In inches her weight 90 pounds Biographies on hand do not give the measurements of or either lar 1 Mary Pickford or Mae i 1 Murray Sorry Soro There arc are no figures to bear me out but I am of the opinion that Daphne J Poa i 1 0 of or vaudeville l and musical comedy fame is the smallest America Amen Ameri C cr ca n caress s. s She Rhe is a Western girl girland girland irl irland and is about the size Bize of or a humming bird I Miss G G. C. C L. L D D. S. S hospital hospital- Please send stamp for personal reply Dear Miss Kaye Kayo Your good advie advice has helped so many many many-I I won won- d. d ds' ds if vou you have a suggestion that will help me I am 21 years old and arid have been going with a young man who has been very devoted to mo me for the thelast thelast last laet two years We have been al almost at al most inseparable and have for a afong along along long fong timo time planned to be married However his nationality is such that it would be very much t it ft wile wi hes of hi hi n nar nt if if he I I I I I I I J I i A man never offers to shako shake hands I with a woman The woman takes the I initiative and no gentleman ever reI refuses re- re I fuses the courte courtesy were to marry someone who was not of his nationality He has just explained this condition of affairs to me he lie himself not re realizing until recently when a member of his i family explained to him in order to prevent his marriage This was a I great disappointment to me and has hos made me very unhappy He still wants to go with me and I cannot bear to think of parting from him though we realize that marriage between us is impossible Of course I suppose the proper thing to do is is to leave him now and forget him but I have tried to do doso doso doso so for a long time and the result is added unhappiness I do not mean to be selfish and would not wish to tobe tobe tobe be the cause of a breach between himself and his family fa but to leave him im would cause me mc much grief I have been thinking and worrying about this so 80 much that I cant can't concentrate my thoughts on anything anything anything any any- thing else and am extremely un un un- I happy Should I still continue to togo togo togo go with him knowing that ultimately ulti ulti- we will have to part While I realize that it would bo difficult for you to decide this for forme forme forme me I would be grateful for your advice through The Telegram JOSIE Are you quite convinced that this young oung man is sincere in his devotion to you and has not nol manufactured the story tor of or family opposition to servo serve asan as asan asan an excuse for fOl not fulfilling his promises promises promises prom prom- to you you Were hi his parents building building build build- ing so much on the sons son's marriage with one of his own count country women does it not s seem eem ver very plausible that they would have confided it to him long ago aso You poor POOl sweet unselfish trusting little woman Would that the tho world could boast of many so unlearned in skepticism skepticism And what 3 a pit pity litY to spoil your our sweet faith I It seems plain to o me dear that the theman theman man you ou love e has tired of you OU nn and Is I not riot honorable enough to ask for tor his release I cannot Imagine lne a n young man desperately In love lo submitting so passively pas has I to an edict even from his father and mother Few Pew parents are arc so selfish selfish self self- ish as to hold out against t their sons son's marriage lago when thc they find his whole happiness for fOl all time depends upon it and were his whole heartland soul soulIn soulIn soulin In It thc they could be reconciled to hl his marriage e with you rou Be lle m my supposition tion right or wron wrong m my a advice alce to you OU OUIs Is the same However har hard tho the battle put this man mall out of your life You Yo cannot afford to be hampered b by a II I courtship which can profit you ou nothing noth ing ing- ingBy D By prolonging prolonging- It you are prolonging prolong prolong- noth-I noth in ing your our unhappiness and fretting awa away strength of purpose that you wl will need when you OU do O take the final stand for for take it you ou must sooner or later Determine to be happy without him Do Donot Donot not ot admit even to yourself that there is anyone In the world who is absolutely absolute absolute- ly essential to your happiness Declare Declare De De- clare dare yourself to be sufficient self-sufficient and b by this Yer very assertion you will rill have gained a n foothold on the road to con con- Interest yourself In others and In lI lightening someone's load here and sending a little ra ray of sunshine there you'll be he surprised to see how I soon It will be reflected In yourself Time will surely drive away awa all the lit lit- little tle heartaches and pan pangs of regret and andere andere andere ere you know It you will ill find yourself living in the future again with your back turned squarely on the past And Just around tho the corner bravo little girl I S see e waiting for yOu a man to so big so fine so o noble so stron strong that no power on eal eaith th can stand between him and the girl of ot his choice Mrs E. E M. M Your M.-Your Your query has hns been heen re referred referred re- re to the thc Friend of ot the People de de- de- de This rum department deals only with matters social personal and domestic What is is the difference between a gentleman and all his doings and a person that ill is known as a smart Aleek Aleck and all III his ways way and habits habits hab hab- its Please show the difference in your fancy paper and oblige E. E C C. C S. S Ogden A gentleman A man nian who ho has tact and grace s ho he Is unselfish and kind courteous and blind to the faults of ot others other he ho will challen challenge e the man who peaks tI lightly of a woman and hell he'll u laugh h at ut his friends friend's oldest Joke H He will sympathize with friends when the road Toad Is rou rough h Ill id hell he'll Inu laugh h with them when th th rIdings good In a word a a gentleman Is one of Gods God's masterpieces mas mas- and every man can b hp he one A smart Aleck A man who Is a bore boro and a D. boor a pest and a D. thief thief- a a. thief because ho st steals als' als the thc time of ot his friends frienda Ho He Is fR discourteous and and be he laughs laugh loudly at his own alleged wit wlL He ou ought ht to be In the but ho lie is ever with us He I-fe is the thc one thing that no man should be There ought to be un au open st st. season son for lor hunting bunting him down but the world is not far tar enough advanced ad In a word a a. smart Aleck J is tho the opposite of or u a gentleman gentleman and and It is his own fault |