Show Ll 1 1 1 n i t s u tome 0 11 I s t t h BETTY p. p f Letters and questions for this department should be addressed to Miss Miss Miss' Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side of the paper It is necessary to append name your name and address but these are held in confidence and will not be published ear ear ar Miss Blair I I have hav been reading Hearts Heart's oven ven for quite awhile and I wondering now why it is called carts cart's Haven It seems to be changed Since so many wish to attack Ne Newcomer coner I for one oe will stand standy y him in the battle Hurrah for I can say ditto for jV Everything he says To make my Setter otter shorter why repeat his ve Ive ve talked with several here and und ind n l they get the wrong wrong impression when lien speaking of Salt Lake being ike Paris It is not for its style tiKe o ot or goodness knows knows' they have any any- king h ng but style and manners maners b but t j. j it fast ways to which one one e reel re- re re el ers I have traveled all over the tha ast st and a great part of the w west st ma n d I r h can sincerely say that Salt 1 rake fake has any city of its si size she e be beate ter or its wild and flirtatious flirtatious' 9 girls iris anc and anti led men i er J. J JK K If you you wore y your ur hoes lOeS out on those dear old looking for for- work Why ont olit t you yOLe come back to your haven f all the wick wicked d states states' Because m ou o ou cant can't find the money here dare so in for asHy as you can th the east our our wild times I meet With some your ort lort on the street every lay ay The girls of the other steles states ou cu speak of who are of good reeding dont don't care for your sort when considering mar mar- mar mar- lage Everyone longs for that that lit lit lit- home for after all that's all that eally feally is worth while Why dont don't f ou ou come back and settle d down pith one one in Salt Lake That one oneil oneill ill il work and keep you no doubt The irhe he girls of the east will not and ont have to because most of their en ien are all men They inspire r sir heir r men to bigger and bett better r ings than running wild and arid they not uphold them who are more more dined to do mischief Neither they nag them No I dont don't mean all here ere are that I ay ray but I can be sure in in saying I ie e majority are because the ma ma- are f foreign re That is wh why y they havo have that bold way As for l Kentucky it is is the east's Utah for foreign people Salt Lake is getting to be a regular dumping ground for them I know there thero are more women here than men but no refined d girl will try to attract me mens men's attention i Im Im I'm w wl wondering l too Co J J. J K K if you have been gone gOle from rom this little city of bf Salt Lake very long and d if you were ever out before You haven't a v very ry extensive viewpoint for one who has traveled very much You are n not t bettering yourself by mixing mixing mix mix- ing in a 3 a better class but your kind find the refined class a bore As As for for forthe the tha girls here b being ing the 1 most beautiful of any in the world I can say they ire are are good artists Our bur girls of the other states you I ch charge ge so bitterly do not not care to paint There is a look of character in their faces that one misses in a painted face There is is just that dumb blank stare that these painted painted paint paint- ed fa faces es always hold I hope Miss Blair that my letter has lot been too long and you may print it if i you y you wish for I 1 will challenge challenge chal chal- lenge anyone anyone who wishes to defy me for I have a foundation for every word I say 1 I do wish we could have more friendly visits and not so many many arguments DICK i c Now Dick arent aren't you the consistent consistent con con- chap though I do wish weco we co could d have more friendly visits and not so many arguments Yes and you start the friendly visit and discouragement discouragement dis dis- of argument with a aletter aletter aletter letter that would be he likely to fill the columns ns of Hearts Heart's Haven with nothing else lse but for but for weeks to come if we we didn't step to the fore and discourage such such futility I i I You You tell us J Hearts s Haven has changed but truly it has not so much because it is oes is-oes thing one day and another the n an and has always been that way There are no set rules for for conducting ll it H it All we ve wish to do is to give you ash as h interesting reading leading as possible and to to be of as much service After all the readers and contributors make mate the column You have your our opinion and J. J Khas K has his Who Vho is to judge which Isa is isa isa a better opinion You seem exceptionally exceptionally exceptionally vindictive toward the town you OU are a at present calling home What has upset you ou And really Dick you are sort of amusing in inthe inthe inthe the differentiation you mal make e between between be between be- be tween men of the east and west and women of the east and west Do they really stand out one from the other like that It lt seems tome tome to tome me that now and then we hear of cosmetics being used in n the east and also that wom women n work and earn money there now and then whether married or single Well We'll agree that a a painted face gives forth nothing but a vacant stare and girls w who o apply cosmetics cosmetics cosmetics cos cos- until their fac faces s loo look like comic masks are are merely displaying to the world a total lack of true culture e and a a goodly amount of pitiful ignorance but we wont won't agree that this failing is is' is typical of Utah and Salt Lake only The eastern girls Inspire their men to bigger and better things Possibly so but Dicks Dic why have we so many eastern men living inthe inthe in inthe the west west and refusing to return to I the east east once having lived in the west But then we wont won't go into that as It would lead to endless and futile citing citing- of instances and argument You surely had bad a chip on on your shoulder when you wrote your letter letter letter let let- ter but we were glad to hear from you anyway y so 10 come again I I IDea IDear Dear Dea Miss Miss' Blair Can Carl you please pleas give me me thed t tand and place of Clara Barton's Bartons birth And in in what way way was she