Show Wy a A 1 The Th um umI I k Ik i T i ADVICE TO WOMEN WoMEN AND MEN WHO ARE TROUBLED 1 pf J By Kathleen Kaye Wr u 1 t I This department i is conducted solely for tho purpose of advising on social l and domestic problems p if It you ar aro troubled let me help you It If you OU have a problem to meet let me suggest a 3 way If It you arc are glad let Jet me rejoice with you AH An communications to this department will be treated ns RS strictly d Letters Lettera must bear tho signa signature turo of ot tho the writer Tho The Initials only i trill bo used unless somo some distinguishing name nome In Is supplied TrIflerS and anonymous writers will vIli bo Ignored Address mo personally In caro care of oC Tho Telegram Dear Miss Kayo Kaye it t I 1 am a Q young J girl of 20 years rand and have attended college for r years Whilo While there thero I met a number number number num- num ber of college men and anti havo have been corresponding with two of them for the past year I am engaged to a young man seven years my senior and he has asked me to re- re from writing to these young men Do you think I 1 should stop knowing we shall bo be married this summer ummer I t am away from tho man manI I 1 I am engaged to and he goes with illO no ono one elso else and writes to no other girls girIs Thanking you M. M K If f C you grant a trivial request so 80 now how do you ou hope to neet et t the greater ones so 80 prevalent in Jl 11 married life Blessed is tho the wom- wom n who has chosen for tor a husband a aDan anan nan Dan who vho because of or his great love lovo lovend lovend nd singleness leness of oC purpose finds rinds It It- no to forego his own lIttle in- in pleasures for tor tho the common ead of ot their union and she should reciprocate When two people ike oath to live as one they fire are setIn set- set In tag Ing up for themselves a 3 life of oC give give- take nd-take and unless you ou my dear an l learn arn to give as aswell wen well as take grace glace illy happiness cannot result from your our nion In wedlock you OU may a ask k noth- noth for ig-for the tho ln individual but all in the ame of the tho partnership Can you well fk in k-in In the name of or the partnership partnership- ie e continuation of ot your correspond correspond- pea with these men 1 If It not cheer cheer- illy erase their names from your our list Dear Miss Mils Kayo Kaye I would liko to know if f these tablets advertised in The Tho Telegram are harmless for reducing reducing reducing ing f fat t. t Is there anything you can put with white to make mako tM eyebrows grow faster Sincerely Sincerely Sincerely Sin Sin- B. B S. S I The only safe way to reduce Is b by rUng eting and exercise If It you au are aro faith falth- I il 1 In the use of white vaseline you will nd rid It vel very effective Nothing will the work quickly Dear Miss Kaye I am m writing you these few fow lines to ask of you your advice on these few subjects I am going with a ayoung ayoung ayoung young lady whom I really like a little and she one has two sisters and anyway I call on her once or twIce a week and we wo generally go to some somo theatre Well anyway her mother has some very queer ideas When I call she sho knows we wo are arc going going go go- ing out and she says to her other two daughters you liko like to go to tho the theatre too Mind you right in front of ot me So of course courso you know I h have havo to say Why certainly come right along and enjoy yourselves with us but ut I hate to go out with them all And her sisters are aro old enough to know better but they dont don't hesitate in inputting inputting inputting putting on their gowns and stepping stepping step step- ping right along I h have asked the tho girl whom I go with to kind of say something to mother about it So eke he he did but it didn't jave J-jave any effect ef of- of on her She Sho told her if I did not like the tho idea of taking them all along why I need not call at all So we h have been meeting up town but now flow her mother will not let her leave the house unless I call and she the is is 22 years old I I I IA A gentleman never precedes a n woman through a door either cither at homo home or In society He must however step stepIn In Iii front fron of ot her to open a a. closed door then ho he holds the door while she passes through and closes it after her The man holds a revolving door while the woman enters a 3 section fol followers followers ol- ol lowers Jowel's her through and takes care caro that s she he Is saCe safely t released I to hear from you soon on this matter matter matter mat mat- ter I thank you C. C M. M Poor foolish mother ShO Is robbing herself herselt and her family of at the thc most beautiful thing In life the life the memory in after years cars of ot a happy home a place where love was as law self sel came me last and andaU andall andall all aU lived JIved and worked cheerfully together er for tor the common common good of ot the tho house house- hold Poor foolish woman woman She Is not only building troubles for tor herself herselt but she Is Jeopardizing the future lives and happiness of or her daughters Wo We can only hope her will not come too late laCe There ere Is a H great void left In a girls girl's life by hy the tho lack of or a mothers mother's gul guiding care and man many times she will need the friendship of ot someone stronger than herself Make ake yourself a a. good influence In her life Ute life caro for tor her as you would a younger sister Bister and help her to grow into a beautiful wom worn As to the other two girls Irl Vh Why not Interest two of ot your our boy friends In them Thus you ou ma may strike a triple blow at the tho trouble you rou are aro facing by eliminating the necessity of ot meeting your our friend down town relieving yourself yourself your your- self of ot their company compan and at the same ame time providing pi entertainment entert for them Try this and if it does not work out outwell outwell well write me again Kathleen Kaye I cannot start my letter to you II in the proper way because I dont don't know whether you are a miss or Mrs Will you please tell me how hovi to mako make my hands white They are not chappy and I dont don't havo have thorn thom in water very vary much Tho The veins on en my hands handa are largo large and nearly always show Can you tell me how to to tomake make them smaller so they wont won't show I thank you L. L B. B When In doubt say MIse We Wenone W I none of ot us mind It I think your trouble Is wholly due to toa toa a faulty ault circulation This may be caused by tight clothing See to It that your collars armholes and belts are arc sufficiently loose that they do o not Impede tho the flow of ot blood Stimulate your our circulation b by exercising freely treel- swimming and walking are vel very good If It after aeter a n few ew weeks this annoying condition still sUIt exists consult your physic Phys Ic Ion |