Show 10 l HAVE L L AJ Letters and questions for tins this department should be addressed to Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only n one side of the paper It is is necessary to append your name and but these are Held in confidence and ana will not bo published SS Blair read ad Hearts Heart's Haven and I enjoy j thought that I had some- some ng g to tell to the unhappy wives tk first want to tell them that loft want to argue with the the-n them them- ause ause good night A man nt answer answer one woman without all the unhappy women want to tell one man that he hent nt tf think well when he spoke women He ought to know t hen you arouse all the worn worn- jj ey y are roused against you len ien you arouse one at the time y f all ll agree with you Dont Don't you your youn r n riff that you didn't think well wellen wellen en en you ou said what you did about rt rt skirts and bobbed haired men en And you didn't say any any- 03 ng about some men men fish short short fish short its its its' men long haired hailed men and face men ou Cu U. U might have said the truth you ou shouldn't say it because I truth hurts wives let me tell you t t takes two live wires to proe pro- pro e eight ight and it takes two trouble kers keys to cause causs a trouble and ites' ites it ites es es' es s1 one bad wife and one bad b band nd to destroy a home in most th the cases cant can't analyze it to you you- y yen u. u more for there is not enough space in in 1 Hearts Heart's Haven and Im I'm afraid that some of you might use women's weapon on me which is is the tear and the insults but I doht doNt think that you you will use tears on me Unhappy and Modern Wife How do do you expect to be happy when you think that you can rule your husband as a baby all the tho time when you have tried it out many times and probably you found out that you cant can't do it every time and andin in in every way way Why doht dont you try some other nice nice way You may I ru ruel 1 some husbands but you c cant can't nt rule every husband and probably I your husband is is one of them When you married him you wanted something something some some- thing else but husband and ill in in a short time you found out that you should have a husband Why didn't you study him before you got married mar mar- married ried Probably you were too young and so modern you dont don't believe be lieve in m the thc old fashioned ways Before you get married open your eyes and after you get married close them The modern man mom and the modern modern modern mod mod- ern woman do not think more ot of a marriage than they do of a pair of shoes shoes shoes-if if they dont don't fit change them This Tins world modern wives is is bad rotten and crooked and if you wont won't study men and life be before before be- be fore you got get married youre you're lost and youre you're paying for your ignorance ig ignorance ig ig- norance more than more than a man does When you women are 18 you wish to have a nice nice looking man and he must be of your age tco Lets Let's see if youre you're as smart as you think you are modern We take a girl of 18 who go goes S with a young man of 20 Hes He's nice looking and young too He has told her that if she wont won't many marry him that he will commit suicide He tells h her r that she is is the cutest thing in in this world world and and anything else he can think of You see this young man manis is liar aliar a right there He has seen many other girls more beautiful than this one but he wants to make her believe that she hypnotized him and she says that this is the theman theman theman man she's looking for Of course the girl is as crooked as he is is When he calls her an angel she doesn't tell him that he is is a liar but she believes too th that t she i ian isan is an angel when s sie's sies she's es e's not The young man spends all hi hitti his brey to show show bier ber ier a good time presents prents and sometimes he spends spend more than he can afford to he never rever tells her that he he heis is is a poor poo poorman poorman man working for poor wages waDes an and that if she marries him she mus must forget the good times dances etc and she must stay home because he C cant can't nt afford to give her ev everything every every- ry- ry thing he is is not one of those who climb up the ladder of success easily Everything seems bright They get married After a month or two the young man doesn't buy things any more he has got nothing to say any more the old sport is stingy now The girl then thinks things that he doesn't love her any more and its it's about time for he her now to show her hidden char character and from an angel she I Ill I'll leave this to a married mar I ried vied man to name what The life now becomes insufferable and it has hasto hasto hasto to to end in a divorce or indifferent life that becomes wor work e every day If this girl had picked up a man mana a little older than she is-a is is a man that has more experience of life and believes in sensible love that has something more important than the blind love of the first youth youth the the elements of existence of life The sensible love is is the love lovo that doesn't die AN OLD FASHIONED SINGLE MAN Miss Blair This is is the first time that I have entered your corner or any public discussion and after I got through writing my letter I saw that I had written too much and I dont don't ex expect expect expect ex- ex to be welcome but next time Ill I'll mind my own business and let the husbands and wives wives discuss discus their affairs I wrote what I I thought whether Im I'm right or not and I thank you whether you publish pub lish fish it or not I hope that this is is not the first or last foolish letter you have re received re- re r or r c-r will receive receive Thanking you for the waste of your time reading this over O 0 O. O F. F S. S M M. M Were We're