connected with the Red Cross Also when did she die Thank you JANIE Clara Barton the famous American American Ameri Ameri- can philanthropist was born bon in Oxford Oxford Oxford Ox Ox- ford Mass in 1821 Sh She She was the daughter of a soldier and during the Civil war var she devoted herself to the care of the sick and wounded And at the Close of the war she worked tirelessly in tracing missing men Her efforts won her a national reputation Later she was with the International Red Cross in the Prussian Franco-Prussian war and in 1881 she was vas made the first official pres- pres tlde ident t of the the At Red Cross Clara Car Barton died in m 1912 Her life was was full of service and varied aried experiences and you you'd d enjoy reading a complete sketch of her he life You might like to glance through the reports of- of her work as given in her History of the RedCross Red RedCross RedCross Cross In Peace pease and War published I in 1898 Dear Dean M Miss is Blair Will you kindly give me me the addresses ad ad- dresses of Bradstreets Bradstreet's and of Duns Dun's I wish to know the rating and particulars of a small business here in before putting any money into it Thanking you for past favors A A. A N N. N Duns Dun's International Review the them m magazine is published at Broadway Broadway Broadway Broad Broad- way New York YorI The Bradstreet company maintains maintains maintains main main- offices in most of the large cities and your letter will reach the company if you address it merely New York City or San Francisco Cal Are you sure how however ver that this company would be able to give you the desired information if the b business is small and in a smalltown small smalltown smalltown town We believe th that t you would be much more likely to get details if Ir you inquired for particulars from your local credit association possibly possibly pos pos- sibly the Reno office The other companies have their regular subscribers subscribers subscribers sub sub- scribers to their service and it is for their benefit that ratings are kept up but they wouldn't be likely to have an any great amount of detail on a small business I Dear Betty Blair I just wonder if Im I'm going to be beany beany beany any bother in your column I just wonder if Im I'm asking too too many ques ques- questions for my first time Gee Betty but your corner is is interesting Do girls play in orchestras like at at ae dance halls and theatres What would be polite to say when applying for a position as a telephone telephone telephone tele tele- phone operator Auntie Auntie- wishes you lots of goodluck good flood luck and so do I I. I WAITING Thanks to both of you for your your good wishes No you haven't asked too man many questions though your second one is a bit puzzling Just how can an anyone tell anyone else what to say at a given time when she doesn't know what the other fellow is going to say first The circumstances will give you your c clue ue You will be given an application application appU- appU cation blank to fill out and will be asked a few questions s. s but you will find that the person in charge of applicants will give you all the help you reed in answering and in talking talking talk tall ing to her Just be natural ask to see Miss Miss' Jones and when you see her tell her what you want and she will do the rest Yes girls play in some orchestras sometimes only one girl for for example example exam example exam exam- the pianist in a theatre orchestra orches orches- tra and sometimes whole orchestras composed of girls Dear ear Miss Blair Can you tell me when the act v was was passed that granted women tl their citizenship after that i is that it h th h U Id IJ marriage A u ey 7 coo u remain nun American American citizens even if they married foreigners foreigners for eigners If you can give me that date then I wont won't have to bother you to find out whether I still have mine mineor or 01 or not Thanking you WONDERING The Cable act ct was passed passed September September Sep Sep- 22 1922 Wondering Does that save you You ar are ver vel very welcome welcome welcome wel wel- come Dear Miss Blair How long should a girl wait to answer a letter Jetter wrater her by a boy friend who has gone to another city I dont don't want to seem in a a rush or overanxious overanxious but I like this boy a great deal Can you give me any suggestions Much obliged ALIXE How long had he been gone before before be be- be fore he wrote you That might be somewhat of a time gauge Or let tet leta teta a w week k slip by without an ari answer and ad you can rest assured that your lett letter r will be welcome As you intimate inti inti- intimate mate an answer the very very next d day y might not ot be Just the thing Dear Deal Miss Blair Blair- We have a very beautiful thoroughbred thoroughbred thor thoro Persian cat for whom we must find a good home since we are giving up ours ours She has been a af f family mily pet for years and is a gentle and lovable animal We regret parting parting part part- ing with her hervery very much and want tobe to tobe tobe be assured that her new h home me willbe willbe will willbe be a good one where she will be loved She has one kitten now which will soon be old enough to b be given away but it make it much easier for the cat to adjust herself to a a new home if the kitten is allowed al al- al allowed lowed to remain with her for a a week or or of two Sh She requires little care beside be be- be beside side feeding and a simple diet of milk and fresh raw raw meat suffices We hope through your courtesy and column that we may find some some one who will love and care for her as we we have done Will you help us The telephone is Wasatch 2788 2188 and she may be obtained at any time now Thanking you most sincerely REGRETFUL We cant can't imagine your not being able to find Just what you want for such such- sucha a beautiful creature as a Persian Persian Persian Per Per- sian pussy L Let t us Know now if f you dont don't find a home hom for her within afew a afew afew few d days YS 4 3 HINTS ON ETIQUETTE 1 1 Does the waiter walter or the escort draw out a womans woman's chair in a restaurant 2 Should the napkin be unfolded above the table or in the lap 3 3 Should St uld the napkin be unfolded completely or only part way The Answers 1 Th Tim The waiter 2 2 In tho the lap 3 3 Only part way 1 I |