delighted that you didn didn't t mind your own business because we and the readers leaders would have missed a lot We Ve hope this isn isn't t i the last letter that we receive I from you Dear Miss Blair Possibly I might enjoy enjoy the privilege privilege lege of adding my thought to the many that enter your corner from time to time Mr Js J.'s brother is is attempting r to uphold the standards standard of his sex and he is is quite right Miss Ima Modern quoted a description de de- of a modern boy but there are always two sides to a astory story anc and each side must be tie heard from before a definite decision can be reached Miss I. I M M. M defends her sex anc and Mr J. J B B. B is attempting to defend his but so much for the aries I know of numerous young men who are decent and who would re resent resent resent re- re sent these things with which th the modern boy has been charged Theris There Ther is is orate young man who is is Quite quit modern you might say some of hi his ideas are old fashioned with whom I have been closely connected fo for many years and these are his prin I He is is not selfish He is is clean mentally and morally He neither t smokes nor swears swear and drinks very ver seldom He never gambles He ha has told me many times and I know that he is is truthful and sincere sincere that tha he enjoys dancing a great deal i if he has a girl sirl with him to enjoy i it also His sole sale ambition upon thi this occasion is is to see that she is enjoying en enjoying enjoying en- en herself and he is is very proud of her and he does not try to make her jealous This is is his motto If the ip ir whom I am interested will give me mea a square deal I will in in return do the the same samo by her and do everything possible to please her I can point out any number of cas cases s like this among my friends but I cannot go on wasting space like this but I should like to ask why anyone does not show respect due the opposite sex And on the theother theother theother other hand why does Miss Ima Modern say that women are su superior superior su- su or to men I for one dont don't believe it but it will be remembered ered that hat there are always two sides to toa toa a story Usually the person who seems to tobe tobe be in in the wrong is is not given what credit is is due him I hope no offense will be taken at what I have said and that I have not taken up too toom m much ch space JUST ME You are welcome to this much or more space any time you wish to write on such subjects or ones as Interesting Noo No one is likely to ake lake exception to anything YOU have said laid aid In fact you seem to have haye acted as arbitrator between two opposing opposing op- op posing factions Come again and thanks hanks for writing Dear Miss Blair Here is is another puppy for foi some little ittle boy bov or girl She is is is' isa a pretty little ittle collie puppy about 2 months old ld Call at 2141 South Fifth East M. M E C. C B. B Thank you OU and were we're sure jure that someone is going to be delighted to get et such a pet My Vly Dear Miss Blair Recently ly I left in m our church a adue blue due silk umbrella with umbrella with a gray and blue handle As it was a gift I prize it so 50 much and feel that the thearty party arty wants to return return it to me but doesn't know exactly how There would be no questions asked and a reward eward given We have already advertised advertised ad- ad Miss Blair FAITH Well We'll tell anyone who calls your vout address and hope that the Ol one e W who 10 found this umbrella will JI be only too lad glad to 1 know now how to get into communIcation com- com with you Dear Miss Blair What'll I give the girl friend for I Christmas s She's 18 and so beautiful beau beau- ful shed she'd make Helen of Troy look J j like a speck fly-speck on the Woolworth building Three cheers for TH THE E TELEGRAM TELEGRAM TELEGRAM TELE TELE- GRAM the best newspaper in in existence existence existence exist exist- ence and a dozen cheers for you you you- the most clever answer woman am an answering answering Merry Christmas and thanks THE VULGAR BOATMAN My Iy fk e we wax was ix We thank vou one e and all t and may mayve maye ve we exchange felici felicitations felicitations' ta If It you are engaged to this lovely maiden your choice is practically unlimited if not you must be careful careful care care- ful fu because though most anything beautiful 01 or extravagant might appeal appeal appeal ap ap- ap- ap peal to young oung daughter dau friend moth mother r might have serious objections objections objections if It you overstepped the bounds of propriety I asked a young girl I of 18 what she would like for Christmas and here are some of I her hei answers a answers a silk negligee a a. a slinky black one with gold and rose lose rose bindings some blade black satin satin mules mule with ostrich fe feather her at at t this Betty Blair said Dont Don't go gO any farther along that line Madame Grundy would never nevel permit permit y you t to accept those things from your best beaux beaux and and so she continued with witha a little more moie attention to propriety ty Well Veil a sporty silk umbrella wouldn't be so bad An Id I'd adore adorea a pair pall of art alt glass perfume Lottle bottles with or 01 without the perfume I sa saw sa- sawa a deep blue and gold glass candy jai jar that just like an ancient lantern that Id Ip just love to have I r need some new stationery too and I surely wish someone would think to lo hav have ha e a monogram made for for- me nie And oh but there was a gorgeous knitted sport scarf in one of the shops the other day it Vas was knitted knitted knit l ted In Roman stripes of ot gold blue rose and green and would make my navy blue s suit lt look 1001 like a million And so on the on-the the newspapers and shops are filled with ideas s so o chec checkover check checkover over them |